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a guy...
There's this guy that I really like and I don't know what to do because I'm shy and don't even really talk to him but I like him soo much..Any suggestions on how to become closer to him?
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Well first of all, I have a good idea that if any of your friends are friends with any of his friends, that maybe all you guys could chill. Then you could get to know him better. Then, with luck, he would get to know you better too and maybe he would like you as muhc as you like him! You really need to try to not be shy. I was in your shoes once. And to tell you the truth, most boys dont go for girls who have a chip on their shoulder. You know, ones who are self-conscious. They like spontanious girls. Maybe you could just try to act a little different, and let him know the true you. Try that. And get back to me if it doesnt work. Good luck!!
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i thinkyou should start to hang out wit friends that are friends with him.. this hapend to me b4 too but im not shy... lol i just started to hang out with my friends dat were his friends an we got to be madd tyt an we went out for a lil wile.. but we had to end it for cOnFeDeNtIaL reasonz, or you could talk 2 him or like ask a question in class... hope it helpz
x0o SheLlz
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well, you need to get to know him as well as you can and you need to become friends with him first. next you need to start flirting and dropping little hints about how you feel about him. last of all, if he hasn't got the message and asked you out, then you need to just go in for the kill. HOWEVER: if you get really good friends with him and you ask him out and he says no then you can ruin your friendship, so you might want to think about it carefully before you ask him.
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alright i know its gonna be hard but u have to over come your shyness a bit..not al thte way, maybe bump into him in the hall...start by smiling, hi if u have a class or say u dont understand somthing find out whats hes into [music, hobbies, oppinions] bring them up if u like or agree with them..but dont change for him...never change for a guy unless its a flaw...i hope i helped...>>Sara<<
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talk to the guy. you never know you might both have something in common. go for a walk with him and have a heart to heart talk and see what happens. REMEMBER don't scare him away.
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Maybe you should start saying simple hellos, and send smiles. It would be kool to start talking to his friends, and if that works out him would start noticing you, and maybe start to like you.
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well try to talk to him......before another girl gets him
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Walk up to him or if you see him in the lunch line dont be shy just go up to him say hey and if hes nice hell talk back. Then just start talking about interests or if you know what his interests or hobbies are. Talk about that, First say hey and how are you. Then say my name is... whats yours and then i guarentee ull hit it off. Dont be shy. If he is nice then he wont try and put you down or diss you. First become frenbds and then if its fait ull move into something more. Hope i helped.
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Short N Punky
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Talk about things you have in common and that interest you both so you can get to know the guy better and start to develop a friendship that might grow into something more.
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