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last night my cousin died in a car accident because someone cut her car breaks off. we dont know who but i am soo sad all i can do is cry, please someone help me to get over this horrible loss
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That is very sad and tragic what happened to your cousin. What you need to do to relieve your pain is to let yourself cry it out, because if you don't it will come out in other ways. Let yourself cry and be upset, I would say for a few days, after you have cried it out (don't let the crying go on for more than a week) I would start bringing things back into your life, like school and friends and such, obviously everyone will know your going through a hard time so don't feel rushed to go to parties and stuff because what could happen is you could start drinking to hide your pain or get into bad habits. What you would do is make a memorial for her on your own maybe with your family, and you could all talk about the good things that your cousin had and how nice she was and such. I have had many deaths in my family (unfortuantely) my mom being one of them, you just need to let time help with the healing because it won't go away over night, deal with your pain one day at a time.
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im really sorry. that makes me wanna cry, boy i cant imagine how you feel. Ask your parents if they can get a therapist to talk to you.
tHeY mIgHt nOt bE tHeRE
bUt mEmOrIeS lAsT foReVer
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hey
im sorry about your loss and mayb u can call one of your best friends because friends tend to make you feel better
hope i can help
feel better
~trumpetchyk92
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you will always have a part in ur heart that feels gone but it will always be there..thats terrible what that person did to her..i wish you the best of luck
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om lord hunny im soo sorry you cant get over but all you can do is talk to sum one and im soo sorry to hear about this loss and i wish you luck and maybe spend time with ur friedns adn stuff thatn tuo enjoy i been threw it before!!! good luk hunny!!
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i am so incredibly sorry. you, your cousin, and your family are all in my prayers. crying is absoluty ok to do if thats whats helping you right now. Don't shut yourself away from those who love you, talking to them and being with them is really what you need right now. looking at pictures or talking about memories might be painful at first, but soon you'll be laughing about all those funny things you and your cousin used to do. this may sound cliche, but ALWAYS remember that your cousin herself might be gone, but in your heart she'll stay forever.
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Hun, I'm really sorry about your loss. I'll pray for you, ok? You can pray to her every night. It's common to feel this way after a death. Maybe call a friend and talk to her, or talk to a parent. Htey'll understand how you feel, and I do to. Death sucks, but it's a fact of life. She'll always be with you, even if you can't see her.
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