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my husband says he loves me but does he
hi my husband says he loves me when he chats on the computer he likes to see other womens tits and ask hhem to say dirty thing he shows his pics of you know what but we fight about it all the time but he says it doesnt get trun on by other women but hes always looking at porn and stuff makes me feel unwanted what should i do
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tell him he either stay off the computer, or he is going. or just throw the computer out, and that will solve the problem, if you dont do it for him, he could b gettin it someone where else. just get rid of the computer or tell him if he dont get off hes gone.
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hi i'm liliana i'm 13 years old and i think he is not cheeting on u i think.well what i'm trying to say is that whatever he is doing is a normal thing 4 guys.try spending some time with him and see if he rally does love u.good luk holla back
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Too many negative responses! Look it sounds to me like he's looking for something he's not getting. He may be a freak! Not in a bad way. He may just enjoy the interaction. Have you talked dirty to him? From what you wrote you don't seem like the type that would. Did you know that most men don't go to the strip club to get laid but to stare and glare and fantisize about something they can never have; another woman. You should join him on the computer. Find things you like and see how he reacts. He'll either get mad and suggest you both stop. You both might get turned on and ad a new aspect to your relationship! Or you may not like it. But don't doubt his love for you because he has a fetish.
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i know how you feel. my ex hubby used to do that. but it didnt bother me. why? cause he physically cheated on me. men love women u know this already. If u feel that him lookin at that makes you feel unwanted, get naked or put something sexy on and start messing with him while he's on the computer. i really would say dont worry about him lookin at pics because or webcams because as long as he's not out there physically having sex or having women show him this and that, u dont have nothing to worry about. its just that u want all eyes on you and thats understandable. if he won't listen, get on the pc yourself and look at naked men even if u dont want to just to see what he says. or i say get on there and put a restriction on your pc and have it passworded. if all else fails. but i can tell u he just shows the pics of himself just to get the women to show something. a lot of men on this internet do that.
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well to be totally honest with you i think your husband gets off by porn. a lot of men like to talk to strange woemen,look at pics,etc... you should really be careful if he is spending too much time on the computer chatting there are lots of internet affairs going on these days no mater the distance,and its not strange for men to hook up with these ladies for the action and the fantacy of it all,talk with him or check behind him see what he has been doing but be careful you might find out some thing you really dont wanna know...
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It sounds like he's lying. he probably does get turned on by other women, why else would he look at porn. It sounds like he loves you, but doesn't appreciate you. Ask him if other women don't turn him on, what other reason does he have for watching porn.
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