my mom has babysat for her friends for over a year or 2 and this one of them has hardly paid her for it and still owes her like $300. one night i babysat for her and was supposed to get $10 for it. but i never did. how can i get the money without being rude or asking for it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Domesticity category? Maybe give some free advice about: Babysitting? GANGStAhBAbiiEx answered Saturday October 1 2005, 3:10 pm: ask for it just tell her that you need the money for something and if she doesnt pay you, you can also just find someone elses kid to babysit and when she needs you tell her that you found someone that gives you the money. dont let that lady make you babysit till she owns you 300$ and i would tell her that she owns your mom all that money. if she told you she will pay you than yea you sould get your money if she said nothing about paying she doesnt really need to pay.
Ms_Hazel answered Sunday May 2 2004, 2:35 pm: no you are doing that parent a favor! They should pay you. Next time ask for at least half upfront and then the rest when they come to pick up their child. If they don't like that idea don't watch their kids for them again. its that simple. trust me don't let the parent take advantage of you. you are using your spare time to do something for them and its not mandatory! [ Ms_Hazel's advice column | Ask Ms_Hazel A Question ]
Magenta answered Monday April 5 2004, 10:55 am: You are not being rude by asking for it. You did the job, and payment was agreed. You did your bit, and she now needs to do hers. So tell her. Politely. [ Magenta's advice column | Ask Magenta A Question ]
goodlistener answered Sunday March 28 2004, 2:48 pm: give hints off to her without being to obvious about it you may want it but wait a lil dont wait to long like your mom but the mom of the kid will understand if not let her find a new babysitter. [ goodlistener's advice column | Ask goodlistener A Question ]
alpha answered Friday March 12 2004, 3:11 pm: You just have to ask. Don't be embarrassed: you're totally within your rights, and sometimes people need a little polite prodding.
But it doesn't sound, frankly, like this woman is a really reliable employer. If she doesn't come up with the money, I would suggest that you and your mom not babysit for her again, unless you're willing to do it for free as a favor to her. [ alpha's advice column | Ask alpha A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Friday March 12 2004, 1:36 pm: Next time you see her just bring it up casualy. "Hey do you have the money you owe me for babysitting?" If your nice about it, she will have a hard time saying no. And if she doesn't pay you, forget about it, it's $10. Just say no next time she asks you to babysit. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
DruidX answered Friday March 12 2004, 12:59 pm: I don't think you can't not ask for it, but just be really polite about it, and maybe next time ask for the money or half the money up front.
But like I said, be really polite and curtiouse:
'Exscue me *person*, but do you remember I babysat your kids on *date*? You never actually gave me the money for it, so I was wondering if you had it, or if you can tell me when you will have it? Thank you' [ DruidX's advice column | Ask DruidX A Question ]
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