I don't want to brag or anything, but I must say that I am sort of an expert when it comes to helping people with everyday problems. Of course I have problems, too, but let's face it, no one's perfect. So if I can use some of mine and other people's experiences which needed serious help or talking over, I am sure and willing that I will be able to help you with almost anything you ask me. Warning Before Hand: I am totally honest. So please excuse me if you hadn't wished to hear the answer that I replied. But when it comes to some situations that are too complicated for me or out of my range to answer, then I will have to ask you to ask someone else, for I am only a teenager. Thank You.
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I like a guy(GUY 1), I don't know if he likes me. I think he does but I'm not sure. I'm 16 he's 18. We work together. We're friends.
So far it's relatively bog standard dilemma.
However...
I just had a mess up with one of the other guys(GUY 2) at work (he liked me, I don't like him but he thought I did). Guy 1 suggested that we pretend to be dating to basically piss of GUY 2( what the hell is that suggesting). Without thinking, I agreed.
What the hell am I supposed to do? (link)
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you should of just gone up to guy2 and said that he had the wrong idea and if you guys can still be cool with each other.
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There is this guy..I like him a LOT...He is funny and nice and everything...but this other guy asked me out..And i like him too..You see...
The first guy is...Funny...Nice..Cute..Sweet..etc..
The Other guy is...Nice..Cute..And obssesive..and Funny...
I like them both..But i dont know which one to go with...What do you think? (link)
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try the firest one first since he asked you out if it doesn't work then try to get hooked up with the second, they both seem like great guys. There's nothing wrong with being a little obsessive.
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WHEN TALKING TO UR CRUSH WHAT THINGS SHOULD U AVOID WETHER U R A GIRL OR A BOY. (link)
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talking too much
talking too little
boring them
embarrassing situations that happened to you before
past bfs or gfs
other
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i need a guy friend? anyone available? (link)
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i'm not a guy either but if you live close to NJ then maybe I could hook you up
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I hang out with a few of my friends, but theres this one girl that follows us everywere How do we get rid of her??I dont want to tell her anything though Im just not good with feelings!!! (link)
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tell her the truth but make it seem not so mean I do lots of times.
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Is it possible to become pregnant through oral sex (female giving to male) ? I was wondering since if you ingest semen isn't it possible for it to work through your body?
Also, is it possible to become pregnant if a couple is merely kissing or say fooling around and the male ejaculates into the vaginal area? They are not naked, boxers and shorts on the male and underwear on the female.
This may seem silly but I really need to know since I am having a difficult time finding alternatives to sex since I feel I am not ready for that yet. Advice would be great! (link)
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yes
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Why do cows have spots? (link)
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so they aren't so plain,duh
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OK SEE I HAVE ONLY HAD LIKE 3 BOYFRIENDS BUT I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT I HAVE HAD A TON AND I HAVENT EVEM KISSED A GUY BUT MY FRIENDS THINK I HAVE MADE OUT WIT LIKE EVERY GUY I DATED WHATS WRONG WITH ME AM I LIKE A LIE AHOLIC? (link)
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actually your in desperate need to prove to your friends that you have alot of bfs. You don't want to think your a slut or something. Just say you have the one or three bfs and leave it alone. In time,you will get kissed or kiss one of them.
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One of my so-called friends decided that she wanted to make stuff up about me, I guess to start a fight, but it's pretty sad that she has to make something up instead of saying osmething true that's bad, and it's pretty sad that she had that much trouble finding something bad that she made something up. Question is, do I confront her about it or not, because I heard it on the grapevine. I don't know if I should tell her to her face how pathetic it is that she has to make up something because she can't find anything, or if I should just leave her to think that she has gotten away with it completely. Can anyone help? (link)
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confront her about it but make it seem as if you don't care like you have something on her. And if she tries anything else, you'll sell out that information that you so called have.sHE'LL GET WORRIED, IF YOU DO THAT. aND DON'T TRY TO BECOME FRIENDS WITH HER AGAIN after she tried to do something like that.
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I ask alot of questions. . lately* lol
Well I was wondering, how can i tell fi my crush likes me? He acts dumb sometimes around me, and It was my frist day of school, But i started when everyone else did, and he was the first person to talk to me, he said how come u dont talk, I was like in my head, omg i dont know wut to say. . I dont know anyone!! And I just sat their staring at him, he was so adorable! And omg. . I dont know One time at recess it was wicked freezing and he wa slike i cant feel my toes. . it was soo cute, then my frined *a guy friend which is my crish's frined too* Stepped on my crush's toes! And he said oooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. . it was so funny/cute!
Then my friend said, how could u feel that if us ai du couldnt fel ur toes?!
I was so mad at her. . lol she was evil to my man!
Also when he walks by me he acts dumb/funny
And I think he thinks I like him* which I do*
Then their is the kdi i aksed about I kidna like him, but I duno hes a fun perosna nd all, but I duno. . I think of him as a friend! U know But my crush I wnat to marry this person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But Im not sure. . I mean if he lieks me. .do u think he does, please help! he doesnt talk to me that much. . but i duno. . i think its cuz he switche doutta my class. and well he cnat rlly talk to me cept 4 recess, , which he is always with his frineds! (link)
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it is totally visible that he likes you but he might be hesitant. but again he is a boy. Tell one of your best friends to go ask him if he knows you or if he likes anyone in particular. This trick usually works.
