ask Kayla13



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



I am a good advice giver I love to sit down and talk to People with problems or questions I love little kids they Brighten my day I am also a Basketball player for my school i love almost any kind of sport and i also like to sing and hang with my friends!
E-mail: GhettoChix56@aol.com
Gender: Female
Location: Cookeville.Tennesse
Occupation: Work in Bakery also a student
Age: 17
ICQ: no
AIM: no
Yahoo: kaylas_Cutie22
MSN: Kayla_Cutie69
Member Since: December 21, 2003
Answers: 16
Last Update: December 24, 2003
Visitors: 2356

Main Categories:
Love Life
Parenting
General Sex Questions
View All

hi you answered my question bout asking a guy out but i was wondering if you had any tips for getting your courage upo cuase i like my friend (link)
okay you like your friend and want to know who to get a date with him if i am wrong send me a question back.Well you started out as friends and now you wanna be in a relationship wit this person so I would go to your Guy and say hey i like you and i wanna know if you are ready for a Relationship he should give you an answer But here is your tips
1.You should led him on
2.You should call him about 2-3 times a week
3.whenever you see him Commen him on something
4.Whenever you see him (only sometimes)ask for a hug

and that is all i have to sayif ya have any other questions hit me back

_.*~*._Kayla13_.*~*._


Hi..you answered my question about my ex watching me. You said that I should flaunt it and make him realize what he's lost is far better than what he has now. And I was just wondering, if you had any ideas on how I should flaunt it? hehe. Thanks.
(link)
I'm really Not sure You know i am so Brain dead Right now i dont even know what flaunt means so Hit me back and I get back with you have a Good Christmas I am 17 Yrs just in cased you wanted to know


how do you ask a guy out with out ruining a friendship (link)
This is what you say Go to him and say (hey i really like you as a friend and all but i think i have more than just a friend on my mind.I like you and i wanted to know if you like me and would want to be with me and take our friendship to the next Level)!!! If you have any other questions Fill free to hit me up i'll be there


How do you know when you are in love? I think I might be...but then again I don't think so, because if I really loved him, I could actually talk to him and not just stare at him until he looks at me, and then (at a perfect opportunity to talk to him.) quickly look away.

>>Toungue Tied & Confused (link)
If you know your in love then you will have this wierd felling in your stomach and you will know you if you are in love


Look I have this boyfriend his name is Buddah and he has a drinking and drug habit and wont stop until he get's probation.Also there's this perfect boy in school name Maurice and he want's to go with me,So should I break up with Buddah and go with Maurice or stay with Buddah??????? (link)
Well if your boyfriend has as drinking and Drug addiction that is not good for you to be hanging with him because he can do crazy things while the drugs and drirking could make him go crazy.I think you need to be with Maurice. Merry Christmas if you have any questions please fill free to ask me more question cuz i love doing it


My friends and I sometimes make ourselves throw up like if we eat a really big meal and don't want to get fat from it. It's not bad, we're not anorexic or anything, and I know a ton of people who do it. But this one girl at our school found out and is like freaking out about it... how do we let her know it's okay? (link)
Okay if you are young around 10-19 area and you do that that is not really good for your Health But if you are in that age range you still have a fast matabilizim.Which is when you eat it all diagest it.It all goes away a dosn't make you Fat. I think the only reason that girl is freaking is because she care Bout u and she dont want you tto ruin your health it is not kool to make yourself throw up because you lose all sorts of Body Fluids and if you do that you can lose alot and get sick


My 10 year old daughter is invited to a birthday party sleepover this weekend. Is ten year old too young for sleepovers or is it okay for this age to go on sleepovers? (link)
No 10yrs is not to young to go to a sleep over 5 is to younge to go to a sleep over it sounds like your over Protective of you little girl. she is 10 now and she thinks she is a little mature cuz she is in Double digits (10) MOM she'll be ok if you trust her


Look I really love my boyfriend weve been together for 3 years and I want to take it to the next level(sex)and he wants to know if im really sure oh here's the catch im a virgin he knows of course so what should I do???????????? (link)
Well if you want to Take it to the next level I am sure your guy will be very careful if you are a virgin he should know and take it in his own consideration.So if you want that is your choice



