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WHATS WRONG
OK SEE I HAVE ONLY HAD LIKE 3 BOYFRIENDS BUT I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT I HAVE HAD A TON AND I HAVENT EVEM KISSED A GUY BUT MY FRIENDS THINK I HAVE MADE OUT WIT LIKE EVERY GUY I DATED WHATS WRONG WITH ME AM I LIKE A LIE AHOLIC?
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Ok, maybe you just want people to think that you had lots of boyfriends and that you made out with them because you want attention. I don' think your lying. But tell your friends that truth and maybe you will get some stress off your shoulders! :)
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Your problem is you have a "chronic lieing disease" you really shouldn't lie about how many boyfriends you've had..so what you only had three who cares i know theres people out that there that havent even had one yet. dont go around lieing because sooner or later its going to catch up to you and get back to you and everyone is going to know that your lieing and your friends are going to hate you for lieing to them.just dont lie its not a big deal if you've had a boyfriend or not
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I think it's pretty normal to want to give people the impression that you have more experience than you actually do. You want to fit in, you want your friends to look up to you and think that you are attractive, in control and desired.
There is nothing wrong with you. It's also normal that you haven't kissed a guy. Take your time, there's no need to rush!
It's important to keep in mind that your experience with guys doesn't define you as a person. You don't need to impress your friends by telling them about your make-believe make-out sessions, and you don't need to make out with anyone to feel happy about yourself.
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Hmmmmm. liaholic....no. Liar....yes. The problem is not that you told the lie...it never really is. It's all about why you felt you NEEDED to tell the lie. Do you think that they won't like you as much if you don't have all of the experience you say you have? Or will YOU not like yourself as much? Do you feel like you're "falling behind " in the romance category and in an effort to be cool, you make up your own? You know what? I did the same thing as most of us did. I didn't have sex until what I thought was EXTREMELY late in comparison to my friends. What's funny though is.....when I actually DID have sex, it came out that none of them really had. Chances are that those you're trying to impress haven't either. Which is why they pay so much attention to who you've been with. you're about as close as they'll come for now and they live for your stories to add to theirs. Once I actually had sex, lol, the funniest thing of all happened. I didn't want anyone to know and didn't tell anybody. Go figure. Ask yourself what it is that you get from the lies and see if it's something you REALLY need or is it something you only WANT. Good luck.
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Wow, you've done some kind of lying, lol, but that's all in the past now. Clean off your slate and start fresh. Don't lie so much and just be honest. You don't need to lie to your friends for them to think you're cool and if ya do then they're not the kind of friends you want. If you think that there has been too much damage as is and how can you start over then just remember that at anytime you can start fresh but if ya never do then you'll be living in a lie for the rest of your life. It takes guts to start new but you can do it. I wish you luck!
Take care and smile! and keep life sweet!
Mad Love,
Tina
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actually your in desperate need to prove to your friends that you have alot of bfs. You don't want to think your a slut or something. Just say you have the one or three bfs and leave it alone. In time,you will get kissed or kiss one of them.
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no u just dont want to be left out just try and stop before they find out
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No, you are a compulsive liar with an ego problem. Egos are okay, because they keep you from feeling depressed. However, when they become inflated, LIKE YOUR TEXT, THEY GET ANNOYING TO BE AROUND AND PEOPLE START TO BELIEVE YOU'RE A LIAR. It's not uber cool to be frolicking around with boys anyway. They are a waste of your time, trust me. Concentrate on math--for example, it takes only 3/16ths of an inch to keep you from sounding like an idiot--the distance between the caps lock and the A keys.
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Well its up to you, you could tell your friends the truth, knowing they might be mad, but if they were truly your friends, they would understand! Or maybe you should keep it to yourself, but just not lie anymore..dont tell your friends about anymore guys! I know a girl like this, no one believes her because her stories get out of control!
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Hi i once did that 2. what helped me was that every time i wanted 2 say something that was a lie,say i wanted 2 say last night i went out w/ a guy 4 yrs. older than me,i would just say wouldnt that be wierd if i went out w/ a guy 4 yrs. older than me or say have u guys ever dated someone 4 yrs. older than me?GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
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Okay you are only a lier if you actually told your friends that you made out with a bunch of guys. If they just assume that you do you are not a lier. Though I dont think you should leed them to believe that you have.
-shay :-)
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