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I have a HUGE crush on this guy at my church, but he HATES my guts. I actually think I love him, but I dont know why. What should I do?
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Wow..first of all, you don't sound like a girl to hate. Tell me why you think he said he hates you, then mail me back on here! I'm pretty sure he doesn't hate you! He's probably had some rough times in his life right now, maybe you could start off saying something nice to him like "I like your hair, or I like what your wearing!" :)
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back off and be nicer to him show him that he has no reason to hate u then try being friends with him then see where that goes.
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Get over him. You don't love him. Find a dictionary and check out this really groovy word: infatuation.
The end.
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Well, are you positive he hates you? After all hate IS a strong word, and did you ever think of telling him how you feel? And maybe if he doesnt like you in tha tway, try to become his friend and eventually he might like you, after spending enough time together he can get to know you, and realize what you are truly like! Oh and make him notice you..Maybe he'll discover what the true you is and decide that he likes you!...GoOd LuCk!
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why do u think he hates u? the first thing to do is to is talk 2 him. just say hay i like u and imnot sure u r 2 fond of me and just talk 2 him!GOOD LUCK
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Okay first you have to make him not hate you. You had to of done something for him to hate you. So stop doing that and become his friend.
Friends first!
-shay :-)
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well try to make him your friend and than turn into good friends and then ask him out:)
your welcome,
jackie
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ok i think you should try to be friend with him first and if that doesnt work i dont know what to tell
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do u know he hates ur guts?ifnot find out all the facts b4 u accuse and if he does dont like him know it is hard but find a new crush b-cuz hun it aint ganna happen
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You only feel like you love BECAUSE he hates you. Noone likes to be disliked. But for some, it seems to be the end of everything holy. Take a look at WHAT you (ahem...LOVE) about him. Make a list. And if you find that it's shorter than you thought it would be, then maybe you feel that way out of a need to change his feelings for you, if only a small bit.
If you find that you DO have a long list. Then take into consideration that maybe he hates you because you love him.
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You want something you can't have, it's human nature. In order to be in love with someone you have to know them really well, I am assuming that you don't, in which case it is just infatuation and will pass, Please try to move on, you are not going to get anywhere with someone that doesn't like you, there are people more deserving of your affection
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