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Should I Be Hurt?
My boyfriend and I have been going out 4 about 10 months. Just a lil while ago he told me how the first few months of our relationship he was in2 porn, but then (him being his sweet self) said that the reason why he stopped was me bcuz he didn't wanna hurt me. Of course I 4gave him and everything, and I no I should b happy that he stopped cuzza me, but I still feel kinda hurt. I also feel... I don't really know... but I have a very small chest and just about no butt, and I feel kinda like he would want more than just me. He always says he loves me and I'm so beautiful and everything tho, so I'm happy about that. I think I'm just bn paranoid or w/e about this... but should I still feel a lil hurt that he was in2 porn instead of me? Also, should I worry about how he thinks of my (pretty flat) body?
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dont be hurt cause i gaurentee yooh most boys are into that .. it doesnt mean he wasnt into yooh .. he jus was into well yooh kno .. nd jus cause yooh dont have the best body doent mean nuthin .. hes still wit yooh isnt he .. obviously yooh got a good boifriend cause yooh kno he stayed wit yooh nd if yooh ko bois these days they are disgustin ..if yooh have the boobs nd the butt then your it nd of course the face yooh have to have to .. but yooh got a keeper it sounds like so dont lose him .. he stays wit yooh even though yooh may not have a body nd as long as he doesnt care why should yooh .. be like if yooh dont like it fuc yooh .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need any more help .. im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
i hope i help but if yooh ned to talk im a good listener nd im here [ . MegAn . ]
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hey well if a guy sais that hes gonna st0p loookin at porn for you that shood make u feel speical nd u shoodnt feel paronoid becasue erri guy looks at pOrn its a natural thing u dont have to worrie about him cheating cuz its in a magazine or on a tv screen..soo calm dOnw..u guys been together for almost a year im sure he wont think ne thing wrong of u or let porn get in the wai of ur relationship xoxo Jessi
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well, if he says that he really loves you for who you are. then, you should definatly believe him. its not often that you can find a guy that truely cares about you and not your features. dont feel hurt because of anything. forgive and forget. its in the past and if he stopped then its fine. it shouldnt happen again. if it does, thats when you really have to start worrying. thats when you can question him and his actions.
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Don't worry about it. If he's that shallow to think of your body features instead of you, he doesn't deserve you. And i dont think he was into porn instead of you. some guys just like porn. maybe he was into porn AND you. but you should be happy that's hes given it up for you. that shows he really cares. and he probably doesnt care about how you look or if your flat. it seems like he just likes you for who you are.
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Hunny...I know how it feels to be insecure about your body, but just know, if he wasnt into you, he wouldn't be with you. He obviously loves you and is attracted to you, especially if he gave up looking at porn for you. Most guys, especially teenage guys, look at porn, not because their girlfriends are not "good enough",but simply because they just want to. He obviously thinks your good enough anyways since he doesnt even look at it anymore, which means he has a beautiful girlfriend so there is no point. Don't worry...don't feel hurt, some guys just like porn...no big deal. And even though he was into porn doesnt mean he wasnt into you. He wouldnt still be with you if he wasnt...just be happy he's with you and tells you you are beautiful. If he didnt believe it, he wouldnt say it. Good luck hun. :)
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if he says he loves you, your body dont really matter he likes you for you, and he prob just watches porn to jackoff or w/e lol, dont worry bout the porn, mostly EVERY guy watches it! =/ hope everything goes well =)
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i think that you should let him watch porn cuz maybe he just wants to do it cuz his friends do... but if it`s been 1O months he really loves you and it shouldn`t matter if he watches some porn
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look, if he likes you and he dosent look at porn anymore, then every thing is ok. and about your body. if he likes you then he wont care if your flat or not.
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You seem to be worrying more about the past than now, and that shouldn't matter as much. The thing that does matter is that he stopped for you. He said that he didn't want to hurt you and it seems like he meant that. That shows love. To give up something for someone. Don't be worried about something he has done before, just be worried about what he does now. The way I see it is that he wants to earn your trust back. So let him know you trust him. To him he probably thinks you are gorgeous, he has told you that you are beautiful before, so that his word on that! Hunnie don't ever ever ever worry about how he thinks of your body. He loves you and thinks you are beautiful don't try and change anything! Just believe him when he says he loves you, because he is showing it. No more worrying! Hehe. Love Always, Mandee
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you can't help how you feel, so feeling hurt isn't in your control. i think in this situation, you really don't need to feel hurt, but if you do, eh, just try and ignor it. no, i don't think you need to worry about what he thinks about your image, because he's really sweet sounding and it sounds like he really loves you. if he told you about the porn, then this obviously was bothering him that you didn't know about it. he doesn't care about how you look by what you've said. he's really into you.
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Trust me, even if you looked exactly like the porn girls, he would have still watched it. It's not about that. He wouldn't be dating you if he didn't think you were beautiful. I wouldn't worry about it. A lot of girls feel the same way you do. My best friend had the exact same problem, only her boyfriend couldn't stop watching porn and my friend's very beautiful. So it's pefectly normal to be worried about this, but keep in mind that not all guys are pig-headed enough to find only pornstar-like girls attractive.
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