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this is the saddest ? ever nd please dont tell me "only u can decide" cause wuts the point of even answering my ?. w/e. back to my ?. my bf has been my best friend for like 2 yrs but has been my bf for like a month. he is in love w/ me nd he tells me, all my friends tell me and all his friends tell me! i dont like him the same way ne more. im like in love w/ this other guy! can u tell me how to brake up w/ my bf? hes already suspicous of the other guy that i like. . .
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Tell your boyfriend that you have moved on and don't feel the same way about him as he does you. Tell him that you would like to be his friend and not his girlfriend. I think he would like to hear the truth from you, and not your friends.
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Holy shit... im in the EXACT same situation. Except you switch the genders completely. wow that is so weird. Exact same story cept the genders are changed. Well if you get an answer hit me back lol
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yeah tell him you don't feel the same way and break his heart. i've been that guy, it usually ends the friendship soon after because of it. or you can go on in a relationship you're not ready for. i'd say just stick it out with him and you'll learn to love him. but most girls wouldn't want to do that as most girls would rather just go be with someone else the next week. stick it out with him, you really will ruin the friendship ya'll had and ruin the relationship, and break his heart. i'd say those factors in itself should keep you from not wanting to stick it out. the relationship could easily fall apart in a week or so anyways because of something else that wont hurt him near as much.
i've been the guy who is the good friend of a girl. i've then been told that they'd rather be just friends. and that they don't feel the same for me that i do for them. and then the friendship ends up dismantling and falling apart. i'm telling you as a guy who has been on the recieving end of this it will destroy him. and the friendship. and really make you look like a heartless bitch. and probably make him hate girls. it's never a good thing to do to a guy, so really really think about it, think long and hard. do the ends justify the means? does the final result really make you happy at all?
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This is never an easy situation. But it's even worse when you put off breaking up and you're stuck feeling guilty because of your other interest. You need to sit down and talk to your boyfriend. Tell him that he is the best friend you've ever had, and you think that it was better that way. Be as nice as you can, and give him space if he needs it. If he's as in love with you as others say, he'll need a lot of time to recuperate (spelling?). He might get nasty with you at times, but that's only because he's really upset and trying to get back. It's going to be very emotional, but if you feel that it's the right thing to do, go for it.
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This may seem like a lame answeR, but the best thing foR you to do is to flat out tell him. Don't beat around the bush, don't sugaR coat it, don't make it confusing.. just SAY IT. See, *I'VE* always believed that if you 'love' TWO, you don't love eitheR one ENOUGH.. peRiod. Though unfoRtunate, I say you'Re doing the Right thing heRe by picking up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt and walking away fRom this Relationship. Just tell him this: Love is RecipRocal; meaning, it's NOT just one-sided. Look at it like THIS: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to someone who isn't willing to give you theiRs? Let him know it would be simply unfaiR to *HIM* to caRRy on with the Relationship. Let him know you caRe ABOUT him, but just do not hold the same feelings foR him as HE does foR YOU. OF COURSE he'll be upset. He'll be upset no matteR HOW you say it, oR WHAT you say.. theRe's no TAKING AWAY the huRt theRe. Although the pain will be gReat, I'm shoRe he'll undeRstand that this is foR the best. I wish you luck - hopefully I've helped! Know that I am *ALWAYS, ALWAYS* heRe if you eveR need a second opinion. Chin up; as things will be alRight. :D
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Well i think this is pretty sad, but i think i can help you out. Just tell your boy friend that you don't like him the way he likes you. Tell him that you don't want to lie to him and tell him that you really liek him. Also tell him that you hope this doesn't affect your relationship as friends. If he truly cares about your feelings, he'll understand. Hope i helped you out.
Thanks,
Jenna
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Okay. tough situation. Confront him with a gesture like.."we're not the same anymore, i want my bestfriend back"..he might agree, he might not..tell him you miss having someone to goto about everything, guy problems ect. and you'd really like your bestfriend back..that's all you can do. xox♥ashh.
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