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ok well im a female and im really curious about sex but i wont until im married so in order to pleasure myslf i have to finger myself but im not sure how to i mean i know im supposed to like put my finger in my hole but i dont get pleasure by diong that so what should i do and how should i finger myslf well how do i finger myself?
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get a vibrator and see if that helps and get some sex toys. hope it helps. can u please rate me and write me back to tell me if you like my idea
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well, for starters, think about things that turn you on. Touch your stomach, and your breasts, and your thighs first. If it helps, pretend it's your dream husband touching you. :) Lightly rub around your vulva, especially near or on the clitoris (post again if you have trouble finding it). By the time you go to put your finger into your vagina (the hole) it should be wet, and your finger should slide in easily. Make sure you have clean hands when you start, and keep your fingernails trimmed and clean so you don't scratch yourself.
Take your time, explore your body. Most women find it easier to orgasm from clitoral stimulation (rubbing the clitoris) than from vaginal stimulation (rubbing inside the hole). Do what feels good. If it doesn't feel good, especially if it hurts, don't do it. :) You'll know if you hurt yourself, but I think the worst you can do is give yourself a scratch. I've masturbated with and without long nails for over a decade and I've never hurt myself.
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Well You fingure yourself for pleasure How do you do it?Well to pleasure your self you must do what you have been doing it Put your fingure in Your hole and you must either lay on something flat and move your fingure up and down in your own speed Fast or slow or you can sit up with your legs apart and simply get on your knees with your legs still apart and you put your hand on the ground and move your lower body up and down or however U want while your fingure is still in the hole
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Hmmm, MOST women find the act of moving the finger "in and out" pleasurable. Thus the term, " Thrusting". But you will have to decide for yourself what's pleasurable for you. Pay attention the labia, the "lips" and other areas surrounding the vaginal opening. These areas can be sensitive and pleasurable, as well. Find out what works best for you. And in closing...congrats on your choice to wait until marriage. I'm very, very impressed!
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Contrary to belief this is not bad, it's very natural to masturbate... 99.9% of guys do it (and if they say they don't there probably lying) 1 in 3 women do it as well... for some reason there is a cultural taboo about women doing this... it's not sinning, its NOT Adultery at all you can't hurt yourself unless you really want to or you scrape yourself with something sharp... those beliefs make it seem bad... it's actually a proven way of releasing tension and stress, and lower blood pressure... so it's actually healthy... also it's proven that it gets your body more receptive to touch and more likely to "peak" when you actually do it... not reaching orgasm is a fairly common problem for women, so why not do what you can to help yourself become more satisfied when you actually do it...
(if your wondering facts come from my research and my mother who tells me way more about sex, women and your reproductive track then I ever wanted to know)
Anyways to your question... you want to find your clitoris, you can use a finger and slowly message in circular motions between your fold around your virgina, relax, and try and find what feels good, fingering yourself is not the best answer... good luck...
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a lot of women respond better to clitoral stimulation that penetration. try just massaging around the outside of your vagina (called the vulva) instead of just fingering yourself.
also, theres a place that i'm sure youve heard of called the "g-spot." imagine that youre facing another woman and you put your finger in your vagina and make the "come here" motion with your finger. thats where its located, on the outer wall of your vaginal canal. try finding that, you may be happy.
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ok i think u should do what makes u fell good if that makes u feel right then do that know is stoping u ecsept your self so do that if u want to
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Okay, God won't strike you down for touching yourself. Really. I'd have to say it's better than sex.
I would experiment with what feels good. There are some good sites you can Google on. It is all individual preference. :)
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Sry, I can't give u advice,. . . Im not educated enough to answer that!
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First off that is adultry and you shouldn't be doing that i know it is hard bot belive me it pays off just do what the Lord wants and don't do that!
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I'd like to make a comment about periods. There's a distinct lack of them in your question.
Clitoris, love... it's all about the clitoris!
Can't find the clitoris? Then you're no worse off than 96% of the male race. Find an anatomy book and follow the roadmap to success.
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