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married and in love with another man
what do I do if i'm in love with another man and I'm married. My husband says we(the man I;m in love with) can be friends but things seem to be more than friends I really love this other man
I want to be with him! Help
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please tell me this...IF YOU LOVE THE OTHER MAN...WHY DID YOU MARRY YOUR HUSBAND!?!?....if i were you i would not talk to this other man...it would be for the best im telling you this right now...and cheating...cheating will only make it worse and make you have a guilty conscience...so plz make a good decision...write me if u need me
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have sex with him and go wit the guy whos better in the sack and has more money
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Yeah tru, I mean what made you Marry him. You need to reconsider anything before going to another guy and think about who treats you good. Most likely probaly your husband. And Do What Cha do..But Best Bet you should do is think bout what draws you to him why you married him and stuff and try comparing that to the other guy you like. You made a commitment and Im sure that would hurt your husband Alot!
-Stephanie
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You've really got to think about this. You married your husband for a reason. You loved him. Try to remember what first drew you to him and renew your love.
Either that, or get a divorce. Cheating just isn't nice, so I don't reccomend you do that. Maybe take a vacation from seeing both of them for awhile - a week or so, maybe - and figure out where your heart lies. Hope I helped a bit!
-Siren =)
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Give yourself sometime to think about it. Then follow your heart. But don't creep around..be strait up about it.
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It may be time to call it cuts on you and your husband or you and that other guy need to call it cuts but you need to think real hard on this but it could be difficult loosing the one you are married to but thats where you have to sacrifice either way you loose someone very important to you-trix
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sry to say but thats kinda wrong do u even love ur husband?u might have to devorse your husband if u dont love him anymore but if you love both of them than you have to decide wich one u want more.maybe u shouldnt be married yet if u cant decide just try to figure things out but dont cheat on ur husband its not fair to him hope things work out
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Well, first off, you should ask yourself what marriage means to you, and what level of commitment you really have to your husband. Do you have children - if so, think of the impact on them, as well.
Next, I would ask why you are having such feelings for this other man - is your current situation with your husband unfulfilling? Should you instead be concentrating on making that relationship stronger, rather than starting a new one? If you were to start this new one, how long do you think it would last if the relationship with your husband is already waning with no interest in saving it?
Likewise, could it just be that you're caught up in the newness of this new relationship? How long will the "magic" really last?
Just food for thought.
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