Hey, i'm Ash. I've have a hell of alot of opinions, so expect long answers. Uh, yeah, been through just about everything you can think of. Yeah, I'm the type to sing in the shower, and donate to the old and challenged. I have a Rubber-band phobia, I hate them, they scare me, the end. Hm, OH. you're not emo, emo is a genre of music, and you're not music. Yeah, one other thing, my music's better. :D Lmao.Uh...what to write, I give advice on everything..Hm, Like katelyn[XoPerfectRoseOx] said, If you ask a stupid question, expect a stupid answer. I would put little quotes and poems on here, but that's just another waste of my time.So TalkToYouLater...maybe. -Ash
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he won't abuse me but he'll yell at me (link)
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WHAT? you mad because you didn't get the advice you wanted to hear? please. you're just some woosy ass kid, and you need to stop going around saying he abuses you, you could get in trouble.
♥thanks for the 1.
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Dear advicenators,
Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do? (link)
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well first off, you father's a jackass, and you should pull a knife on him. what a bastard. CALL DHR. they will definately take him into custody. OH..if you have a friend over, she/he could be a witness.
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ok i bought a siamese kitten and she keeps on crying all the time! The only time she does not cry is when i hold her she is 10 weeks old but she keeps me awake all night and now i feel so tired and i have not gone to school.How can i stop her crying??? (link)
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Try giving her a stuff animalto cuddle with, it would substitute for you, and let you get some sleep. ♥
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I was removing programs to free up some disk space on my computer. I removed one that actually turns out to be a very important program but was listed under something that I couldn't quite tell what it is. Needless to say, now I know & desperately need it back. Is there anyway to retrieve removed programs? (link)
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It depends, did you recycle it, or delete it completely?...
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My friend has been dating this guy (he's 15 and she's 13)and he wants her to sleep with him. She keeps asking me what to do, but i don't know what to tell her. I know she doesn't love him (i don't even think she likes him) and when ever i tell her what she doen't want to hear(like "no") she gets really mad and goes to our other friend who keeps telling her to do it(but she doesn't even know what she's taking about.) She asks me every day and i'm sick of it! Sometimes i just want to tell her to do it to get her off my back. Please Help! (link)
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OKAY. do NOT let her do it. she's only effing thirteen, and after they do it he's going to leave her. that always happens, she'll have a guilt trip, and YOU'LL have to put up with it. he's not worth it, convince her. xox♥ashh.
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hey guys i was just wondering were i havent got nothing to do this summer i was wondering what good books i could read this summer like books you could get at a public library. Thanks for your help i really need something to do other than sit at the computer desk all summer!
Saylor (link)
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Farenheit 451 is a great book. so is flowers for algernon. same author. ♥
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My younger sister who's eleven has an amazing voice for her age and I really want her to be discovered! Her birthday's coming up in July and I think that if I found a way for her to get noticed it would be a great birthday present. Can anyone help me find a way to help her be discovered? (link)
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Search talent agencies, and set up a surprise appointment. sure it's a little costly. but it's worth it ♥ash.
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TOTAL BLUSh! I have blue vains going all down my CHEST and on my breasts they're so embarrasing i cant wear a nice bikini or a low top. How can I make them look not as noticable all my fat goes to my but not any where else really! Im only young so plastic surgery aint' a option any help? Ta x (link)
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These blue veins are stretch marks. but coco butter on them. it fades them, it works great. xox♥ash.
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My spouse and I have been trying to get pregent for about a year now and we have not been able to. Should we keep trying or should we se a speacilist? I was molested when I was a child could have something happen then to cause me not to be able to have children? (link)
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I personally think adoption is the best way to go in any situation such as this. See, we have so many abandoned kids in this world already..it's actually inconsiderate to bring more into this world..when some are yearning for a mom and a dad. i'm not saying you have to..but seriously consider it. thank you. xox♥ash.
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this is the saddest ? ever nd please dont tell me "only u can decide" cause wuts the point of even answering my ?. w/e. back to my ?. my bf has been my best friend for like 2 yrs but has been my bf for like a month. he is in love w/ me nd he tells me, all my friends tell me and all his friends tell me! i dont like him the same way ne more. im like in love w/ this other guy! can u tell me how to brake up w/ my bf? hes already suspicous of the other guy that i like. . . (link)
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Okay. tough situation. Confront him with a gesture like.."we're not the same anymore, i want my bestfriend back"..he might agree, he might not..tell him you miss having someone to goto about everything, guy problems ect. and you'd really like your bestfriend back..that's all you can do. xox♥ashh.
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im a 16 year old guy and anytime i do physical activities (i.e. gym class, basketball, baseball, running and other sports.)i end up soaked afterwards and some of my friends are somewhat sweaty. I would assume its because im out of shape but i beat most other atheletes. I think it might be because i am fat. Im 5'9 and weigh 197lbs. Some is muscle but some is fat so idk. Can anyone tell me why this is and what i can do to be less sweaty?
**I rate high for answers that are worthwhile. i.e. they make me laugh or they are helpful. ** (link)
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Alright. i'm assuming you use deodarant and colone. Maybe buy a stronger brand?...i mean really, what else is there to do?..try putting on more then normal. xox♥ashh.
