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Look I really love my boyfriend weve been together for 3 years and I want to take it to the next level(sex)and he wants to know if im really sure oh here's the catch im a virgin he knows of course so what should I do????????????
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if youre second guessing yourself, you arent ready. sex, especially for the first time, is something you really need to think about. just because youve been together for 3 years doesnt mean anything. just know that sex is a great thing when youre emotionally ready for it. if you decide to do it, use a condom!
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If you're asking what to do, then maybe you AREN'T sure. First of all, I like your boyfriend for waiting for three years. Apparently, he hasn't pressured you and that gains alot of respect from me. I think he's only asking if you're sure because he knows how important it is and is simply being a gentleman. I wish you had stated how old you are. But, I'm going to answer in the best way I can with what I've been given.
I think he's being a gentleman. What should you do?.....answer him HONESTLY. ARE you sure? Think about it, and THEN make your decision. Good luck and clear thinking.
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If you're really ready to take it to the next level, why are you seeking for advice? Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to have sex. Even if the majority of the advice you receive from here will be not to do it, would you really listen to us? Anyways, if you ever go there make sure he's wearing protection or you'll be sorry.
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well, the thing that matters isn't so much whether or not you're a virgin, but whether or not you really love and feel safe with him and can trust him to not go running once you "take it to the next level"
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Please don't do it. If he is really committed, he would present you with a ring. I was so sorry when it happened to me.
If you do decide to go ahead, please use a condom and other appropriate birth control. I don't know if you are still in school or what, but this could wreck all of your future plans either due to a baby or a horrible disease.
It is really nice that the guy is kind enough to ask, but be careful.
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Well if you want to Take it to the next level I am sure your guy will be very careful if you are a virgin he should know and take it in his own consideration.So if you want that is your choice
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If you are true to your virginity dont do anything just wait for marrage. Though if you want this badley take birth control or use condoms.
-shya :-)
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Talk to him, if you really want to, be clear you do, it's good he's being respectful by making sure you are sure, good guy. Anyways be sure you both have some sort of protection condom and birth control is best. If you want to and you’re ready for possible consequences, and ready for the emotions that go with it then ok, let him know...
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Well if you and him both are comfortable about the situation, then I say "Go ahead!" But first you need to find out if hes comfortable with it!
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make sure you really want this and if so let your boyfriend know that you're absolutly sure and then take things from there. Communication is the key :)
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