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Help!
My friend has been dating this guy (he's 15 and she's 13)and he wants her to sleep with him. She keeps asking me what to do, but i don't know what to tell her. I know she doesn't love him (i don't even think she likes him) and when ever i tell her what she doen't want to hear(like "no") she gets really mad and goes to our other friend who keeps telling her to do it(but she doesn't even know what she's taking about.) She asks me every day and i'm sick of it! Sometimes i just want to tell her to do it to get her off my back. Please Help!
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OKAY. do NOT let her do it. she's only effing thirteen, and after they do it he's going to leave her. that always happens, she'll have a guilt trip, and YOU'LL have to put up with it. he's not worth it, convince her. xox♥ashh.
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your a good friend for what your doing but she is un sure about things right now just remind your friend of what she is getting into. if your friends has doubts about doing it then she should wait awhile and she is kinda young to be having sex at 13 and if her so called boyfriend cares about her enough he should not be forcing her to do it.
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you can't tell your friend when she is ready to have sex. she's the only one who knows but if she doesn't love him then i think that you should tell her to wait until she finds a guy that she knows she loves. but she really is the only one who knows if she wants to have sex with him. you're not her and you can't read her mind
*~*shan*~*
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I think you need to sit your friend down and talk to her about all tha bad things that come with having sex. I mean, honestly..if you don`t want her to do it..you should do just that. And if she don`t listen to what you have to say then screw it and just let her do whatever she wants. If she wants to do it let her.
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Tell her to wait... shes still really young. Take it from me who has already done it at a way young age and i wouldnt want her to regreat anything. x0x0 Jenna x0x0
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I think that you should ask questions, like why would you date some one much older than you, do you love him, and what do you think. And if she says
1) dunno
2) no
3) dunno
then say from those answers tink about it.
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Wow.
13?! Now I know why those x-ray technicians always used to ask me if I was pregnant when I was, like, 13...
Anyway. She is WAY too young to sleep with a guy. He should know that, and shouldn't be pressuring her. Don't talk to your friend...talk to the GUY! Tell him he's being an ass for pressuring your friend to sleep with him, when he should KNOW she's too young. Hell, HE'S too young! Do they know the kinds of risks they'd be taking? Sex is one bigass risk that I, for one, don't think either of them are ready to take on.
Good luck with that!
-Siren
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no not yet. she have hit puberty but jesus loosing ones virginity at 13. make her not do it. and if the bf dont understand then hes not into the relationship. hes just horny.
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Tell it to her straight, tell her the risks of having sex and that she can get pregnant. But she might not listen sometimes you can do all you can and the person will still do the wrong thing, so if she does it anyway know that it is not your fault and you did all you can do.
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Wow she asks you everyday and then gets mad when you're honest. Lame.
If you care about your friend, don't give up or in. Keep telling her not to do it, she will regret it after. Maybe you should consider writing down all of your reasons for not wanting her to and then giving them to her. Curiousity will force her to read it.
If she does it anyhow, well, don't beat yourself up about it. Just make sure you're there for her later when she feels crappy about herself.
As for this other friend who keeps telling her to do it - give that girl a piece of your mind. Tell her she isn't a very good friend and make her feel extremely guilty - pushing your friend to do this. If you make her feel bad enough, she might stop telling your friend to do it, and then your friend wouldn't have anyone giving her encouragement and she might change her mind.
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