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Hey everyone, I wan't to be the best help I can be! So why don't you ask me somethign and I promise I will answer! Bye,

BrItTaNy!!!!
E-mail: PunkiMunki192@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Holyoke, Ma
Occupation: "6th Grade" Student
Age: 11
AIM: NoOneCares3132
Yahoo: XxSimplyMe92xX
MSN: PunkiMunki192@hotmail.com
Member Since: December 6, 2003
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Last Update: December 19, 2003
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OK, i just got my first period today. Unfortunately, my mom is on vacation so I have no clue what to do. Am I supposed to wear a pad/tampon while I sleep? How often should i change them? THank you so much for your help! (link)
I'm new at this too, but I've had only 2 periods so far and right now I just started y 3rd*. . I wear pads, my mom says Im too younge for tampons, just incase u leave them in to long I dont wnat anythign to happen to you. . lol sry but dont wear tampons untill ur older, just trust me! U will be mroe responsible, cuz some times i 4get imw earing pads, because ud ont have to chnage thme as much as u do tampons, My flow isnt that much its very light so I only have to change it 2-3 tinmes a day, i chnage it in the mornign befor ei go to school, and befor e lucnh i check it and usually tis fine and thne i chnage it befor ei go to bed, a fresh one 4 bed is good because it wont be all soggy or enything wne u wake up. . because if u flow alot mroe u migh need o chnage it more than 3 times i dont knw exactly. . start with the medium or large size. . and check how much u flow* I use regular. . ok well hope all goes well. . !!!

p.s I barely get cramps, but u may get some. . I usually get them right before i have my period. . and thats about it but when i starte dmy 2 and 3 i didnt get them. . only the first!


OK so here's what happened this weekend...

Friday; after work Jon came up to me and told me (with beautiful eloquence) that he fancied me.

Saturday; I went to meet him after work to talk to him.I was sufficiently confused that he guilt-tripped me into saying that I liked him back and getting his mobile no. etc.

Sunday; he asked me to meet him and we spent a couple of hours in town talking.

Monday;he asked me to meet him (again) and I said I had to much work to do.

Today; I will be seeing him and would like YOUR advice as to how to let him down.

He is a very sweet person but I don't like him enough to want to go out with him especially with the complication of working together.

HELP!
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Do you want to be mean about it, or sweet about it??

Mean- U r the worst bf ever, I dont want to be urs anymore!

Sweet- Ur a great guy and everything, but I just dont feel us clicking, you know what I mean, Im not trying to be mean or anything, btu mabye we could just be friends, ,


Okay, there's this guy who I am madly in love with. I think of him 24/7, I doodle his name all over my school work, and I dream about him at night. But, as far as I know, he has no idea that I like him. Now he's got a girlfriend. I have no clue what to do. I mean, just because he has a girlfriend, doesn't mean that I can just turn off my feelings like they never existed. I mean, I cry everytime I see him and his girlfriend together. And I see him ALL the time. Everyday in class, weekends, summer. It's crazy. I just don't know what to do. But my problem is that I don't know how to tell him that I love him, because I'm positive that he doesn't feel the same way. All of my friends say I should move on...but it's just so hard. Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer. (link)
I had htis problem b4 too. . I was sooo sad. . . You will just have to wait untill he is single again. . But you might not want to wait. . so keep feelin this feleing you feel 4 him but go guy searchin. . !!!

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hey, listen, i have a bad problem with dating guys. i mean evrytime i go out with a guy i end up finding out his using me after i really fall for them too. how can i prevent myself from looking so easy in front of guys? (link)
Don't say yes to going out at first wait a little while, and if you sence they r using u get otu right away!


