Hello there, thank for taking time to hear my views on different subjects. I am in no way a certified doctor to make such decisions you may have but its only advice if u feel u want to act upon it, get a second opinion if i don't meet your expectations. I am 22 years old and a mother of 2 beautiful children. (possibly one on the way!)I am wise beyond my years and conduct myself in the same manner. I am here with open eyes and a closed mouth, ready to be challenged by your every day questions or ones out of the ordinary. Please feel free to ask anything that comes to mind. I am open to all Questions. Thanks:)
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Well, I have a reeeally embarassing problem.
My nipples are always erect, whether I'm turned on or not, and no matter the weather.
All the time.
Now, some guys think it's hot, especially when I wear a tighter shirt but I can't stand it.
I find it embarassing that you can notice, even when I wear a sweater.
I don't want to get jellies or a padded bra, I'm a size C already and that's enough for me...
Is there anything I can do to remedy this issue?
Oh, and I'm a girl in case you couldn't tell. (link)
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im not sure if this will work but i have heard some ppl use bandaids. im on the other side of the ball game tryin to get mine to stick out but try the bandaids and see if they work. i hope it does for ya.
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If (without knowing) you sleep on sheets that may have semen on them, could you get pregnant? Like, if your brother was jacking off in your bed, and you never knew, is it...like, possible?????????PLZ PLZ tell me!! (link)
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No you definately can't get pregnant from semen stained sheets. But i would recommend u wash them because that would not be good hygiene to sleep on it. And heres a tip get a lock for your room, or tell your brother to stay out.
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ok how do i get bigger boobs without having a boob job? i hwear a size 36A and im 13 but my my freshman yeari wantr at least a 38A or 40A so can someone please help me?? how do i get bigger boobs!!!!WITHOUT HAVING A BOOB JOB (link)
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dear there really isnt much difference between a 36a-and a 38-40A.If u haven't had your period yet that means u still have to go through puberty. just be happy u have a bust size some women are over 30 and dont even wear a bra cause they are really flat chested.
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I was wondering if I would like to become a girkk do you think my parents would aggry with me or do you think you can get me a really cute bisexual girl friend? Shane Yoho /I am 14 and am a boy. (link)
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for starters NO sex change for you MR! There are plenty of "freaky" people in the world, that love to be involved in a threesome. but i feel that a sex change is drastic. just be happy with the way you were born, and just find a girlfriend that wouldnt mind helping u explore your fantasy. but really i think u area bit young to be thinking about this stuff. i say wait and give yourself time to explore and learn diffrent things. you would be happy you waited!b Theres no rush at all!
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hi my husband says he loves me when he chats on the computer he likes to see other womens tits and ask hhem to say dirty thing he shows his pics of you know what but we fight about it all the time but he says it doesnt get trun on by other women but hes always looking at porn and stuff makes me feel unwanted what should i do (link)
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i know how you feel. my ex hubby used to do that. but it didnt bother me. why? cause he physically cheated on me. men love women u know this already. If u feel that him lookin at that makes you feel unwanted, get naked or put something sexy on and start messing with him while he's on the computer. i really would say dont worry about him lookin at pics because or webcams because as long as he's not out there physically having sex or having women show him this and that, u dont have nothing to worry about. its just that u want all eyes on you and thats understandable. if he won't listen, get on the pc yourself and look at naked men even if u dont want to just to see what he says. or i say get on there and put a restriction on your pc and have it passworded. if all else fails. but i can tell u he just shows the pics of himself just to get the women to show something. a lot of men on this internet do that.
