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another pathetic love life question
I like a guy(GUY 1), I don't know if he likes me. I think he does but I'm not sure. I'm 16 he's 18. We work together. We're friends.
So far it's relatively bog standard dilemma.
However...
I just had a mess up with one of the other guys(GUY 2) at work (he liked me, I don't like him but he thought I did). Guy 1 suggested that we pretend to be dating to basically piss of GUY 2( what the hell is that suggesting). Without thinking, I agreed.
What the hell am I supposed to do?
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whoa im pathetic too what a coinkidinki
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Guy1 doesn't want Guy2 making a move on you, that's why he did that. Just tell Guy2 that you judt want to be friends or something and that you don't like him at all, that way things are cleared up.
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you should of just gone up to guy2 and said that he had the wrong idea and if you guys can still be cool with each other.
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Im thinking guy1 wants to piss off guy2 because he wants him to know your all his. Hes expecting guy2 to let go and give up on you. So what Im saying is guy1 like you.
-shay :-)
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Well, maybe number one REALLY does like you, and "pretending" to be dating was his way of bringing the whole idea out in the open. Then again, he could have thought that it would truly stop your problem and may havbe just offered to be of what help he could. Have you ever asked number one what he really feels? Why don;t you try and bring it up in joke form and see how he runs with it. Say something like, " We "pretend" pretty good, don't we? You might almsot think you like me for real " or something like that. That should give him the opportunity to tell yu what's really on his mind at that point.
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I dont think it would be best to piss someone off at your work, its never good to have enemies at work.
From what you are explaining it seems as though Guy 1 does like you and wanted an excuse to maybe kiss you. Tell him that you arent up for fake relationships but you're all for real ones.
When you say this to him, check his reaction. If he looks horrified then laugh and make it seem like maybe you were just joking, because you're both friends. But if he smiles then you will know that he was hoping for the same thing.
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