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so my good friend jack is going out w/ my x-girlfriend and they are IN LOVE. well me and his gf Liz are still good friends and we always tell each other that we look good if we do. well yesturday @ my bday party i texted her saying she looked really good....cuz she did. well Jack read that text and now hes really mad @ me. but he knows thats how we are so i dont see why hes mad. someone help! please!
*text guy*
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Hey,
dont you think he should get the picture that hes her girlfriend and you and her are just good friends you need to tell him that
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Dear Text Guy,
I think that maybe Jack thought that you and his gf are doing something behind his back. or if they are really in love, maybe he doesn't want anything to happen. I mean you and her are over and he thought that you still have feelings for her. Try talking to him, or maybe get Liz (whatever her name is) to tell him that you two are just friends and that you say to each other that hey You look good.
Talktotay
Taylor S
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tell him he shuudnt be mad if hes already in love (with ur ex) and that if he really was in love (with ur ex) then he wouldnt care.. :)
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lemme get this straight. jack has TWO girlfrinds? isn't one enough for him? (you should tell him that). just tell him outright that you guys are just good friends and don't really want to go out (do you?) he might not believe you, but there's not much else you can do, and he'll figure it out sometime.
~accolade~
:)rate me please!
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Alrighty. Well it sounds obvious that Jack is jealous that you and Liz still have that good relationship. He may be afraid that he will lose Liz to you. Try talking to him and telling him that you and Liz have always been this way and you don't understand what upset him so much. Whatever it was, try not to do it in front of him or when he is around. Tell him that Liz is really in love with you and he doesn't have to worry about her coming back to you if that's why he got so upset. Good Luck!!
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It could be possible that he feels you are just coming on to strong. I think you should sit down with him and explain to him that you wern't trying to flirt with her but just speaking the truth...I mean I bet he knows what ur talking bout! lol
hop I helped!
SB
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Maybe he thinks that you aren't over her, and that you don't like the fact that they are going out. Talk to him, and just reiterate the situation that you two are friends. Perhaps Jack has a reason to suspect that the text wasn't purely platonic.
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Well i would give it the best try of apologrizing as you possibly can i mean as time comes and goes he will forget about it less and less and give him time to relize that you 2 are just that way and that it really didnt mean anything more then just saying that she simply looked real good and thats about it and that you dont want to loose a friend over something like this because thats the last thing you want-trix
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