At first, this problem seems simple. In my Journalism class, we have a Journalism website. A girl in the class had 5 weeks to write her column. At the very last minute, she asks someone to write it for her. Simple solution for me, right? Just rat her out! Wrong. The girl who wrote the column for the slacker happens to be one of my friends--I sit next to her every day at lunch. What do I do? Do I rat her out, or just keep my peace?
tough_chic05 answered Wednesday April 14 2004, 10:39 am: Hey! i think that you should keep your peace! believe me you don't wanna get involved in a big mess like that! Just try your best to let it be! and also let your friend know how you feel, because it can make things a lot better, and make you feel better too! [ tough_chic05's advice column | Ask tough_chic05 A Question ]
advice_chick65 answered Wednesday April 14 2004, 10:36 am: if i were you i would tell your friend not to do someone elses work, dont rat her out if sh'e your friend, then if you do she wont be your friend any more. Just tell you friend that she shoudnt help slackers on there work, she could show them how to do it but dont do it for them. [ advice_chick65's advice column | Ask advice_chick65 A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Wednesday April 14 2004, 10:26 am: Leave it be, it really is non of your bussiness anyway. It was your friends choice to write the paper for the girl. She did it as a favor, don't get your friend in trouble for it. It may seem unfair that this girl didn't have to do the work, but things like this happen all the time in the real world, don't get so bent out of shape. Besides, no one likes a rat. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
GC_rox_my_sox answered Wednesday April 14 2004, 10:13 am: Don't rat her out. Writing the column for the girl might have been the wrong thing to do, but is it hurting you? No. So just let it be and don't risk a great friendship. Another thing, maybe your friend didn't want to write the column, but the slacker bullied her into it somehow. Just a thought, but either way, don't tell. [ GC_rox_my_sox's advice column | Ask GC_rox_my_sox A Question ]
fallen_angel answered Tuesday April 13 2004, 8:52 pm: keep ur peace fur sure u do not want to loose ur bestfriend over some dum advice column so just go w/ the flow and let someone else rat her out but do not forget do not rat out yur bestfriend well peace be w/ u
signed fallen angel [ fallen_angel's advice column | Ask fallen_angel A Question ]
Cspinoza1 answered Tuesday April 13 2004, 7:50 pm: Actually you can rat the person for taking credit but make sure your name will not be given. And the person that actually wrote the article cannot get into much trouble just they can ask her why she did it. Honestly I would just tell and your not being a rat because your doing whats right. She had 5 weeks to weite the article thatsa plenty of time. But at the same time its a small deal to you. SO just think of all the possible senarios. If its something thats not to big to you or your friend let it go. But if it bothers your friend and you enought, just tell that the girl didn't write the article.
Logic-Man answered Tuesday April 13 2004, 7:50 pm: Backstabber my ass. Friends don't let friends be lazy jerks. Make her do her own work. If my girlfriend tried to pull that crap I'd rat her out because it's the ethical thing to do. 'Backstabber'? Nay. [ Logic-Man's advice column | Ask Logic-Man A Question ]
C_Talon answered Tuesday April 13 2004, 6:18 pm: Simple one, alter-ego. Rat her out. Yes, yes I know. You would be seen as a backstabber, Benedict Arnold, etc. All for the sake of learning, eh?
I know you. You won't be able to do it unless you get outside advice.
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