HI uummm see i just broke up with my boyfriend because he was beating me, u know banging my head n his car hood, and stuff , so I broke up with him and well i still love him for some reason but did i do the right thing?
plz help!
x3_O0H_LA_LA answered Saturday August 21 2004, 6:56 pm: YOU TOTALLY DID THE RIGHT THING, NO GUY, OR PERSON IS WORTH ALL THA.... NO ONE!!&ITS A SHAME YOU HAD TO GO THRU THAT, I'LL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS!!
anarchyx3babe answered Saturday August 21 2004, 3:46 pm: 0mfq! you sh0uld 0f cuT his diCk 0Ff. bT yEs! y0u did d0 the riqht thinq. y0u did a pErfecT thinq! neVer eVer eVer lEt a mAn bEat yOu! mY moTher q0t beaT bY my faTher wEn i was lil'. iT waZ n0t a preTty thinq t0 sEe. i wiSh sHe w0uLd haVe lefT him, eVen th0ugh sHe did l0ve him. bT its t0 laTe n0w, sHe q0ne. aNd theRes n0thing i can d0 ab0ut. iT w0uld have been 0ne Thinq if hE hiT heRe wEn i waSnt ThEre, bT he didnT. i saW evEryThinq. aNd it haS fuckEd up My liFe. I have 3 eatinq disorders from sEeinq that shit. And im a cutter. n0 man is w0rth y0u g0nq through pain!
pinklemonadestand answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:31 pm: OF COURSE! Damn right you did the right thing! You should not be with someone that hits you and bashes you head in his car hood! Sweetie you did the right thing! Don't go back to him NO MATTER what he says!
esponja_bOb answered Saturday August 21 2004, 1:49 pm: GuRl u did do the rite thing ...dont ever let a boi guy or man do that to you..women r independent u dont need a man to make u happy...hes gonna want u back but o not get back with him how much u want to it mite turn worse thena bumpin` ur head on the hood of the car.... [ esponja_bOb's advice column | Ask esponja_bOb A Question ]
Xo_Blondii_oX answered Saturday August 21 2004, 12:34 pm: I think u did the right thing! no gurl should have to go through with that.But i would talk to him about ur feelings maybe over the fone tho.See how he feels n maybe get him into sum anger management classes.GOod luck! if u need more advice u can IM me or leave on in my inbox! [ Xo_Blondii_oX's advice column | Ask Xo_Blondii_oX A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Saturday August 21 2004, 11:49 am: Of course you did the right thing.Anyone who loves you should treat you like they love you.you shouldnt have to go trough physical pain with any relationship at all.what he did to you was wrong and inhuman.i hope you find someone who treats you right. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
Jane answered Saturday August 21 2004, 11:30 am: *Yes you did the right thing!!!! Omg. Some girls with abusive boyfriends get killed and I don't want that to happen to you. So just stay away from him, it's the right thing to do.* [ Jane's advice column | Ask Jane A Question ]
bAbYCHeeR792 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 9:51 am: Hey. :-( IF he beats you, you shouldn't love him anymore. But i know it's hard, I've had experience, but you need to tell someone, even if your scared, or you can be like me, and tell a very close friend of yours! YOU DID THE RIGHT THING! No girl deserves to be beat up by a guy. [ bAbYCHeeR792's advice column | Ask bAbYCHeeR792 A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Saturday August 21 2004, 4:07 am: You definatly did the right thing. You may still love him but think about it, do you really want to be beaten everyday?Time is a good healer and soon you will see that you have done the right thing. [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
cutie_babee answered Saturday August 21 2004, 3:38 am: Girl you did for sure the right thing that man didn't love you...it's like he wanted you to beg on your knees and do what ever he pleases...and guess what even if you still love him you'll be happy for sure ur not with him no more
pimpettex answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:29 am: YES you did exactly the right thing! if he wants you back u should definetly stay strong and say no. you dont need him doing that to you. you deserve much better.. no one deserves that. [ pimpettex's advice column | Ask pimpettex A Question ]
blondebtqueen answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:19 am: YES YOU DID THE RIGHT THING!! No matter what he says you did the right thing. Don't go back to him, you didn't deserve to be treated the way he treated you. Even if he says he's sorry and it was an accident or that he'll "change" don't get with him again cause chances are, he won't change! besides you deserve better to begin with! .:.Macy.:. (Rate me!) [ blondebtqueen's advice column | Ask blondebtqueen A Question ]
BartDude414 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:17 am: YES breaking up with him is the perfect thing u can do.Forget about him .He can one day seriously hurt u physically.I Think he crazy for beating u . [ BartDude414's advice column | Ask BartDude414 A Question ]
omandababiix answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:13 am: u totally did the rite thing u shouldn't have to put up with someone beatin you!! you will find someone who treats you way better and that you will probley love way more! [ omandababiix's advice column | Ask omandababiix A Question ]
FallenAngel answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:08 am: Hey hunny!
You definetely did the right thing. No one deserves to be beaten. I know, even though he may have hurt you, you may still love him, but you deserve much better!!!! You were strong and smart about breaking up with him. Stay strong and if you ever feel that you may go back to him...talk to someone first, and remember...YOU DO DESERVE BETTER!!! good luck hunny! If you ever need ANYTHING, im here! :)
*FallenAngel* [ FallenAngel's advice column | Ask FallenAngel A Question ]
MissIiVannaH answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:08 am: Yes u did the right thing that isn't right that he hit u for any reason thats not right at all but u shouldnt be in a relationshipp with abuse in it cause its not healthy and it nevers comes out to be better he might say he's gonna change but he wont but if u love him so much then u should tell him or try to resolve it but its not right that he puts his hand on u 4 any reason. [ MissIiVannaH's advice column | Ask MissIiVannaH A Question ]
blackmamba answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:07 am: you are seriously doubting you did the right thing when this creep could have killed or brain damaged you? you not only should have broken up with him , you should call the police on his ass.. that is called assault, dear. move on with your life and dont think about him, unless you'd like to visualize yourself in a coffin 6 feet under.... [ blackmamba's advice column | Ask blackmamba A Question ]
SwEeTii14 answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:03 am: omg u TOTALLY did the rite thing girl im proud of u i know u still love him but u totally need to move on i mean reallyyy...if he beat u it should have ended way b4 u started going out..plz dont go back out with him it would only get worse and worse if u did u mite even get killed i mean its normal to still love him..but ur gonna get threw it babe well i hope i helpedd!! good luck hun!
xlostangelx answered Saturday August 21 2004, 2:02 am: yu DEFINATELY did the right thing!! of course yur still gona love him, thatz normal..but it was the BEST thing for yu to do!! plz dont go back to him..it will only get worse..plz take it from sumone who knoz about this(ive been thru this type of thing b4) .. so plz plz plz do whats best for YOU and keep yurself safe by staying away from him!! i kno yu still love him but just keep reminding yurself of all the hurt he put yu thru!!..it helpz!!!
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