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cheating husband
What do you do if you know a family member is having an affair and the wife has no idea why he is ending a 30 year marriage. Do you tell her or do you keep your mouth shut and let him hang himself?
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i personally think that you should tell...its not right for it to be hidden in the closet...
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ok thats a easy one, one you could mind your business and be eating up with gilt or two, be honest,the relationship is over go ahead and tell what you know ,itll come out in the end and then you will look like the bad guy becaue you knew and did not say anything it always seems to back fire on the one that never says anything so what do oyu have to lose with a relaionship that is already over dont destroy two be honest... anissa..
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This is very sad because at least after thirty years they could of at least got over there 7 year itches 4 times over but whilst saying that it is very sensitive to advise or split to one or the other because I have known some terrible scenes when this has happened and mainly it has been started by the married couple in question jointly telling the informer to mind his own business and go or words to that effect.
Be wary my friend
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I would suggest going to the husband, and informing him that he should tell her the truth before she hears it somewhere else. If he asks whether you're going to tell her, say that you have no immediate plans to, but that you won't lie for him if she asks, and anyway, you can't guarantee that someone else won't volunteer the information.
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Try to convince him to talk to her. I honestly think that you shouldn't get involved, but she has to know. Tell your family member to tell her.
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I say if the wife actually asks you if you know anything, speak up. But, if you feel that the wife needs to know what's going on, tell. This is only on a need-to-know basis. You probably don't want to get involved in this.
-Siren
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I would say something. Many states will take that into consideration in divorce court.
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Normaly I would say keep your nose out of their bussiness, but it seems you are likly to do anything any way so, I would try and lessen the blow to her. Try and get him to tell her, it will probably be better coming from him rather than you [this is no offence to you, just if it where me i don't think i'd want to hear it from an out-side party]. Also I think knowing might give her some closure in the long run.
good luck whatever you do.
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I feel like you should say something. He might not be the only one that it hurts.
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Well if they are getting a divorce, then I don't think you should say anything. Don't get into the middle of things.
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