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i want to go to canada
i really want to go to canada. i want to just drop everything and go there. live my life in a cabin in the middle of the wilderness on a small lake and use a busch plane to get to town when i need to. i could drop eveything in my life and go and not have any regrets. except one. i have a girlfriend and i LOVE her a lot. i really do. im 16 and i could leave both my parents and everything else with out regrets except her. i feel like i have found true love. but on the other hand i feel like im 16 and dont know shit about love and live. i dont care how old you are, i just want to know what you think of my situation.
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Well I know what you mean in a way. I am going to Canada next month and I love it there! But maybe you could ask your parents about moving there. But it would not be right to run away and go there. But when you get older you can move there and have a nice cabin in the wilderness ;)
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Seeing that your only 16 how do you plan on moving to Canada, buying a cabin and a busch plane, and supporting yourself. If you really want those things, you can make them happen. But you need to grow up first. Your only 16! Finish school. When your old enough to do these things, hopfuly the women you love will do it with you. Don't be so anxious to grow up.
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I think i can help you, as your wish relates to something that is happening in my life:
First of all, i think your dream is lovely and i can understand it completely. Secondly, I think its great that you realise you are quite young for such a drastic decision. However, I face a situation in which my 16 year old sister, like you, wants to segregate herself from everyone but her boyfriend. Her wish to do so hurts the rest of us and this is something you should think about.
I also know that, although my sister THINKS she knows it all, 16 is really very young and few people have significant life experience by this age. I think you would really benefit from waiting until you are older - you might find that it is better for you to face your problems that to run away from them.
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I think you should tell your girlfriend and parents just how you feel. Even offer top take your girlfriend with you,just tell her,I am sure she will understand and hopefully you can go back and visit her.think about what you are doing before you make a life changing decision.
bye for now
summer
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The truth is, I don't know your situation very well. Is there something in your life that's driving you to leave it? One things for certain, I don't think you fully understand the pain of solitude. You're doomed to go crazy living away from civilization at such a young age. To test yourself, go 2 weeks without seeing anyone, talking to anyone, or anything. No computer, stay away from civilization completely. Don't let your parents talk to you, or you to them. The same goes with your girlfriend. If you can't handle this, you can't handle your plan. I think you should finish school, then decide what to do.
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Hey, I'm 16 and I know a lot about life and love. In fact, those are my favorite two things to give people advice on. That's great that you found someone you love so much. Keep her. If you want to leave, take her with you, if she's willing to go.
I totally understand your wanting to leave. My dream is to just go to California or somewhere warm, sing opera, and live with my boyfriend. We're kind of half planning this.
Your dream isn't so different. Though I do think you should finish school and everything. At least high school. Then, when you're done, leave. Get out of there and do what you want, if you can. If it feels right, roll with it!
That's what I do, and it's worked pretty well so far. =)
Good luck in life and love!
-Siren
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buddy. ur 16. if you went to canada now and droped everything you would fail. miserably. keep wat you have. fini high school. go to college get some high degree. get a job that pays 200k a yr. save up for 5 yrs. THEN take ur gf and go live in canade in the wilderness.
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I think that you probably don't really know shit about life, as you stated. There's a lot you do know, and a lot that you only think you know. give yourself more time to finish growing up... there's no need to rush the process - that's what our lives are for.
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