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My Boy friend
Hey my name is Kelly and i have a boy friend that isnt really there all the time hes always out with his friends and this girl named chris. But he says chris has a boy friend but i dont know if i shopuld beleive him or not because hes always hangin on her a nd stuff. I have cried sometimes because hes never there for our kid and on my sons b day he wasnt even there. Should i dump him? he has proposed to me but i dont know what to do know more. Hes real sweet and everything but he just doesnt spend any time with me no more. Please help!
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You have to talk with this man , and I mean you really have to talk bc if you're about to marry him then you need to know the truth about him and his friend . Ask him how he feels about her , and tell him that his answer could affect whether you 2 will marry or not . If he get angry about you asking this question, then don't worry about him bc IF YOUR GOING TO MARRY THIS MAN, THEN YOU HAVE EVERY FREAKIN RIGHT TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP YOU ARE GETTING YOUR SELF TO, AND IN THE END, YOU'LL KNOW THAT HE WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU . YOU HAVE TO BE STRONG THOUGH . BUT YOU DO HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO KNOW . THANKS, AND BY .
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Jsut tell him how your feel. Tell him if he doesn't change soon, you're going to have to break up with him. And about the Chris situation,,,, talk to her about him, ask her if she does have a boyfriend. ask her anything you want to know about him, after all, she spends a lot of time with him. hopefully things will work out
good luck
xxxASH
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I think that you should trust him for your kid. I mean, are making this kid never sees his dad. I think that at least let him know he has a dad by getting married, and work your problems from there.
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Don't mary a man just because he is the father of your child. It doesn't sound like he is there for either of you. If he really loved you and his son, he would be home with you, helping take of your child. Do you see things changing after you get married, if you get married? Unless he is ready to take on the responsibility of having a family, I'd say it is time for you to move on.
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