dont think i'm weird but all my life i've looked at girls and never thought it was weird but now i might think that i acually like girls as well as guys but i'm not sure what to do?(i'm a girl)
i dont wanna be sean as weird for liking the same sex but i think i acually do its weird....so should i react on these feelings or just supress them and not do anything for fear of rejection?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? cutie_babee answered Friday August 20 2004, 11:21 pm: um ok well for one your not weird and well guess what it's normal for pplz to have that kinda feeling it's called mixed emotions you don't know what you want and shit and well...I say you should try it with a guy and a girl and then choose which you like the most cuz you never know your maybe Les or straight and you'll never know unless you experience with both sex so just go ahead and try it out
Raining_Tears087 answered Friday August 20 2004, 7:26 pm: some teenagers go through a stage of thinking they're bisexual (liking boys and girls). it usually ends up being jsut a phase and ends shortly after they realize it...try talking to a counselor about-total privacy...hope it helps! [ Raining_Tears087's advice column | Ask Raining_Tears087 A Question ]
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PurPLeSheRBeRT answered Thursday August 19 2004, 10:28 pm: first thingz first.. u aint weird.. a lotta ppl go thru this.. but they just neva wanna say.. if these feelingz r strong.. nd u rilly wanna be wit him/her then go 4 it.. u cant help who u like/love so grab on2 ne chance that u can get.. cuz in tha end it wont matter wat nebody else thinkz.. only his/her'z opinion will matter 2 u.. if ur not rilly sure if u r bi-.. talk 2 sombody.. IM me if u want.. but somtymz u neva rilly kno if u r.. even grlz who've kikd it wit otha grlz arent sure if they r.. same wit dudez.. ur also @ a very curious stage rite now.. go wit wat u think feelz rite... [ PurPLeSheRBeRT's advice column | Ask PurPLeSheRBeRT A Question ]
LiL_Tasha76 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:40 pm: Okay Gurl ..Lisen up ...I understand how liking gurls is posssible...im gurl too and yeah there are sum gurls i will look at ..but i dont think of them like that..sence you do i think you should just tell a really close friend and talk to her about it..or another thing to do is just not think about sum gurls and try your hardest not to like them...Just follow what you wanna do and do what you think is right ...hope i helped if you need me then box me in!!** [ LiL_Tasha76's advice column | Ask LiL_Tasha76 A Question ]
BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:08 pm: there are some girls that go thru a phase that yooh go thru that yooh are attracted to same sex but that doesnt mean your bi or anything .. my frined went thru it where she thought she was bi .. then like week later she was like ewww howcould i thoink i liked same sex .. its dirty. well it should pass nd if it doesnt theni mean mayb yooh sre but thee are lots of people like it .. so i hope i helped ..* MeGaN [ BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x's advice column | Ask BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x A Question ]
sexybabiiJ answered Thursday August 19 2004, 8:02 pm: It is normal bestween the ages of 11-15 to not be sure about which sex you like, think about these things and i bet by the time you are (at the most) 16 you will know what sex you like. It is all right to like girls its just that society cannot handle it. Do not worry, you will figure things out. ;) IM me on sexybabiiJ [ sexybabiiJ's advice column | Ask sexybabiiJ A Question ]
sarcasm_rocks answered Thursday August 19 2004, 7:54 pm: there's nothing wrong with looking at people of the same sex as you. maybe you're just going through a phase of comparing yourself to other girls? or maybe you are feeling attracted to girls, and if you are, there is nothing wrong that. being bi-sexual is perfectly normal and isn't something to be ashamed of. i would recommend you try talking to someone you trust about your feelings. maybe your mother or a femal relative? they'll let you know that it is normal and you shouldn't be worried. maybe you will grow out of it, but maybe you won't, but whatever happens, don't forget you're not weird! :) [ sarcasm_rocks's advice column | Ask sarcasm_rocks A Question ]
Luscious_Kisses15 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 7:51 pm: OK, well there's a double standard out there so you're lucky you're on the right side of it. Most of the time, it's viewed as 'OK' and most of the time even hot for a girl to like girls too. But then the double standard part is that a lot of people don't like when guys like guys.
I don't see a problem with neither even though i'm straight. I have made out with a girl before though, once, but it's not because i liked her.
It's perfectly ok to like a girl. Most guys even think it's hot when two girls are together. I will warn you to be careful though, find out about the girls you like first....find out if they're up for it before you judge and make them uncomfortable.
FallenAngel answered Thursday August 19 2004, 7:48 pm: hey hunny,
it is not weird at all. i know a few people who are bi, and you know, it doesnt make you any different than any other person, it's just your sexual prefrence. If you are not sure wether or not you like girls in that way, you should experiment and figure out how you feel. It's not weird, it's very normal, good luck hunny! Hope you figure it all out :)
*FallenAngel* [ FallenAngel's advice column | Ask FallenAngel A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 7:41 pm: I have 2 friends that are bi and I myself think its kinda a sin but i dont think it makes anyone less of a person it just means you are different a little and if thats how you want to be then thats what you should do..*Haleigh Ann* [ charmed-cherry21's advice column | Ask charmed-cherry21 A Question ]
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