Heyy everybody i hope u like my advice column. I like to give advice 2 people who reelie need it. If u ask me a question i'll try to answer as best i can. I jus don't like it wen people ask b/s questions jus to fool around or make sum1 look lyke a dork. So please don't do that to me or ne colomists. I think its kinda disrespectful. and it makes u sound weird. neway don't b afraid 2 ask q's on family or friend questions. I answer those best so i'll stop here so u can read mi advice and see if i'mma good colomist.
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Me & my friends played a prank on this girl in my school that was picking on me, and she turned us in. Yesterday, I wasn't in school and the guidance conselor called all my friends down to the office, turns out EVERYONE was sayen I did it, even my best friends. I did do most of it, but not all of it. & I admitted to it. Are they real friends? (link)
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I don't think that they are ur BEST friends. If they were your best friends, they would have taken the blame 2. If i were u i would consider getting some new best friends. sorry :(
hope i can help
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whenever i blow dry my hair.. it usually turns out poofy and not that straight. any one know how to blowdry ur hair straight or unpoofy? thanks! (link)
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at pharmacy's they sell straight brushes that you use when u blow-dry ur hair. Try that and see how it works!
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this really hot kid asked me out yesterday at the dance and theres this rumor going around that he chased sum1 with a knife and i asked him if it was tru and he said no i said no to him but i kinda like him and besides that at the dance was the first time we ever talked he seems really nice 2 help ! (link)
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get to kno him better and don listen to rumors. then judge him yourself.
hope i help
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ok i have a rash on my back, it has little red bumps going all down my spine.. its really ichy and really red! im really scared because i dont know what it is!! PLEASE HELP ME IM SO SCARED!!!!!!
Thanks so much for all y'all who can help!
*mar* (link)
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it might b an irritation if u have recently changed laundary detegents cuz i had the same thing the other day but i stopped using that kind
hope i can help
~trumpetchyk92
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last night my cousin died in a car accident because someone cut her car breaks off. we dont know who but i am soo sad all i can do is cry, please someone help me to get over this horrible loss (link)
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hey
im sorry about your loss and mayb u can call one of your best friends because friends tend to make you feel better
hope i can help
feel better
~trumpetchyk92
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Alright... So I just held a party which started about five hours ago and ended around 11:00 pm. 8th period today I invited one of my guy friends at the last minute. I told him that he couldn't bring anybody but himself, since there were already going to be a lot of people and my mother would flip if someone she didn't know, showed up at our house uninvited. He told me his friend whom he hasn't seen in a long time was coming to visit, but I told him that he couldn't bring him for reasons I already stated. It was basically an open invitation, if he could come alone, then he could come, but if he couldn't, then that was too bad. So, a little bit before the party after a few early people arrived, he called me and said he was in the neighborhood and was wondering if he could come a few minutes early. I said it was fine, and he came... with a friend in tow... I was a little pissed, but I let it slide for the time being. Well, a little while later after basically everyone arrived, he "pretended" to steal some of my DVD's and lots of food. Then, a few minutes later, he calls me over and says he's got a "shitload of alcohol" in his car. Now, my friends and I are not into that kind of stuff, and it made me really uncomfortable. I basically told him I thought he should leave. He got a little pissed but agreed to it. His friend was kind of just sitting there the whole time, not talking. So they got up and stood at the food table for a while and just hung out. I was really pissed and worried at the time, cuz one of my other freinds was threatening to leave (the alcohol comment made her really uncomfortable), so I said "Are you just going to loiter there?". He got really pissed then, and then left with his friend. A few minutes later he called all heated and was saying "You were really rude to me, and the alcohol thing was just a joke" which I didn't believe, because he only said it was a joke after I expressed my discontent. So then I told him again why he had to leave, and he was just like "yeah whatever, fuck you" and hung up. Now, I've thought about it over and over and my friends say that he's a jerk and I have every right to be angry. But I'm not sure... Was any of this my fault? I feel I made it very clear that he wasn't supposed to bring anyone, and that if he wanted to spend time with his friend, he should do so. We could always hang out some other time. It's not like he's doing me some huge favor by coming. I just need to know, for my own sanity, do I have the right to be angry? Thanks... Pom (link)
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yes i think you have a right to be angry because you invited him but he didnt want to listen to what you told him(not to bring anyone) then im sure u wanted him to leave bcuz u dont want nething bad to happen. i would have done the same thing. dont feel bad
hope i helped
~happy (almost) halloween!
