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Hi Im Shelly and im 14 years old. Me and my best friends Kim and roxie seem to fall out alot and its putting me down. We have been friends for 3 years and we still are falling out over stupid things. Its starting to get me down and im worried that we will be like this all of our school lives. I just want to stop faling out. We have all tried really hard and im wondering whether to give up. Of course i don't want to but its not fair on any of us if we are falling out 24/7. We are a 3 best mate group by the way which makes it even harder because when we go in pairs one is always left out and it always seems to be Kim. This isn't fair what shall i do? plz help me
Luv Shelly
xxxxx
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getting in fights and such is completely normal in a friendship and in any relationship. but i can understand when u feel enough is enough. this advice is actually something my brother told me. him and his friends used to have a day where they would all meet and just trash each other and basically get it out of their systems and they would talk things thro and be as honest as humanly possible. i think this is a good idea especially since there is only 3 of u so it'll be easier to talk and get things off ur chest. and then talk them out civily. make sure everyone is expressing themselves fully. and make sure u all understand that the most important thing is that u all get ur voice heard about how u feel then u can decide how to fix things. i hope this helped
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Dear hi,first of all dont quit its not worth it!
When you do pair things you have to keep on switching so it will be fair.Do a thing like a little gathering with you,Kim,and Roxie and set things straight think of thing that can solve your problem.
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Hello Shelly
Dont give up you just must hang in there for a while. And just try a little harder not to leave any one out because no it isnt fun to be left out on activities with your friends. Just do stuff more that all of you can do together like go to the mall or take turns on some stuff. I had friends like you once and we just gave up and went our seperate ways. But once in a while we see each other and regret it. Dont be like i did ull pull through i have faith in your group. Just never give up and beleive in your self and just like hang out on the weekends or through summer call each other up and say hey what are you guys doing tomorrow wana hang out? thats really all i can say right now. Just to never gi ve up and stay friends i know its hard but things always get hard before they get easy. Hope iv helped a little bit.
Signed
Short N Punky
Ps. tell them i said Hi
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ok, stop making up problems, u r asking for all kinds of advice and its getting annoying because we know your making it up! stop looking for attention.
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