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Hello peoples,
well i was just wondering what happens when a guy goes through puberty, like i know about girls (duh cause i'm a girl) like they bleed but what happens to a guy? Do they have to wear anything? Like I know girls have to wears pads and tampons, do boys have to wear anything!!! Please please please please tell me!!!thanks (link)
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oh my i have seen these answers and im shocked at what some say. Guys don't have periods like us girls do. SOME NOT ALL BUT SOME guys do have a wet dream, and yes they begin to grow facial hair as mustaches and beards, chest hair underarm hair, and pubic hair. They also start to get acne, some guys have it worser then others. In different religions the male gets circumsiced(hope i spelled that right) as an acknowlegement of them entering manhood. Guys also experience voice changes the younger they are thier voices tend to be higher and the older they get u can notice thier voice getting deeper. if u have a younger brother or one about to become a teen just watch the voice sometimes its kinda funny to hear thier voice crack. lol
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Okay, there's this guy I like. But, I'm not sure he likes me back. He isn't very nice to me around his friends, and he wasn't mean before I told him I like him. BUT I went to a sports game of his, and he kept looking at me. Is it because I was out of place or not? PLEASE HELP! Thanks for your time- Sakura (NOTE: Some evil guy told him that I liked him, and he said "Ewww." Is that true, or immaturity? But some time later I told him I liked him. Also, at the sports game, I told him 'good game' and he gave me a weird look. Is that because his friends were around?)
Hehe... I've never had a boyfriend or a first kiss so... I also feel left out since I've always been the reject.
Sorry I've been asking the same question on a bunch of columns, but I'm kind of desperate for help. Thanks. (link)
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hmmmm girl i gotta tell ya those situations are sometimes a headache for you. but i need to know how old you and this guy are. if u are a teen, then there is a possibility that he may like you but dosen't want his friends to know. so he can act like he doesn't like you or even hate u at times. just to prove something to his friends. "you know how some guys are" this is still immaturity." I know you have seen the talk shows on how ppl change their apperances and all of a sudden ppl that didnt like them before love them now. I was in one of those. I developed, changed the hair, the wardrobe(a lil) and mostly changed those big brown glasses i had. (gross) anyway after i gave myself a makeover to make me feel better, the guys started comming out of nowhere. ones that hated my guts before told me they were playing that they always liked me and so on. But i would pull him aside one day when he is alone and ask him straight up. and prepare your feelings for a turndown just in case. dont be scare if you want something go get it! let him know if he dont like u say so and stop playing and if he do tell him to step to the plate and handle his game like a man. call him out some guys dont like it but i've come to realize that if u sit there and wonder thats all u will be doing when u can take a chance and may get dinner and a movie or something.
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im 17 and been with my new girlfriend for a couple of months and we've talked about sex
my worry is that my penis is not real big and not sure what she'll think my last girlfriend said i was too small so im not sure if ill be any good
does size matter? (link)
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well im sorry to tell u but there is no exact answer. It depends on your mate. Some women perfer length and some width. some perfer both. I say just to get an idea of what she may like the next time you talk about sex ask her which one matters to her. Personally i say it should depend on how the man pleases you. There are more ways than one to please a woman, and its not only with your penis. try this make it fun and exciting. break out the common stuff, like whip cream chocolate sauce, some "toys" just incase. but by all means please try to protect yourself and try to get a std test first. Then do your best and listen to her reactions, and go from there. i believe if she really is into "you" as in personality she shouldn't be worried about how big or not u may be.
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he phoned me last nite.said he was missing me like crazy and loves me so much.
i asked him if what he told me about being a virgin was the truth and he said yes because he was 25 when we met he was embarassed to tell me the truth.he also said hes really horny and had to wank himself off last nite thinking of me cause hes frustrated.i said so u have been keeping it in your pants he said of course when im horny i just wank myself to relieve the frustration of not being there with you.i asked if hed been out at any bars and he said no just to the naffi bar for a few drinks but hes working his ass off over there and thats why he hasnt been phoning me much.
feel a bit better he says when he gets back we need to sort this marriage out and he wishes i could trust him cause he aint going to do anything and that he wants us to renew our vows as a sign of our love.
so do u think everything is ok (link)
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i still say dont let your gaurd down. but hey go for it girl. Renew those vows and this time i say write your own vows , make it more special. *smile* sounds like he's doing okay so thats the most important part. so I say everything should be well by now.
