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Oral Sex
Okay, I'm a sort of goody-goody. I don't do drugs, I don't have sex, I've never had a boyfriend, etc. etc. A lot of my friends don't believe that oral sex is something bad. i understand that it's something that a lot of people do, and I also understand that it could be much worse, but I really think it's gross, and I just wanted some people's opinions on it. Is it "naughty" to have oral sex?
*Just Wondering*
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First of all, this is a matter of opinion. You don't need to ask us, if you think it's wrong, don't do it!! Maybe some day you will change your mind, who knows? For now, just try to be comfortable with the fact that you don't seem to be ready for this. Don't let your friends call you ignorant or immature for it- it's really not their business what you think about it. Personally, I think it really depends on the maturity level you are on with the person you are dating. I really think it's wrong if people just do it because it's convenient at the time, and they can tell people that they did it.
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Oral sex isn't "right" or "wrong" by defintion. It is up to you. Only you can say oral sex is good/bad/whatever. I personally do not do it because I am not ready for the risks.For me it is wrong; however I have friends who do it. For them it is right.
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if you think its gross, its gross. i dont really have an opinion on it. youre not stupid or naive or anything for thinking its gross. its actually smarter that way. you can still get STIs from oral sex, including HIV/AIDS. STIs are what is gross.
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Dear,Just Wanding well yes Oral sex isn't something a good girl would do but some people do it because of there hormones and the certain way they fell about there Mate
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What's naughty can't be determined by just one person. Each couple has to decide among themselves what will and what will NOT be acceptable between the two of them. And, with the changing of the mate, so changes the agreement. In the interest of professionalism, I'll keep MY preferences to myself. But, out of respect for your question I'll say, " I don't think the act itself is naughty. It's just a preference, and one that everyone has the right to choose. So, if it's not right for you, then that's ok.
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You’re not alone in the world... I personally would not want to do that time soon, and many women are uncomfortable with it... I know to me it seems a bit disturbing, but it is not "bad" or "naughty" some people use it as a way to pleasure each other without actually "doing it" and they are comfortable with it... perhaps in time you might not think its as revolting as you think it is now... maybe not but that’s not bad... to each their own...
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Oral sex is sex.
If sex is naughty for you, then oral sex is naughty.
If it's the risk of pregnancy that's naughty for you, then oral sex is not naughty (there was a recent pair of questions on this bit).
If it's the risk of STDs that's naughty for you, then, well, oral sex is safER sex, not risk-free.
Things might be naughty for you because they seem naughty to you, or because you believe in something else which makes them naughty.
Whatever oral sex's naughtiness status for you is, the only time your friends' O.S.N.S. should concern you is from an epidemiological point of view, or in a friendly debate, or if you'd rather not kiss a mouth that's done THAT (and try to be nice about it... maybe a hug or a Montreal-style kisses-on-the-cheeks or something), etc. Most of the time, it's something on which people can and do differ.
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To each his own--remember this. There is no answer that can cover every situation especially when it comes to personal preference and lifestyle as intimate as religion/sexuality/philosophy. Whatever you think about oral sex is your own lifestyle but you can't make up an answer that will agree with/refute every single person on the planet. Do what you feel is comfortable and leave everyone else to theirs. It keeps people from getting pissed off.
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it isnt fun giving it but it is fun to recieve it
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Depends. Are you old enough are you ready? Well I would say dont do it! My opinion is to wait. You must have some pretty naughty friends for them to be telling you that its "okay". Cause its not okay! You wanted my opinion and you got it!!
-shay :-)
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It's not a matter of "naughty" or "nice" - It's a matter of "are you ready for this kind of thing?" It actually feels very pleasurable receiving and giving oral sex (Specially receiving!!) but if you're having this icky feeling then maybe you shouldn't be engaging in such activities YET.
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ALYSSA IT ISNOT BAD OR NAUGHTY!
LOVE YA CHRISTEN
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