~TrUmPeTcHyK92
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ok, does any oen know any good ways to get rid of hiccups? and fast? and is it bad if i get hiccups on an almost daily basis? please help me out
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ok i always get the hiccups wen i eat chicken, all u have to do is drink water until u feel a little buble-like thing go down your throat
lol sounds crazy but i started doing it once so its mi own teqique
lol hope i helped
trumpetchyk92
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Im tall like not gigantic but im bout 5 6' and im 14 and im not even 100 pounds i dont have an eating disorder i just have always been really skinny cuz i have a good metabolism. How can I gain weight so people will stop making fun of me and i'll feel better about myself? (link)
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if i were you i wouldnt loose weight because u shouldnt care what other people say. acctually today i was talking to mi friend and he eats soooo much but is sooo skinny because of his metabolism and the same thing with mi other friend and some people talk about her too but she doesnt care because her friends dont care what she looks like
(sry if i couldnt help)
~trumpetchyk92
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Do any of you ever get into those moods where all you can do is think of everything that you hate about yourself? how do u make those feelings go away...? let me know (link)
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heyy
yes i do think that sometimes but usually i call 1 of mi 2 best friends and tell them. friends always make you feel better or they wouldnt be friends right? i think that you should invite some friends over tomorrow and have some girl time and have fun to get your mind off of that kind of stuff after a while, it goes away! good luck i hope i helped
~trumpetchyk92
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well.. i'm in 8th grade. i feel way too old to go out trick or treating, but i have nothing else to do!! plus, nobody is going with me. should i just go for my last time, or skip it?? when did everyone else stop?? (link)
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I think that you should deffinately go and ask a friend to go w/ u cuz no one ever sed that holloween is for young kids. besides i have 20 yr-olds coming to mi house every year to trick or treat! lol
soo have fun!!
i hope that helps!
~trumpetchyk92
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IF SOMEONE ALWAYS PLAYS AROUND WITH ME AND JOKES AROUND WITH ME DOES THAT MEAN THEY LIKE ME?
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heyy,
well maybe if the person hugs u, pretends to take ur books nd stuff like that then mayb they have a crush on you but if they just do stuff that dont seem like they r flirting, then they r probably just joking around
hope i helped!
~TrUmPeTcHyK
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you never answered my question, i've been checjing everyday. Ok i like my bff twin brother but my other friend is obsessed with him its rediculous! im not jealous or am i? idk but idk wut to do i have this really big formal coming up and my mom is likem best friends with his mom and she said he liked me and he was gonna ask me out and stuff. that could just be my mom talking. but ne way him and my frind(who likes him also) she like hugs him and stuf fbut im not sure if he likes it cuz he doesnt tell her to stop or nething wut do i do.
p.s. i REALLY like him!!
~CoNfUsEd~
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Dear confused,
im sorry that i havent responded yet but neways,
about ur bffs brother, i think that u kinda want the attention that ur other friend is getting. if that happend to me i would probably be jealous but u shouldn't because if u act like urself (but flirt a little more or catch his eye more often lol) then most likely, he'll start to talk to u (more if he doesnt already)then things will go up from there :) .
about ur formal, i dont think that ur mom would joke about sumthing like that (but idk ur mom)
but u neva no, u might be his secret crush!
All u have to do is b patient and mayb one day he will come up to u nd start talking/flirting!
And about ur otha friend hugging him n stuf, he might not even enjoy hugging her.
If u do take mi advice and b patient, also b open to other relationships/people to go to formal with.
sorry again for taking a long time to reply nd please dont b mad
~`*Let me know how things go!!*`~
~`ChRiSsY, aka TrUmPeTcHyK92`~
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My best friend's boyfriend was beating the shit out of her.. he made her give him head in front of his friends or else he'd beat the shit out of her.. she had bruises and i saw them.. she told me about it.. i tried talking to her and him.. she tried talking to him.. it was never gonna end.. so i talked to tara (a school counsler) with 2 other people.. and we told them what we have seen and what was going on.. now she blames me.. and only me.. she said i ruined her life and she hates me.. she said that i blew it out of proportion and her lame fucking excuse for it was that he gets worried about her and then he gets angry so like when ur so angry u wanna hit someone that's what he does.. hello but am i the only one who doesn't hit my signifigant other when i'm pissed off?? i just don't know if i did the right thing.. i love her so much she's my best friend and i'd do nething for her and i just felt like this whole thing with her boyfriend was waaay out of control and i couldn't do nething more to help! i had to tell someone.. i dunno but i feel like killing myself and i dunno what to do... first i wanna go kill him.. then i'll kill myself.. sounds like the best plan to me but ya know there are people who actually care about him surprisingly and i couldn't never kill neone but that's beyond the point.. i dunno what to do about my friend and meanwhile it's throwing me in a hole i can't get out of and i just dunno what to do.. please help :'(
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heyy,
well i no that u should definately NOT kill neone (u or him) and the only advice that i can give u is to not feel bad and u did it bcuz u cared right? i would b the happiest person if mi friend did sumthing like that 4 me. I just think that ur friend either was to scared to tell some1 or have sum1 else b told OR she didnt want neone to no this soon(if it was soon after)
i hope i can help
i hope everything works out
~Trumpetchyk
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Hey I just found out that my new boyfriend was cheating on me with another gurl, Im crushed!
