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OK im from australia i live in a small town and doing a course in business admin. (boring)
Gender: Female
Location: Australia
Age: 18
Yahoo: iris_willow
MSN: blair_the_black_iris@hotmail.com
Member Since: November 14, 2003
Answers: 13
Last Update: December 21, 2003
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My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating? (link)
today 13 year olds are as mature as 16 year olds were 20 years ago i think its ok it sounds like u trust her and if u do it shouldnt be a problem. and i guess since its with another couple its not like its just them by themselfs, i really dont see a problem with it


i just picked a random category because i dont have any ?'s that have to do with any of those. ANY WHO. I have friends down in portage michigan and i live an hour away. we talk over the internet and they are my cool people. and sometimes me and (ill call him j) j get in bed together and sing. songs like say my name and bootyliscious. thats pretty, cool. i love them much and i just wanted everyone to know (link)
YAY! im so happy for u!!!!! Keep singin ur little hart out :D


My boyfriend calls himself a Christian but doesn't go to church. I'm not a religious fanatic or anything, actually I'm pretty liberal and my church is too, but he's still really reluctant to go to church with me. He seems to really dislike organized religion. I understand where he's coming from, but he won't even give my church a chance... we're really cool. I'd love it if he'd go to church with me, I think it'd be fun, and frankly it freaks me out that he's so afraid to try new things. What do you think? (link)
let him do what he wants u cant push things on people let him find his own way.


Hey everyone, i'm so tired of being a prep and since being a punk is popular now, i think i'll go steal a chunk off of someone else's culture!

And can anyone tell me how to make my boobs look like Pamela Anderson's? Thanks so much, everyone! It means a lot to me! (link)
push ups?????? (bras that is)


ok i really like this guy in new york were my mom lives and i live w\ my dad in michagen but if i leave my dad i would feel sooooooooooo guilty and i wouldn't be able to help him. should i live with mom or dad? i know what your gonna say your gonna say that i shouldn't have just that reason for living with her and i don't i have more but this is my main prob. so plez don't say that! (link)
do what u think is right for urself dont worry to much about what ur mum and dad think its ur life, if u think ull have a better life and be happy with ur mum then go live with ur mum and same with your dad. in the long run its all about u and what u think is righ for u only. dont let people hold u back


Why do cows have spots? (link)
why can we talk?


OK SEE I HAVE ONLY HAD LIKE 3 BOYFRIENDS BUT I TELL MY FRIENDS THAT I HAVE HAD A TON AND I HAVENT EVEM KISSED A GUY BUT MY FRIENDS THINK I HAVE MADE OUT WIT LIKE EVERY GUY I DATED WHATS WRONG WITH ME AM I LIKE A LIE AHOLIC? (link)
no u just dont want to be left out just try and stop before they find out


Hi!I am a complete dog Freak and i have a chance 2 earn one.one problem i have 2 keep my room clean 4 a whole year.and i am the messiest person ever.HELP! (link)
im like u i HATE cleaning my room but i guess all i can say is every night before u go to bed put things away that way u wont be spending most of the day cleaning like i have to lol.


i need a guy friend? anyone available? (link)
nope


I hang out with a few of my friends, but theres this one girl that follows us everywere How do we get rid of her??I dont want to tell her anything though Im just not good with feelings!!! (link)
why dont u want her hanging out with u and your friends? the best way is to be nice about it dont be bitchy to her. help her find new friends to hang with or get one of ur friends or u to sit down and tell her. (without being mean about it)


OK so here's what happened this weekend...

Friday; after work Jon came up to me and told me (with beautiful eloquence) that he fancied me.

Saturday; I went to meet him after work to talk to him.I was sufficiently confused that he guilt-tripped me into saying that I liked him back and getting his mobile no. etc.

Sunday; he asked me to meet him and we spent a couple of hours in town talking.

Monday;he asked me to meet him (again) and I said I had to much work to do.

Today; I will be seeing him and would like YOUR advice as to how to let him down.

He is a very sweet person but I don't like him enough to want to go out with him especially with the complication of working together.

HELP!
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its hard telling someone you dont like them but really it cant go on take him to a place where not many people are and let him down nicly just tell him u just want to be friends


I have a HUGE crush on this guy at my church, but he HATES my guts. I actually think I love him, but I dont know why. What should I do?
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back off and be nicer to him show him that he has no reason to hate u then try being friends with him then see where that goes.




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