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confusing mixed signals
i'm 16/f and am totally confused my the actions of my recent ex-boyfriend. We recently had a discussion and he really said some things that threw me totally off. First off, the reason he dumped me was because he said he didn't love me anymore and that really hurt. Alright, well then today he tells me that he wants to be careful of other guys and he flipped out when he heard i was interested in another guy, then he tells me he still cares about me, and that he has to tell me something that's very important, but doesn't wanna tell me because he's afraid that it'll screw stuff up. I don't know what this stuff is, but anyway, I really need some help! I think my ex doesnt want me to be with other guys and wants me to be devoted to only him! What should i do??!?!?!?
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He made the decision that he didn't want to be with you anymore, now he has to live with that. Don't allow him to have any say in who you date in the future.
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maybe he wants to get back with you...and after he found out you finally moved on and was interested in someone else... he finally realized he loved you still...be friends for a while and then see how things go from there if things work out for you two to be just friends take it back to the boyfriend girlfriend relationship...if it's meant to be it'll happen
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its like the cliche phrase "you never realize what you had until its gone"
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hey,i think all ex bf's are like that..he still cares for you even tho he said he doesnt love you. maybe he was afraid to show his feelings and now that he has seen u with another guy he probably realizes that he cares for you more than he thought.just give him time he will come around and tell you how he feels.hope i helped.xoxojay
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ok boy your ex sounds alot like me. lol. well ok he obviously still has feelings for you and when he said he didnt love you anymore he didnt mean it and was probably talking out of rage. ask him what it is he has to tell you. it might be that he still likes you. do you still have any feelings for him? if so, give him another shot. if not, tell him you dont. and that you two are just friends. hope i helped you!
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it sounds to me that he's the jealoue type where as you have to still have feelings for him and only him, but he doesnt have to still have feelings for you. until you know what he's going to tell you *which is prolly that he misses you loves you and wants you back* you should stay interested in this new guy. if your ex does decide to come crawling back to you, then just follow your heart in the decision you're going to make
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he doesnt own u u can do whatever u want.u can go out with other boys or u can date him
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My friend had the same problem as you, but her relationship he abused her. He seems like the jelous type, and he still likes you. I would tell him that I`m not going to not talk to my guy friends because of you, he might flip again, but theirs like no other way to say it. It is unhealthy though to listen to everything your boyfriend or a guy says! Remember that!! =)
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Do wat ever u want, he doesn't own nobody does onlu u. Besides ur right he does only want u for himself, but if u keep on hangin around him he just might end up hurtin u alot more than he already has. So if u want to go out with this otha guy then go for it gurl. Don't eva hold bak on a thing like that cuz u never kno u just might regret it.
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He sounds sort of like a stalker to me. Tell him you're over him and you don't want him to feel bad but you don't like him anymore. He might keep pushing you, but just tell him to get over you. I hope I helped! Ratings appreciated. =c)
Love, Rachel
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