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Question Posted Thursday December 11 2003, 7:38 pm

okay so me and my boyfriend just met a month ago and we're already having sex. I really enjoy it but i think it s too soon! what should I do?

Love,
Horny Baby

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lilattitude2004 answered Thursday March 25 2004, 5:11 pm:
tell him that u not ready 4 a baby just in case the condom slips. im only 13 thats the best i can do. hope i could help u. but make up a little lie horny baby. can you please rate me and ask me more qustions

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Here-To-Help answered Wednesday December 31 2003, 12:08 pm:
yes, too soon...a month isnt a long time and you hardly know the guy as a boyrfriend.

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xbrokentearsx answered Wednesday December 24 2003, 2:02 am:
If you think its too soon,then follow your heart and stop.I'm not going to preach here on the importance of not having sex with just anybody, but if you choose to continue having sex,I highly suggest looking into birth control. go to your local planned parenthood,and look into your options.there are a ton out there. hope I helped
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Kayla13 answered Monday December 22 2003, 1:22 am:
Dear Horney Baby,
u and your Guy are having sex while yall have only been going out for a month if you think it is to soon you need to tell him and he should understand Because he is your man
Love, Kayla13

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OneMan answered Thursday December 18 2003, 7:25 pm:
Well, it depends on why you think it's to soon. If you think it's too soon because that's not the type of person you are, or it's not something that you're accustomed to doing, then, you have to ask yourself if it's something that you can do and find yourself ok with in the long run. If it's because you feel that he may have a certain "idea" about you for having "done it" so soon, then forget it. Changing it now wouldn't change his mind. Bottom line, if you think it's too soon, then it probably is.

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kathykat answered Tuesday December 16 2003, 3:01 pm:
If you think it's too soon, then it may be for you. There is no set period of time you have to know someone before you have sex; it is entirely what you are comfortable with and ready for. What you need to do is tell *him* how you feel, not us.

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zoe. answered Thursday December 11 2003, 10:44 pm:
if youre having second thoughts, stop having sex with him. youre not ready for it yet if youre second guessing yourself. talk to him about it and see if you can just stop for a little while.

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musicismyworld answered Thursday December 11 2003, 8:43 pm:
tell your boyfriend exactly how u feel about it honesty is the best policy and if he breaks up or gets mad at u for it hen chances r u shouldnt be with a guy like him

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shay*shay answered Thursday December 11 2003, 7:52 pm:
Okay, okay slow down! You should not be doing that so soon! Even a year is to soon. You should have remained a virgin. Since you cannot change the past change your future and explain to him that you are not ready to have that type of relationship. Plus your playing easy to get and soon he will not like you.
-shay :-)

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ScaperJess answered Thursday December 11 2003, 7:47 pm:
If you think it's too soon and your not yet ready, tell him that, refrain... it's statistically unhealthy for the relationship to go that far prior to 6 months... be careful, if you continue make sure you use protecting and maybe birth control... you need to make sure you protect yourself... if you tell him you think you should slow it down that it's just going to fast he should except that if he doesn’t or threatens to leave you then let him go he's not worth it... he should respect you more than his hormones...

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