I have been going out with this guy for 9 months(2 years unofficially) and we have had sex more than 80 times. I'm only 17 and I'm afraid that this feeling I have, like we are meant for eachother and are going to get married, is just an illusion. Other times, I can see myself marrying him. He's my bestfriend, lover, and the only man I have ever trusted. So is this feeling just "puppy love" or do you think it could be real?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? selectopaque answered Saturday July 10 2004, 12:54 am: It's hard for me, or anyone to tell you whether or not your in real love or not. I don't think you should worry about it too much. You might only think that this feeling is an illusion because of what everyone around you thinks. It seems like the entire US, maybe world is against love lasting. I would say you should go with it and take everything day by day. Theres nothing you have to worry about today, you seem happy and in love, so be happy and don't worry about "what if it does't work out in the future" Just worry about the hear and now. [ selectopaque's advice column | Ask selectopaque A Question ]
SweetAvenger102 answered Friday July 9 2004, 2:12 am: Well I hun I think it could be real!If you trusted this man enough to have sex with him and have no regrets about it then thats great!And whatever it is thats making you think the thoughts of marrying this man is a disillusion,maybe you should talk it out with him and see what his thoughts are!Maybe your getting those kind of vibes from him!?!But I think everything is going to turn out ok,from your story/question,I dont think its puppy love!
Hope everything turns out ok
*Lacey [ SweetAvenger102's advice column | Ask SweetAvenger102 A Question ]
footballchicka06 answered Friday July 9 2004, 1:41 am: Hey hunny i am only 15 and never been in love but I really think you should follow your heart and talk to him and seewhere your relationship is going and see if he is feelin the same way about you as you feel about him. I think you actully might have something you sould like you are in love! surly talk to him and see how he is feeling hope this works out! good luck!
*~*Crystal*~* [ footballchicka06's advice column | Ask footballchicka06 A Question ]
KoTaKiTtAy44 answered Friday July 9 2004, 1:19 am: now just ask yourself this..would you have sex with a guy that you just had puppy love with? obviously you love this guy enough to give him the most prescious thing that your body can give! *hope i helped* <3/Dakota
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