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what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?
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you shouldnt do it if you dont want to, and if you are pressured then just tell the person youre not ready. and if they dont understand and they still pressure you then just tell them that you wont talk to them or nuttin if they keep doing that.
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If the guy loves u then he will respect u and what u want, if he doesnt respect u then hes not the right one for u.
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Don't do it, and tell the person that you're not ready yet, and you don't appreciate them trying to get you to do something you're not ready for.
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Dont do it .. if your not ready then you should do it. . if they guy keps asking you just keep saying now .. if he cares bout you he'll listen . . good luck
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Hey Hun! Get the hell out! Nobody should make you feel like that! If he is rushing you then he is not worth it. Let some other hoe fall for it! Good Luck XOXO!
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Dont give in! Just assert yourself and say NO! You might want to dump the person if you two are going out. Dont hang around with the person! Hope I could help!
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If it's a guy... confront him and tell him that you're not ready. If he really likes you, he would respect you. Dump him, if he doesn't. If it's friends that are pressuring you... don't listen to them. Do want YOU want to do. Sex is a big thing. You shouldn't have to feel pressured into it. Tell whoever that person is; that you're simply not ready. Good luck :]
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just stand up for youself and say no no no no you most likely shouldnt be around that person
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Say No. and if you they keep buggin you be sure to be assertive
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say no
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sex is a very big deal and if your not ready for it then dont do it.You need to tell this guy that and if he gets mad about it and doesnt respect your decision well then hes not worth it hun.Never do anything you dont want to do just to make someone else happy!Hope ive helped!:-)
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Ok, first of all...sex is a very special committment. So, if you feel you are being pressured into it you should tell the person who's pressuring you to quit it. Tell them that you are not ready, and if they can't respect how you're feeling then they should find somebody else to be with. Stay strong and stand your ground. You don't have to do anything until you are ready.
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Let the person know that you are not ready. If they do not understand that...then you should not be with them. Don't do anything you don't want to do.
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Whoever the person is, ur prolly @ least pretty close 2 them. U shouldn't b having sex if ur not ready, so just tell the person that ur not ready and he/she should respect that. If they don't understand and don't respect wut u have 2 say then they aren't worth it. If they do end up pressuring u in2 sex even tho u say no, that's considered rape... just b careful. If u have any other questions let me know!
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If ur feeling pressured into dooing something u don't want to do just tell the person straight up no and if he doesn't stop pressuring you then tell him that if he really likes you he will wait untill ur ready
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When he takes his pants down kick those bals off and tell him to go to hell mother fucker!!!!!!!!
You shouldnt be pressured to do ne thing!! espically somethin you dont want to do!!!
rate me
Bianca
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Just tell the person no! straight up NO! You should never be pressured into something you are not ready for. If the person doesn't give up after you tell them no, get rid of them, because that's obviously all they really want from you! -Macy (rate me!)
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Stand your ground. You should never do something your not ready for. I'm guessing your partner is the one doing the pressuring? If they can't understand that your not ready they obviously don't respect you. Maybe you should re-think your whole relationship and decide whether or not they're really good for you.
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tell them u aint ready n that ull let them kno wen u ready lol..i dunno thats wut id do
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Tell them to back off and that you arnt ready and when you are you will let them know, just keep to your answer to "no" if you arnt ready, they will soon understand, and if they keep doing it and they threaten you or something tell them your guna call the cops...x3
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hey my names leah....
i think u should just tell or say no, reason sum things y not.... i mean nyone who pressures u like that isnt your friend or w.e.!!! its ALLWAYS up to you!! NEVER let sum rule ur life like over sex!!!
need nymore advice e-mail me!! luv ya !! xoxo bye bye
Leah
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DEFENTLY DONT DO IT!!!!!!!! never do anything ur not ready 2 do!!!!!!! dont let anyone pressure u into anything!!!!!!
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Say no! If you do not want to have sex dont have sex. its your life. no one can make you do something that you dont want to do. if you are in a relationship wit someone whos pressuring you, get out of it. no person can tell force you to do something you arent ready for or just dont want to do.
xoxo
ali
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*Don't give into sex. Simply tell the guy you are not ready, if he understands then he is a good guy.*
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Hi! I think that you would tell the guy stright out and tell him im not ready so dont preasure me please. And if he dosnt understand then he isnt worth it..... talk to me any time...
love always,
FLchick
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Tell the person that is pressuring you that you are not ready; if they don't understand that and continue to pressure you anyway, or stop talking to you, then you can be doubly happy you stood up for yourself.
The other option is simply to remove yourself from the situation; you've got to wait until you're ready.
Sex is such a big emotional and physical commitment; even people in longterm relationships can regret having sex. My first relationship fell apart after we started (and then stopped, as we realized we couldn't deal with all the pressure) having sex.
Take your time. Know your limits. Stand up for yourself.
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Don't fall for pressure. Let the guy know you're not ready and if he can't take that then it might be a good idea to just stop hanging out with him. Only have sex when you are definitely ready, otherwise, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. I hope this helps!
Crystal
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Don't ever let somone pressure you into something you are not ready for. If someone is telling you things that you just don't want to do right now do not do it. You know sex is something you share between a person you love and when the time is right you will know it. But if you are not ready tell the person how you are feeling. Talk about it.
~Hope I was of help~
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when ur feelin pressure..jusz tell the guy no..serisulee no meens no..they cant do ne thing about it nd if they get all pissed nd shit they aint worth it becasue a guy that is..wont force u to do ne thing they`ll wait till ur readi and comfortable x0x0 Jessi
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just tell the person, or the people, that you're not ready and DON'T GIVE IN if you're not ready, theres a reason! x0
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get rid of the person thats pressuring you and stop talking to them or hanging out with them. You dont need them and theyre obviously not good for you. Sex should be for married people, and if they really cared for you they wouldnt pressure you. Whoever is doing it is an advantage taker. Good luck though, best wishes. XOXO
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