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divorce
i hate to ask too many questions but, in addition to my other problem, my parents are arguing every day and whenever they go near each other they yell and get mad. Does this mean they are going to divorce or is it possible they will work things out?
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No it doesn't. My mom and dad did that too. That is really just settling things.
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Last year, I thought my parents would get a divorce, because they were miserable (not with eachother, but with work) and they fought constantly...
However, if I acted hurt by their arguing, they'd stop soon, and I'd put on a slightly dramatic act, mumble something about immaturity, and go off to draw.
Then they'd stop.
But if a married couple doesn't argue at all, that means there's a problem; perhaps one may be dominating the other, and the other's too afraid to speak out. That's even worse.
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People that spend their lives together always together ALWAYS tend to fight. Its completely normal, in fact, I think it would be strange if a married couple didnt fight.
If they get mad ALL the time, there may be some problems that they need to work out. Divorce is the result of two people deciding that there is absolutely no way that they can be together anymore, this is an extreme. Parents won't just jump right into getting a divorce if they are having problems. They will try and work it out and no matter what happens - you should learn something from the experience.
Make sure you show your parents that you value their love because it may make their entire day better to hear that and if they are happier then they might not feel the need to fight so much.
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my parents do that a lot sometimes. it means that there is something goin on between them. u might not know but they know and don't want to tell u cause it might be to hard on you.they might break up but a divorce would hard for you.
try sitting down and having a talk with them like tell your mom and dad "i really need to talk to you" if there really parents they'll say ok. when you sit down with them say "mom, dad you two have really been arguing and i just want to know if you two are getting a divorce? because your really making me wonder and i need to know now so i can handle it when its sure to come."
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