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so be honest do you think he has been up to anything or do u think im just being suspicious because of my pregnancy.
in your opinion do you think what he told me at the start about the 25 girls is the truth or the fact when he was pissed a few mths ago he admitted he was a virgin.
i hope im not bothering you with my emails i just find your advice helpful as ive noone else to turn to.
was your husband in the british army or ar you american?
if at anytime im annoying you just tell me and ill stop sending emails
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oh not at all are u bothering me. i do think it is because of your pregnancy that you are more sensitive to a lot of things. and hell we all say things just to make the other mad because we mad be mad ourselves. Mine was an american.
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its more the virgin thing that is bothereing me than him cheating.when he isnt away with work he spends all his time with me and our son he doesnt really go out with the boys unless im away visiting my mum.
i was the same with my last pregnancy suspicious i just dont want to spend the rest of my life with him getting made a fool of.
also the army does put a lot of strain on marriage just hate all this waiting around 5 weeks till hes home and my mind is all over the place wondering what hes doing (link)
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i hear ya. i was the same way. but dont worry about the virgin part. if he lied about that all you can do is fuss at him for lying about it. whats done is done. I just hope he wasnt lying but dont stress, stress is never good for anyone. so just relax find a baby sitter treat yourself or when he gets back have him take you out for a romantic time together and let the worry go.
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I don't meant to sound mean, but if a person has flab hanging out, they should not wear tight, revealing clothes that a skinny person would wear. I'm tired of seeing women in particular wearing halter and short tops with their flab hanging out the sides, and their bottoms straining the seams of their tight, low-cut jeans. I'm not a skinny mean girl saying this, I have extra pounds on me and I try to dress in a way that flatters me and hides what I don't want to show off. Do these women think they look good? Are they in denial? What is the deal? (link)
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I have wondered that same thing. I am a big girl myself and i cover up. a lot of people want me to show more this and that but thats just me im a covered person and i have 2 girls to look after i dont want them running around wearing tube tops or shorts up their butts! But I blame the fashion designers! if they didnt make the clothes in some overweight people's sizes they wouldnt wear them. then it might motivate some to loose weight so they can wear them. BLAME THE FASHION DESIGNERS! SHAME ON THEM!
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im a girl whos 13 and i cant stop thinking about having sex with this boy im sooo horny when i see him... what should i do? (link)
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wow 13 they get younger and younger. Makes you stop and think. But really my friend horny is that it? trust me you are not ready. please please by all means wait. Im hoping you are still a virgin and if you are think about this once you loose "yourself" you cant ever get that back. What if it turns out that it wasnt all it was cracked up to be? you would have lost something for nothing. If you are not a virgin please stop having sex until you are in a relationship or at least out of high school or something. give yourself a chance at having fun. cause if you get caught up in having sex eventually you will become pregnant and be forced to be tied down at an early age and i know u dont want that. There are so many responsibilities with having sex with someone. there are pregnancy STDs,and who's to say the guy won't go around spreading rumors about you or "kiss and tell" what happend between u two to all his friends! Don't do it. Its more fun making them wonder( some would do almost anything) lol but please wait! give yourself that respect you deserve!
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thanks for your advice.so you reckon when he comes back if hes all lovey doey and cant wait to get me in bed then hes been completly faithful but if he holds back a bit then hes cheated?
i would just like him to be honest you know but i dont know anymore when hes lying or telling the truth.
what other signs should i be looking out for when he gets back to know for sure (link)
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yes because he should be waiting on you and saying to himself that i cant wait till i see my wife again, if not for anything else at least for that, it would show u that you were on his mind. but there are other signs. His affection towards you, like his kissing, his hugs, the way he talks to you as in his tone, attitude and thoughtfulness. if he comes back and wants to hang out with the guys don't worry about it and put on a lil act and tell him u want him with you that night and if he whines about going let him go and dont worry about it. but dont give him any when he gets back , he'll start thinking he can have it that way all the time. anyway other ways are how long he stays out, if he's changed his whole wardrobe, his cologne, if he showers before and when he comes home. When he talks on the phone if he has to take the call in the other room or if he is only giving one sided answers on the phone like "yes, no , i dont know, " stuff like that. girl peep his game but dont let him know that you know all his tricks, thats if u do find him guilty of doing anything. but like i said earlier dont let ya gaurd down!
