metawidget answered Tuesday December 9 2003, 1:08 pm: Move a little more slowly: think long and hard before you pick up a new project.
It seems to me people have a maximum project load kind of hard-wired into them. When you go past that load, you don't just drop back down to a safe level... your life kind of over-compensates and projects start dropping like flies. So... choose carfully and don't take up new things when you feel fully loaded. It may take a few tries to figure out your best load, and you may find some projects are bigger than they look, but at least you'll have a strategy and some sense of how you work.
Be sure to consider friends, family, etc. as part of your load. They may not be "chores" but you're not working on projects while you're having quality time with them.
If you have an appropriate workload, it'll be easier to finish stuff. You'll still have to work at finishing stuff, but you'll have a fighting chance! [ metawidget's advice column | Ask metawidget A Question ]
koshii answered Sunday December 7 2003, 10:11 pm: Quit quitting?
Sporkster answered Sunday December 7 2003, 9:34 pm: Well, when you're in the middle of something, and you want to quit, tell yourself to hold on for another minute, and keep repeating that until you're done. [ Sporkster's advice column | Ask Sporkster A Question ]
meme1229 answered Sunday December 7 2003, 8:39 am: have more endurance,courage,faith in your self,don't let anyone tell you you can't do something.Try that something for a while and if you don't like it wait until it's over no matter what and then never do it again. [ meme1229's advice column | Ask meme1229 A Question ]
actualtruths answered Sunday December 7 2003, 4:45 am: one way to help yourself, is to set small achieveable goals. Once you are into the habit of achieving larger goals, move into slightly larger ones, then larger ones.
Always remember to keep your motivation up and ask your friends to help you out too!! Not all goals are boring or unattainable. believe that and always tell yourself you'll get there one day.
If you need any other advice, email me teri_advice@hotmail.com I really would like to hear if you succeed in becoming a non-quitter.
musicismyworld answered Sunday December 7 2003, 1:00 am: this is easy just stick with something sometims u have to work for something but just think of how the final result will be thats all u have to do i know it sounds difficlut but if u really try it isnt [ musicismyworld's advice column | Ask musicismyworld A Question ]
shay*shay answered Saturday December 6 2003, 11:55 pm: What is your situation? Well all I can tell you is that when you choose to do something like an instroment make sure at the begining that that is wht you really want to do.
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
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