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HOW DITCH??
I hang out with a few of my friends, but theres this one girl that follows us everywere How do we get rid of her??I dont want to tell her anything though Im just not good with feelings!!!
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just you know..down be mean and be all you know
umm we dont like you leave or nething
just introduce her to other people..that you dont really associate with and then they will become friends and then hopefully she wont follow. and she will leave you alone
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Hmmm, how doews she know where everyone's going to be in order to be there to follow you in the first place? Why don't you guys try planning to be together among those that you only want to attend. I don't know why you don't want this girl around, but if it was something she was doing that was THAT bad, then you guys wouldn't worry about her feelings. If it's because she's just not "cool" enough, or something else silly like that, then you know what, I'd tell her. Then I don't think she'd WANT to be aropund you guys, you dig?
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Well, I had this situation awhile ago. What I did was acted reluctant to do stuff with her and did more stuff with other people. It took her awhile but she got the point.
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This is hard. I had some friends who were in the same situation. So, if she ever came up to them and asked them what they were doing, they would say "hang on, wait right here a second.." then walk off and leave.
After this happening a few times, she got the idea.
However, if you are like me, and can't be mean to anyone, you just deal with it and life goes on.
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tell her the truth but make it seem not so mean I do lots of times.
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It seems like she's formed an emotional attachment to you guys, much like a little parasite forms a physical attachment to its host. In her case, you have something she wants, such as fun, attention, good looks, possessions etc. If you confront her, she will be submissive and agree with everything you say, then come right back for more. She's not going to leave you alone unless you all band together and drive her out with much insulting and tears, or she finds a new person to latch onto. Or you could move away. It's really not a good situation all around.
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ok i think u should just tell her the truth that u dont want to hang with and to leave u alone but do this nicely
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I have the same problem, and i still cant get rid of her! I tried getting into fights on purpose, but it just doesnt work! She gets annoying and always brags about the littlest things, i say, just try to let he down easy, when she follows you, tell her you gotta go and you and your friends walk away..but if that doesnt work u can be harsh, just know this..she might get mad, and if you feel bad, thats perfectly normal!
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Does the rest of your friends doesn't want this girl around too or is it just you? If it's just you then I'm afraid you'd have to find a way to get used to her being around. Majority wins. But if the rest of your friends feels the same then maybe you should meet up somewhere where she won't be around. Talk to your friends about it. Plan on doing something where she won't be able to track you guys down. Eventually she'll get the message if you keep on avoiding her.
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why dont u want her hanging out with u and your friends? the best way is to be nice about it dont be bitchy to her. help her find new friends to hang with or get one of ur friends or u to sit down and tell her. (without being mean about it)
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Two words: Mafia hit-man.
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