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HELP!
my 2 best friends an me always hang out an like whenme an one are chylllin the other storms off an gets pissed off... she curses to much an she talks behind our back to one another an we are reallygettin fed up!like rite nowme dana and andria..(<-the girl) are hngin out an me an dana went on the comp an she wus up stairs talkn on her fone n all of a sudden we call her an she out side all pissed an she wont talk to us we really dont no wut to do yeah we wana be friends wit her but we just cant take the fact that she does stuff wit out asking.. like she starts cooking out of no were at ourhouse.. she does drugs an drinks like crazy!! we really dont no wut to do! we really need help! ASAP PLZZ!!
Shell & Dana - very confused..
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Well i think that if she is acting this why then she is mad that there is so many people in the bunch, and maybe you guys would be better without her. she sounds like one of my friends olivia. Like i have other friends, and we all like to hang out and she gets all mad because we are like best friends. She doesn't like me having bff's but yet she is allowed! All i am saying is that maybe you shouldn't be hangin out with her. Maybe hang out with the other friends. I hope that this helped. And if so, come back and ask for more.
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Oh my gosh! This sounds just like me and another two of my friends. If you really want to stay friends with Andria, then I would advise you to try to get her out of her drug abuse habits first. They are probably one of the reasons she has so many mood swings. It sounds like she might have a lot of problems with herself. Maybe family or school problems? You and Dana should try to understand her and try to help Andria out of her current situation. If you better understand Andria, then maybe things will fall back together again.
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<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location) need to get your friend help. Andria could have these certain attitudes/mood swings because of her drugs and drinking. It would be more typical if she was just jealous of the girls, because sometimes people may appear that way. But I don't think that's the problem for her. The fact that she drinks too much and does drugs is probably one of the reasons she cooks for no reason and takes things. You need to get your friends and talk to her whenever she comes around and tell her as a friend you are concerned because * and list the things she does behavior/cooking/taking things* . And you feel that this may have something to do with her drug usage and drinking. If she becomes vicious, then you can take that as a first sign. People normally don't admit that they need help, but in some ways they show it without words. She needs to get of the drugs and cut down on the drinking because things can get worse for her. Maybe she'll have a hard time understanding now, but if she is a good friend she will thank you later. You can look up local programs for her cases and start her off there. I hope everything turns out okay for her! If you need any hotlines or anything let me know and I can try to find you some! Well, good luck, love ya - Mandee </span>
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Well, it hurts to be left out. If you 3 are hanging out, it isn't fair that 2 of you just go off by yourselves and leave her. If just the 2 of you want to hang out, then don't tell her about it. Try to include her more. Also, because she is doing drugs, this is when she needs you most. Try to include her as much as possible, at least until she gets over her drug problem.
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Ok just calm down and tell her that you really dont like how she is treating you guys! and if that dont work then just simple tell her that she is being to mean and if she doesnt stop you will not be her friend no more. It is a small price you have to pay but if shes being to mean and does drugs, talks behnd your back, and says stuff you dont like. Then shes not your true friend in the beginning. It is going to be hard b ut I know you guys can pull through it. I had a friend just like you and i didnt know what to do either. Till someone gave me that same advice and now i am over her. But i still talk to her time and again if i see her on the street or in school or something. Ihope iv helped you at least a little bit. If you need any more help dont be afraid to write bk.
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