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Me & my friends played a prank on this girl in my school that was picking on me, and she turned us in. Yesterday, I wasn't in school and the guidance conselor called all my friends down to the office, turns out EVERYONE was sayen I did it, even my best friends. I did do most of it, but not all of it. & I admitted to it. Are they real friends?
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Wow. Ok, they are DEFINETELY not your real friends. If they were your real friends they'd stick with you, and take their blame as well. Try finding new friends, and try making friends or peace with the girl you prank called. And theres no need for revenge with your friends, just ignore them completely, if they keep bothering you, give them a hint. They'll understand and regret what they did.
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I don't think that they are ur BEST friends. If they were your best friends, they would have taken the blame 2. If i were u i would consider getting some new best friends. sorry :(
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not really if they blame you for something they did too then their not real friend a real friend is one who will stick there beside you and not go and ditch you
tell me how it goes ..
xl h0ll0w li3s lx
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They definitely aren't your real friends because they should of said that they were involved in this too and not saying that you did it. Why don't you talk to them and ask them why they didn't say they did it also? Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Definetly not, you should drop them as easy as you'd drop a pencil. Seriously, that just makes me upset just from thinking its happening to a stranger. You need a new group of friends, thats just wrong. I hope you drop them.
-TheTeenGirl
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They dont seem like real friends if they said you did ALL of it just talk to them about it and ask them why they said you did all of it when they helped as well, its not right to rat out your friends specially saying that someone did all of it when everyone had a part in it. I hope this helps!-Nikki
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I'd say not. True friends stick up for you no matter what! and aparently they didn't... im sry.
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Umm yes and no. Real friends wouldnt turn you in. But real friends wouldnt dig you into a real deep hole. I would talk to them about it-trix
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don't blame them. they are your friends but there are limits. they must've felt that it was the right thing to do.
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First, I commend you on taking responsibility for your actions.
As for your friends, the best way to find out is to get a recap from them what happened when they were called in to the Principal/Dean's office. Most of the time the administration already knows that "ring leader" and they lean on the other people to give up information on the main person. This might have been what had happened? They may have been threatened with suspension or worse. If they were honest about what had happened with the adminstration, then you can tell from how they tell you when you ask them.
They are your friends because I'm sure they also said that they were involved but probably not to the extent that you were. This is minor. Your friends are going to be there for you and if it was a major thing, I'm sure they wouldn't have ratted you out.
When you get older, you'll realize your friends are always with you when things go terribly wrong and they are there when things are exxcellent. Its the ones that only appear when times are good that you have to question about being true friends.
Sorry for the long response.
I hope things work out.
-Arun
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Confrontation with friends usually resolves certain issues. Tell them how you feel about what they said and that they should have stepped up as friends. Your true friends will admit and apologize. The others will run.
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they are your real friends they just didnt want to get caught for the little of the prank they did. dont worry talk to them about it and let them tell you why they didnt stick up for you! dont worry there probobly jsut goody goodys and didnt wanna get in trouble .. i mean who wood wanna?
xo briana =)
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oh that REALLY sux. they took advantage of the fact that you weren't there to defend yourself, and it was then your 1 word against theirs(more than 1)
They are definitely not real friends, because even if it meant getting one of you in trouble, a real friend would have taken the blame or said it wasn't true that you did the whole thing.
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No, they aren't real friends. They shouldn't be blaming it on you, when they did it too. I think you should talk to them about it and tell them how you feel. They should have backed you put and said it was all of you guys, not just blaming everything on you. But even though, talk to them about this! Just don't lose your friendship with these girls over something like this.
♥ Krissy
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