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Likes me, likes me not?
Okay, there's this guy I like. But, I'm not sure he likes me back. He isn't very nice to me around his friends, and he wasn't mean before I told him I like him. BUT I went to a sports game of his, and he kept looking at me. Is it because I was out of place or not? PLEASE HELP! Thanks for your time- Sakura (NOTE: Some evil guy told him that I liked him, and he said "Ewww." Is that true, or immaturity? But some time later I told him I liked him. Also, at the sports game, I told him 'good game' and he gave me a weird look. Is that because his friends were around?)
Hehe... I've never had a boyfriend or a first kiss so... I also feel left out since I've always been the reject.
Sorry I've been asking the same question on a bunch of columns, but I'm kind of desperate for help. Thanks.
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Okay. I like to be fully honest so I'm just going to say this.
Guys don't like desperate girls. You are not desperate but you are giving him the impression you are and that is turning him off.
Guys likes the chase, the hunt, and no hunting is fun without a challenge.
Ask yourself this, if this guy came up to you after what he said and asked you out, wouldn't you say yes?
INCORRECT ANSWER!! You should say no and lead him on. Make him give you attention, not the way around.
Good Luck =]
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From what you've said here, I'd go with the immaturity factor on his part.
I would have to ask in return - do you really think this guy is worth the effort if he's treating you like that?
Surely, there is someone better out there who might not only care about you, but not be afraid to let you know.
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hmmmm girl i gotta tell ya those situations are sometimes a headache for you. but i need to know how old you and this guy are. if u are a teen, then there is a possibility that he may like you but dosen't want his friends to know. so he can act like he doesn't like you or even hate u at times. just to prove something to his friends. "you know how some guys are" this is still immaturity." I know you have seen the talk shows on how ppl change their apperances and all of a sudden ppl that didnt like them before love them now. I was in one of those. I developed, changed the hair, the wardrobe(a lil) and mostly changed those big brown glasses i had. (gross) anyway after i gave myself a makeover to make me feel better, the guys started comming out of nowhere. ones that hated my guts before told me they were playing that they always liked me and so on. But i would pull him aside one day when he is alone and ask him straight up. and prepare your feelings for a turndown just in case. dont be scare if you want something go get it! let him know if he dont like u say so and stop playing and if he do tell him to step to the plate and handle his game like a man. call him out some guys dont like it but i've come to realize that if u sit there and wonder thats all u will be doing when u can take a chance and may get dinner and a movie or something.
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