But last night after I broke up with him He called me alomst 6 times before I answered it.
well he said he wanted to met me on the cornor of my road well I went but he didn't show until 12:12am, Then he wanted to make out I didn't and I left Did I do the right thing? (link)
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heyy,
i think that you did do the right thing bcuz he sounds like a jerk(sry if u dont think he is) but 1st of all he cheated on u 2) he came to ur road really late and then all he wanted to do was make out. to me that sounds kinds weird nd i would have done the same thing so if u feel bad, don't.
hope i can help
TrumpetChyk
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how do i get a girl friend (link)
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You should be yourself around every1 and if u like a girl, then flirt with her. If she seems to like you 2 then ask her out.
hope i helped
good luck
Trumpetchyk
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Well i was at my friends house and my crush was there and we were playin this game "base or building" base means if someone says a guy u have to say how far u would go w/ him ( 1st base - hug 2nd - kiss 3rd - make-out home - well u kno ) and building means someone picks 2 ppl and u say who u would rather push off a building. well i picked base and someone said my crush ( adam ) well he doens't kno i lyke him so i didn't want to say 3rd cause than maybe he wouldn't lyke me so i said 2nd ( but i really wish i would of said 3rd ) than the next time it was my turn they said my ex-b/f and i said almost to 3rd now i wish i could of said 2nd cause all my friends r teasing me saying i still lyke my ex and i don't!!! wut should i do PLEZ HELP ME!!!!
signed, I don't kno wut to do!!
(p.s. I RATE VERY HIGH) (link)
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hey
sry about that and I think that you should play the game again with ur friends and if they say ur ex, then say what u mean if they don't listen then mayb its not worth the friendship if they wont take u seriouusly
hope i helped
~`*TrUmPeTcHyK92*`~
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okay, well i am very blessed that i am not overweight, BUT the only problem is that my legs are huge! this might sound cheesy, but i'm serious! it's as if my legs dont match my body! i want to lose the weight but i dont exactly have time to exercise. i wear a skirt to school because the pants are awkward. what can i do to lose the weight? Or make them look thinner? (link)
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sry i dont have that much advice but, the color black is very slimming
hope that was enough advice
good luck
~`*TrUmPeTcHyK92*`~
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hello. i'm 13 and my parents are divorced. they have been ever sice i was 6 years old. and my dad just remarried a really AWFUL woman! they just had there 1st anniversary. her son is CONSTNTLY making fun of me and my dad just says "deal with it" its taunting a bull at school would do. well to cut to the chase, my mom still had my dads last name and just changed it today. i feel so different now it really makes me sad. i feel like i'm closer to my stepmom than i am her. please help. all answers will be rated a 5 for effort! :`( (link)
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sorry about ur parents
just because ur dad got married to sum1 doesn't mean that u have to like her(sounds horrible but...) maybe u can go to the movies or bowling with ur mom to spend some time with her. If ur stepmom annoys u them mayb u can just avoid her and only talk to her if u need to (i sound soo horrible)
sorry cuz i sound like reelie mean but i hope i can help!
~`*TrUmPeTcHyK92*`~
u can i/m me if u need advice
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Alright, in Microsoft word, how do you change one word (lets say the word "red") to another word ("blue") with out going through the whole thing and retyping ever single word? When you add something to you dictionarly, can it be deleted? (link)
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Well I think that u press insert on ur keyboard.
good luck
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A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.
I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings? (link)
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heyy,
If u feel that u truely need to tell ur friend, then tell her straight out. if shes a good friend, she'll understand that u want to help. cuz i would want mi friend 2 tell me if i put on some extra pounds. wouyldn't u?
hope i can help
Good luck wit ur friend!
~`*TrUmPeTcHyK92*`~
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