Question Posted Wednesday December 31 2003, 10:41 pm
so me and my boyfriend are at this hotel room doing you know what. well all of a sudden the door flies open and something falls into the bed next to the one we are in. well any who I jump up and see my parents. were they actually doing it? well my mom is screaming at me and telling me that I told her I wouldn't do it again. which is truth cus she caught me before. Well any who what should I do?
*caught in bed*
hailebop answered Thursday January 1 2004, 12:56 pm: I think you need to be honest with your parents. Given that you are already sexually active, it's unlikely that you're going to stop and telling you to do so is pointless. You do however need to talk to your mother and apologize for going behind her back, but also explain that you are a responsible and consenting adult, and that you've made decesions about how you live your life. She'll probably appreciate the honesty and will be reassured that you are responsible enough for sex if you can talk about it maturely with her. Don't go into massive detail, just be firm about what your beliefs are clear that you are being responsible and taking precautions (which I hope you are). It will be an akward conversation, but it's better to talk about it and set up some boundaries (such as no sex whilst she's in the house) that you can both live with. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
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