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i've been best friends with my friend since kindergarden, in first grade she moved away, but we've still been best friends since. she has two other close friends who go to my school and i can tell they're a little jealous of us being best friends. Lately my best friend (let's call her Ella) has been hanging out with her other friend (let's call her Tina) because they're in the same hebrew school. now she always talks about tina! a couple of times i've given Ella one of those best friend necklaces, but she nver wore it, recently Tina gave her a best friend necklace and she wears it all the time, though Tina never wears hers. Tina also talks about Ella behind her back, which i've never done (except now). I don't want my best friend to be hurt. How can i tell her about Tina?
i also have another problem with Ella... i've recently joined marching band and it's loads of fun. when i try to tell her about band camp and stuff, she quickly changes the subject, this really annoys me. Also, at Ella's bat mitza, i walked in with two of her friends from school, as soon as she saw them, she ran up and hugged them, but only waved and said hi to me. i don't want to lose ella as a best friend, she's the closest thing to a sister. what should i do? *please help me!* (link)
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It's obvious as you can or should see.
Ella doesn't want to be your friend anymore because Tina took your place but Tina is just using her.
Tell Ella before it is too late and that Tina ruins her life.
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i've been friends with this boy for a couple of years, just friends, but now, after spending most of the summer and after school with him i now have a crush... he has a split personality... one minute, he's the nicest, funniest, all around good person you'd ever meet, but sometimes he hangs around druggies... this scares me... (link)
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Talk to him about it, that's the only other thing you can do other than stop hanging out with him. Just to tell you, anyone who hangs out with druggies is going on the wrong path and we wouldn't want you to follow that path. Your crush might be a little infatuation and the more you hangout with him when he's with the druggies the more you might start to not like him.
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For the ones who have read the Ex-boyfriend Gone Mad and Dreams Column, I need your advice again. OK, so some of you said that I might have feelings for him. And some of you said that I might miss him. I can't like him!!! Number 1: My parents WONT allow it. Number 2: My parents wont let me see him anymore. Number 3: I have a boyfriend that is true to me and is everything I wanted out of a guy. But the love that my boyfriend and I share...it so different. And I don't want to like my EX because I don't want to be a "slut". Plus I don't want to like my EX because I will just end up getting hurt again. But then, WHY am I having dreams about him EVERY night? And today, I did the "ABCDEFG" thing with the soda can and it landed on "J" which is the beginging letter of my EX boyfriends name. I talked to a physic and she said that I am gonna be with this boy for the rest of my life. What do you think she ment by that? Like, am I gonna be with him as a married couple? Or just friends? Or am I just gonna know him for the rest of my life? What are all of the signs about? Why am I getting them anyways? I need your advice ASAP!
P.S. I will be seeing my EX at a play that he is in because my friend is in the same play that my EX is in. Should I talk to him or not? If so, what should I say? Or do??
Sincerely,
CONFUSED! (link)
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I would try to avoid him for a long and as much as you can and then after a longggggggg while, just start sweet conversation with him again in a way that doesn't lead him on. You guys could even make up and become friends. PHYSICS are fake anyways. What does she know. And there are some other reasons why all that stuff happened. Maybe it is your fate, your destiny to be with your ex. You might break up with your bf now in the future and want to get with him again. Just a little advice.
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Okay like who did it???Why did you take my chocolate???? (link)
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It was me.I did it. You took my Mr.Snuffles, I take your choclate. Ha,ha,ha.
~Meme strikes again~
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Okay do anyz of you know how to get rid of a column person you dont want anymor? (link)
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the first one's is right, but IDK
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Why am I black? (link)
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because god made you that way. Don't be a shame of your race. Everyone evolved and originated from Africa,your home continent. Being black is a good thing. I know, i'm black.
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hey, listen, i have a bad problem with dating guys. i mean evrytime i go out with a guy i end up finding out his using me after i really fall for them too. how can i prevent myself from looking so easy in front of guys? (link)
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study the guy for a while
play hard to get
and you'll see if he's right for you
and don't get into things quickly with him until you're really sure about him
'you can find out how a guy would treat you by the way he treats his mother'
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How can i stop myself from being self-consious? (link)
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join more social activities, you make a lot of new friends and you learn new stuff. That's what I did and I've got a self-esteem level of 80 out of 100,now. It rises the more you do new stuff, the more people you meet.
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How can I get the entire United States to convert over to the metric system? We're like the only country that uses idiotic "standard" units of measurement that make no sense, it costs our companies money and it's annoying to learn about two systems in school. I need to launch a huge enourmous campaign to take over the country! (link)
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i know it is annoying,but as long as you're not the president of the united states then just leave it alone
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How can make myself to seem mysterious in front of guys and not so easy. (link)
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stare at them for a while until they make eye contact
talk to your friends alot when they are around you
give small sniles to them once in a while
act mysterious, watch detective movies for more clues
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