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can you get pregnant from anual sex??? (link)
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okay i see some of these answers but my friend the answer is NO YOU CAN NOT GET PREGNANT FROM ANAL SEX! Your ovaries, fallopian tubes are accessable through you vagina. the anal and vagina are two different openings. And as far as sperm going into your vagina from it comming out of your "anal area". not possible because the sperm would die when its been exposed to the air. But when anal sex you should also make sure the male wipes his penis off before he inserts it back into the vagina. The bacteria from your "anal area" is different from the kind in your vagina. It can cause you to get an infection. but not stds. thats why they tell us women to WIPE FROM FRONT TO BACK!
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Hi, can u help me?
I am waiting 4 my period but am i crazy 2 to think about it? i want to know how it feels and
i know alot bout it too i want tohave my period just to know what it feels like am i stupid?
Plz help me if u get wut i'm saying?
AdviceGurl88 :) :) :) :*) (link)
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well friend no you are not stupid. but it doesnt hurt but if u have a purse always carry a pad or a tampon in your purse just incase. if u like me the thing will sneak up on ya. but after a while it will regulate itself and you will know when to expect it. But honestly it doesnt hurt not a bit. but it does bring on cramps sometimes, in the stomach or the back . i dont get em but like every few other periods. but it doesnt hurt.
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Hey Advice columnist i was wondering if you coud help me with a problem I have.
Okay I'm a 14 year old gurl and have had my period sence I was 12, But I have always used pads. What my question is, there really as many risks to using tampons than just pads? my mother keeps saying that they'er awful and that they can get stuck. I have done my home work and know that they'er is very slim chance of getting TSS. But what I want to know is do they really get stuck? I don't believe that they do but I'm asking this for a reason to make sure.
I'm jsut so tired when i have my period that im wet. EWWW!!! and summer will come and I can't go to pool parties with my period unless Im wearing a tampon.
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yes there is a chance of you getting TSS but it increases with the higher absorbancy of the tampon. As far as it getting stuck it could but u can avoid it. you have muscles that can help push it out but when u pull on the string relax yourself and pull gently. thats all too it. I use both tampons and pads. and i had my period since i was 12 also and so far it has never gotten stuck. nor have i gotten the TSS from it.
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Does anyone have a great recipe for bonless chicken wings? I especially love the Sweet Diablo wings from Green Mill. (link)
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hmm i dabble in the kitchen area a lot( i love to eat) but if u want to try boneless wings u can get a recipe off the back of a campbell's soup can. Like cream of mushroom,cream of chicken, or cream of potato. They make great gravies for chicken! i've tried em with all kinds of chicken and not just chicken breast like it said. but its great over rice! try it
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my mom has babysat for her friends for over a year or 2 and this one of them has hardly paid her for it and still owes her like $300. one night i babysat for her and was supposed to get $10 for it. but i never did. how can i get the money without being rude or asking for it? (link)
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no you are doing that parent a favor! They should pay you. Next time ask for at least half upfront and then the rest when they come to pick up their child. If they don't like that idea don't watch their kids for them again. its that simple. trust me don't let the parent take advantage of you. you are using your spare time to do something for them and its not mandatory!
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I don't wanna clean my room! should I? (link)
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YES! I know sometimes u may not feel like doing it, but a dirty room will eventually start to smell and attract bugs and once that smell sets in its hard to get rid of. (have a younger brother that despises cleaning his room) But by all means clean it'll make you feel better.
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