Well i don't know but i would like to know if being a little fat has to do with any thing i just can't seem to get a girl to like me i'm nice i am a beliver of the Lord what should i do? (link)
Don't worry, if girls can't except you the way you are. .Don't bother! you're special soemone will come soon!



i've been friends with this boy for a couple of years, just friends, but now, after spending most of the summer and after school with him i now have a crush... he has a split personality... one minute, he's the nicest, funniest, all around good person you'd ever meet, but sometimes he hangs around druggies... this scares me... (link)
you like him so try getting him to stop hanging with the druggies. . and it'll be cool. . dont get caught up in this mess!


i am already on the list of people but noone has chosen my name yet and it is totally bothering me also what is that one girls problem?the one with the fingering question (link)
dunoo. . .ppl these days!


with what u sai to that one girl i totally agree about masturbating i think she was acting like a fucking bitch excuse the language maybe she should go be a hoe somwhere else lol srry and i have an advice column how do i get people to ask em questions directly? (link)
I don't know, no one except u really has asked me a question direct;y, i just start answwering questions randomly, and if u have answered atleast 5 q's u get put on the column list and people may choose your name,


Why am I black? (link)
If one or both of your parents are black, then you would of came out black. . sheesh!


I am a quiter how can i prevent it. (link)
Try harder, and don't give up so easily! And ask for help when u need it!


Okay i like this girl a whole lot but i am to afraid to talk to her becuase i got helled back this year so now she's in eighth grade and i'm in seventh so should i still talk to her (link)
Of course! You like her, and so wut. . If she can't accept you now , if she liked u back then , then somethign is wrong. . But don't worry the worst thing she can do is not talk back. .


do u thinnk beagles are cute? (link)
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


ok first of all not to be rude but done call me hun it creeps me out im probably much much older than u u r probably still in middle school come back and give me advice when u r in high school no offense it is just that u will understand more then then u probably do now plus hat eto tell u this but 4 out of every 5 females masturbate (link)
Shut Up b!$#@@#!$! Sry not to get rude wit the laungae, but hun is my wrod for female people! And go masturbate u h!~@@! Idont care! gosh, u got a problem with me then reject the advice!


i just slept with a classmate of mine. But the problem is i dont know how i will face him at school. Also did i mention his not my boyfriend and i am afraid he'll use it against me. even though we promised each other not to tell anyone even my best friend. Also i am not sure whether he likes me more than just a friend even thought we dont interact that much in school. What do i do? (link)
First of all, why did u too sleep with eahc other if u dont even have a comitment, unles su r freinds. . !!! And he cnat us eit against u . .u had it so wut. . just ignore him. .


How can make myself to seem mysterious in front of guys and not so easy. (link)
Wear dark sunglasses, but take em off when ug et in school duh, dont talk that much, wear black. . not all the time but add blakc ot ur woredrobe!


ok well im a female and im really curious about sex but i wont until im married so in order to pleasure myslf i have to finger myself but im not sure how to i mean i know im supposed to like put my finger in my hole but i dont get pleasure by diong that so what should i do and how should i finger myslf well how do i finger myself? (link)
Sry, I can't give u advice,. . . Im not educated enough to answer that!


my friend likes this guy we hang around with. But the problem is that he doesnt like her even though when there alone he kisses her. The biggest problem is that me and him interacts very well and we kissed i mean really kissed and my friend knows that i dont like him so she doesnt mind after all the shit he has said about her. Am i being a good friend? if not how can i.
P.S. i secretly like him. (link)
This Guy has problems! He kisses her even though he doesn't like her?? If he really kissed u, but didnt rlly kiss her, then he probly likes u. . If she likes him and he dzunt like her, she should not waste her time. . but if u rlly like him then go 4 it! U R BEIN A GOOD FRIEND! Why wouldnt u be,? its not ur fault he kissed u. . and he duznt like her, so just forget about it. . I dont know ut i cnat tell ya!


Our english teacher just started a creative writing club and we just had a meeting to come up with a club name that's unique and fun. Well we got absolutely nowhere, and since I'm secretary and club organizer I have to help decide a club name. And I can't think of ANYTHING! Please, if anyone has any ideas please email me, or post an answer. ASAP. Thanks!
~SweetSolaris~ (link)
WritersUnite. . just kidding, I don't know. . But you should work a commitment with everyone, give ideas and take ideas from all of them! MAke up words and put them together o you cn make one cool amazing name! :) Im sure it will work!

Try to come up with things that mean, writing or creative or english you know! And it will be cool !




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