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ok well i have a boyfriend whom i love to death, but he is not good at making out at all. he knows that, and he wants me to teach him to get better. i told him i would, and we're getting together this afternoon. i don't know exactly how i'm supposed to "teach" him. any suggestions? please. thank you so much (link)
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Haha. tell him to think more in the mouth then out. i mean, a sloppy kisser? ewuhh. haha. xox♥ashh.
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I used to have Paint Shop Pro that someone burned for me but I felt guilty for using it because I knew how illegal that was. I deleted it & decided I would just download the trial because I knew that I had money coming so I could *buy* the full version. Needless to say, I was unable to successfully download the trial version. Near the end of the downloading process, this is what happens:
Error 1931. The Windows Installer service cannot update the system file C:\WINDOWS\...\msvcp60.dll because the file is protected by Windows. You may need to update your operating system for this program to work correctly.
Then I click okay and it continued downloading...
Then another box comes up that says: Files that are required for Windows to run properly have been replaced with unrecognized versions. To maintain system stability, Windows must restore the original versions of these files. Insert your Windows XP Home Edition CD-ROM now.
The only problem is, I never got that CD-ROM. My computer came with Windows XP & I never got a disk with it.
Then I click Cancel... & obviously that is unsuccessful because it comes up again but I click cancel on that.
Then one last box comes up and says: Error 1933. This setud requires Internet Information Server 4.0 or higher for configuring IIS Virtual Roots. Please make sure that you have IIS 4.0 or higher.
I click okay & the installation rolls back action.
I had this program before, it's just when I tried downloading it, it wasn't working. I've tried everything, different versions from different sources. I'm going crazy trying because I love this program & I use it alot. If you anyone could help me I would give you the highest rating ever & deffinetly owe you one because I'm in desperate need of help! ♥ (link)
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Okay. i'm pretty sure you download music right? same thing. PSP isn't all that great. and it's over-priced. My psp cost $80 bucks, and i STILL don't see why i bought it. My advice is USE another program. cheaper, and better. lol. xox♥ashh.
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Yesterday I was trying to crack a glow stick and it exploded in my mouth. Only a little bit of liquid came out and I spit it all out and rinsed out my mouth. It burned my tounge..Does that mean it was toxic? Would I know if I was poisined by now? Please reply quick so I will know how to treat this! (link)
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Haha. don't worry. that's happened to me. it's toxic, but it won't kill you. you'll be fine. xox♥ash.
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I've noticed in the past few years, (I'm fourteen and female) that whenever I see a picture of a girl in a swimsuit that barely covers them, I get really turned on. I don't think of doing anything with them or anything, but it's just I get turned on. Am I bi? (link)
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only you would know if you're bi. Girls are beautiful creatures. SO it doesn't neccesarily mean you're bi. haha. think about these questions..."When i talk to a girl..do i see more than a friend?"..."Do i get turned on by a guy in a baithing suit?"..lol..xox♥ash.
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drama seems to follow me everywhere... and i hate it! i have lost so many friends to gay rumors that aren't even true! my mom always tells me to "kill people with kindness" lol but it never seems to work... i just want to be a normal 13 yr. old who everybody sees as "nice and sweet" but i have a terrible rep. i really want to lose the bad rep. and kinda of start over... please help! i don't want to be the girl that everyone loves to hate! (link)
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Ahww hun. being a teen is hard. rumors start..and they don't end. your mom is right, as much as i hate to say it. You could have a post dramatic break-down. but that would start more rumors. what i would do, is try to confront the people you know for a FACT are spreading the rumors, just try to say.."hey, i'm really a nice girl, i would really appreciate it if you would stop talking about me behind my back, maybe actually get to know me?" You have to be extrememly nice to them about it. or more rumors with start. this is a hard topic, it's teens years, everyone with a life gos through it. xox♥ashhh.
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I have really curly hair. I want to be a straightening iron around $100 since the last straightening iron I got (wet2set $30) leaves my hair looking really dried out & fried. Does anyone know of a flat iron around my price range that we'll leave my hair looking healthier than the cheap one? Thanks! (link)
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Helen Of Troy is the best. I assure you. Another great technique is to clip everything but the last layer of your hair, and straighten it. let down a little at a time. xox&eharts;ashh
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Thirteen/ Female.
I want to be an author, is there an age requirement to be one? Also how can I publish my book?
Thanks,
~K.C~ (link)
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Well. there isn't an age requirement on publishing books. research some publishing companies and send them some of your work. xox♥ash
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I WANT SOME RECIPES FOR ME TO COOK...
please give me a or a few recipes you like to eat.
i am having a very important guest come over and i want a very tasty recipe.
THANKZ
Signed,
MICHAELA (link)
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...go buy a recipe book. and please do not burn down your house. xox♥ash
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everytime i click on aol instant messenger, nothing comes up. how do i make it work? (link)
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well, have you tried going to programs and clicking it?..that's what i had to do with AOL.
xox&ehearts;ashh
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