Question Posted Wednesday December 31 2003, 10:47 pm
Well, anyway, There is this really hot guy next door, I think he is sooooo fine! I just need some advice. I think he likes me. The other day, he told me that I looked really nice at school, but we had to dress up for a field trip anyway. He also told me that he wanted to get together with me and catch a movie sometime. He is always giving me signs and stuff but I'm not sure what they mean. Please answer all of these questions. Does he want to go out with me? Does he really like me? Does he like brunettes? Does he really like other guys?
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? OneMan answered Friday January 2 2004, 1:11 pm: I don't think anyone can answer any of these questions but you. I don't know why you asked if he wants to go out with you when you said he stated that you go to a movie. As for rather or not he likes brunettes, beats me. As for the way society is geared to "train" now days, I can't see too many men being "secure" enough within themselves to make comments on another man's appearance without him being the best friend or something of that nature, so yes, I would say he has taken quite a liking to you. But come on, you already knew that. I think you're looking for that extra "push" to help you get the nerve to do what it is you want to do anyway. go for it. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
hailebop answered Thursday January 1 2004, 12:48 pm: It's possible that expressing a wish to 'catch a movie' with you was just him being friendly. However, combined with his compliments about your appearance, it sounds like there might be some feelings there. Sometimes it's hard to tell exactly what the other person is thinking, so try and flirt with him a bit and see if you make any progress. You could try bringing up going to see a movie (something he suggested, so he won't suddenly be suprised to be asked) and try and read his reaction. If he talks about getting together a group of friends and you can all go along together, then he probably is just interested in being friends (although, of course, this doesn't rule out something happening between you at a later date). If, on the other hand, you arrange things so it's just the two of you together, then thats a good sign he likes you.
Also, don't worry too much about reading all the signs and signals for now. They're bound to be confusing, but part of the fun of being a teenager and experimenting with your feelings is being unsure and working out what it all means. Good luck! [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
MichiruKaiou answered Thursday January 1 2004, 8:11 am: He seems pretty interested in you! :) Maybe he does like you, confront him about it. Somehow bring up the topic of homosexuality and ask him his outlook on it. If he approves of it, tell him you are homosexual and he probably will tell you the same if he is. :) [ MichiruKaiou's advice column | Ask MichiruKaiou A Question ]
FernGully answered Thursday January 1 2004, 3:35 am: Umm... Are you male?
If so then perhaps he is homosexual, or simply exploring his options.
shay*shay answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 11:19 pm: 1. It doesnt seem like he wants to go out with you. He just wants to go on a date.
2. Yes it seems like he likes you
3. I have no idea if he likes brunettes, but Im sure he does! Cause brunnetes rock!
4. I heard nothing about him being gay
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
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