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OK SEE I HAVE ONLY HAD LIKE 3 BOYFRIENDS BUT I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT I HAVE HAD A TON AND I HAVENT EVEM KISSED A GUY BUT MY FRIENDS THINK I HAVE MADE OUT WIT LIKE EVERY GUY I DATED WHATS WRONG WITH ME AM I LIKE A LIE AHOLIC? (link)
I think it's pretty normal to want to give people the impression that you have more experience than you actually do. You want to fit in, you want your friends to look up to you and think that you are attractive, in control and desired.

There is nothing wrong with you. It's also normal that you haven't kissed a guy. Take your time, there's no need to rush!

It's important to keep in mind that your experience with guys doesn't define you as a person. You don't need to impress your friends by telling them about your make-believe make-out sessions, and you don't need to make out with anyone to feel happy about yourself.


ok i really like this guy in new york were my mom lives and i live w\ my dad in michagen but if i leave my dad i would feel sooooooooooo guilty and i wouldn't be able to help him. should i live with mom or dad? i know what your gonna say your gonna say that i shouldn't have just that reason for living with her and i don't i have more but this is my main prob. so plez don't say that! (link)
Huh? You want to move because you like this guy? That's absurd! I'm not sure I would automaticaly uproot my life for a guy I LOVED, much less for a guy I LIKED. There are plenty of fish in the sea; you should go fishing in the city where you currently live.


How do you know when you are in love? I think I might be...but then again I don't think so, because if I really loved him, I could actually talk to him and not just stare at him until he looks at me, and then (at a perfect opportunity to talk to him.) quickly look away.

>>Toungue Tied & Confused (link)
I think that there is a lot of hoopla about love. Surely, it's nice to be in love, but it won't get you very far if you can't communicate with your loved one. I wouldn't worry too much about whether it is love or not and just go with the flow and see what happens.


I got fired from my job about three years ago. It was really a great job and it was an exempt position too. I was using drugs at that time and it affected my performance and I was missing a lot of days worked. It was kind of like an eye opener for me when I got fired and I've been drug free since then. I had three little kids so I decided that it would be best if I stayed home with the kids during the day and I took a part time job at night. It's been this way for three years. Now that my youngest kid is also in school, I think that I am ready to work full time again. My dilema is I don't know what to say when asked on a job interview why I left my last full time job. I can't say I got fired because they wouldn't hire me. What do you think would the best response be? (link)
I would not mention the drug problem at all. What's past is past. There's no need to give potential employers too much information.

If anyone asks you why you left three years ago, just say that you wanted to stay home with your kids during the day and work at night, and that you are ready to enter the full time work force again now they are older.

I doubt that many interviewers will dwell on your last job, since it was a while back.

I do not condone lying, and I don't think that you are lying if you leave out that information. Clearly, if an interviewer specifically asked you if you were ever fired, you must tell the truth. However, as you did leave your job to stay home with your children, you do not have to go into any more detail than that. It's just not their business.


For the past 3 months I have had a sort of half-period. Absolutely nothing that I am used to. Before that, I just didn't get one at all for 2 months. Its very strange and somewhat concerning but I'd rather not go to the doctors if I have nothing to worry about. Help? (link)
I actually have a few questions for you:
Have you altered your diet recently?
Have you lost or gained a signficiant amount of weight?
Have you been under a lot of stress recently?
Did you recently move or start a new school?
Do you have any reason to think you might be pregnant?
You said you are not used to this: are your periods usually regular? Did you just start menstruating within the past year or so?
Did you recently stop taking birth control pills?

It is normally not a big deal to skip or have a much lighter period for a month or two, but five months is a pretty long time. As you can see, there are many possible causes, and your best option is probably to talk to a doctor, just to make sure everything is okay!




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