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HELP PLEASE!!!!!!


Question Posted Friday January 2 2004, 12:53 pm

There is this guy..I like him a LOT...He is funny and nice and everything...but this other guy asked me out..And i like him too..You see...
The first guy is...Funny...Nice..Cute..Sweet..etc..
The Other guy is...Nice..Cute..And obssesive..and Funny...

I like them both..But i dont know which one to go with...What do you think?


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Pyro answered Sunday January 4 2004, 5:10 pm:
Obsessive guys are trouble. I went out with an obsessive guy once. It was 4 months of hell.

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luckiedice3817 answered Saturday January 3 2004, 9:48 pm:
well if you cant decide, you OBVIOUSLY dont like EITHER ONE quite enough to really wanna go out with! *thank you for your time*~luckiedice~

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FernGully answered Saturday January 3 2004, 6:21 pm:
How about go out with neither and see what happens.

Or at least steer clear of mr.obsessive. That just doesn't sound like it would make much of a dandy relationship.

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MichiruKaiou answered Saturday January 3 2004, 1:24 pm:
Just think for a moment and follow your hearts desires. Picture yourself in the future with each one, and see which you would be happier with.

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hailebop answered Saturday January 3 2004, 9:18 am:
The tone of your message suggests that you prefer guy number one. You've said both guys are funny, nice and cute. Guy number one however has the additional quality of being sweet, whereas the only other 'quality' you've mentioned with guy number two is his obsessiveness. On those words alone, it doesn't seem like much of a battle.

That said however, only you can know which one you are actually more attracted to. There are no rules when it comes to attraction, and you might find that you actually prefer the other guy. Just take things slowly with both of them and keep getting to know them - and hopefully you'll find a preference emerges. Good luck!

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meme1229 answered Friday January 2 2004, 6:20 pm:
try the firest one first since he asked you out if it doesn't work then try to get hooked up with the second, they both seem like great guys. There's nothing wrong with being a little obsessive.

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angel_gurl25 answered Friday January 2 2004, 2:53 pm:
well i would say go for the one u want the most or like the best and then he dosent like u ask the other guy back out

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shay*shay answered Friday January 2 2004, 1:43 pm:
Get to know each one of the guys. See which one you like most between the two. It also dapends on which one you like most. I cant pick him for you.
-shay :-)

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OneMan answered Friday January 2 2004, 12:58 pm:
Well, the "obssessive" worries me a bit. But, I'd say look at what it is you're really looking for ( short-term, long-term )etc, and see what they both REALLY have to offer. Then bite the bullet and make a choice.

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