My daughter is currently 13 years old. She's fairly mature and doesn't dress slutty. Now, she has liked this guy for about half a year. Today, he asked her out. They want to go see a movie with another couple their age on monday. I don't know if I should let her go. What is your stance on this? Is 13 too young to be dating? (link)
13 now a days are pretty mature and are pretty careful with what they do now they know bout everything I dont think 13 is to young to date the perfect age and since she is going with another couple it should be just fine there should be no worry if you trust her.You should let her date Now she is at a Mature age


I'm on my period and have really awful cramps. What's the best drug to take? Aspirin? Tylenol? I'm tempted to just take them all. (link)
Hey i am also a Girl and i always use Tylenol PMS that always helps


What do I do if I think I'm obsessed with sex? (link)
if you think you are obsessed with sex then you are you like it and you want it But u always make sure you use protection


ok well im a female and im really curious about sex but i wont until im married so in order to pleasure myslf i have to finger myself but im not sure how to i mean i know im supposed to like put my finger in my hole but i dont get pleasure by diong that so what should i do and how should i finger myslf well how do i finger myself? (link)
Well You fingure yourself for pleasure How do you do it?Well to pleasure your self you must do what you have been doing it Put your fingure in Your hole and you must either lay on something flat and move your fingure up and down in your own speed Fast or slow or you can sit up with your legs apart and simply get on your knees with your legs still apart and you put your hand on the ground and move your lower body up and down or however U want while your fingure is still in the hole


okay so me and my boyfriend just met a month ago and we're already having sex. I really enjoy it but i think it s too soon! what should I do?

Love,
Horny Baby (link)
Dear Horney Baby,
u and your Guy are having sex while yall have only been going out for a month if you think it is to soon you need to tell him and he should understand Because he is your man
Love, Kayla13


Okay, I'm a sort of goody-goody. I don't do drugs, I don't have sex, I've never had a boyfriend, etc. etc. A lot of my friends don't believe that oral sex is something bad. i understand that it's something that a lot of people do, and I also understand that it could be much worse, but I really think it's gross, and I just wanted some people's opinions on it. Is it "naughty" to have oral sex?

*Just Wondering* (link)
Dear,Just Wanding well yes Oral sex isn't something a good girl would do but some people do it because of there hormones and the certain way they fell about there Mate


Ok, I still really like my ex boyfriend. But, he has a new gilfriend, that he supposedly really likes. *Rolls eyes* But, my friends and I have caught him SO many times staring at me while I walk in the halls at school. And I wrote my friend this hilarious note, and he read it and laughed. Like, a lot. But, he doesn't make any effort to talk to me or anything. My friends think he still has feelings for me, but he's with this other girl and he's afraid to pursue anything with me. My friends also think I should try making him jealous and "flaunt it". Any ideas on how to do that?

-Thanks. (link)
well u still have fellings for your ex and you want him back but it seems he doesn't notice no u no more and he has a new Girl well you need to be brave and call him and up tlk to him about it and then you cam be friends once as you were before and maybe that relationship will grow into a more serious relationship


One of my friends at college, let's call him Try, seems to have developed feelings for me. Isn't that great? Well, not really. As much as I'd like to see him happy, I like another guy, Catch for the purposes of this excersize.

I made a post on a messageboard implying I had feelings for a guy. I was referring to Catch. I didn't figure there was any way anyone could interpret it as being anyone BESIDES Catch.

Part two. I sign up for livejournal so it's easier to talk to Try while he's back in Taiwan, halfway across the world. Consequently, I can now see all his private posts on HIS livejournal. Turns out, Try was hoping it was HIM I was talking about. And there were also random outbursts about how it was [female name, let's say Throw] all over again. Now, I know of his history with Throw, and I don't want to be another Throw.

Now I feel like I know stuff I shouldn't, and I feel bad about making Try feel bad, and I still care about Catch more than anything. It's a mess.

RuntimeException! What's a girl to do? (link)
well it seems he really likes you and u need to tell him u just want to be friends and tell him there is someone you need right now maybe his turnwill come up soon




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker