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Over reaction
Ok...i'm 14 and i have a huge problem with my friend. you see, he likes this gurl amber but she hates him (she thinks he's a stalker), he was just calling her a slut and other things like that a week ago and last night he got online and started yelling at me for saying mean stuff about her (i never liked her!) so he got all mad at me and is telling what i think of her. including her. i talked to her today and she is kool with me (well kinda, it's the type of thing where we hate each other and we both know it). but my friend is being such a pain about the whole thing and everyone thinks it's my fault! what should i do?
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He really shouldn't have blown up at you.
Avoid him for now until the entire thing blows over and he figures out that Amber hates him, at which point you can begin to be friends again.
If the entire thing DOESN'T blow over, wait until he cools down and become his friend again, but avoid talking about Amber.
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Well, he shouldn't have blown up in your face.
I would just dodge your friend for a while (until he cools off) and ignore the people who think it's your fault. People like that are too simple-minded to associate with. If I were you, I would rub the fact that she hates him in his face, but you probably shouldn't do that.
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Well i've been where you are.. but i think he shouldnt have gotten mad at you for talking about her, because he was talking about her too, but he shouldnt have been if he liked her.. that only shows he doesnt like her that much.. if everyone thinks its your fault, dont let that bother you.. just ignore it, or tell them he was doing it to.. explain it in perfect detail.. if i were you, just ignore the people who thinks its your fault.
*Best of Luck*
CrYsTaL
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that sucks. be honest. honesty is the key to any relationships friends or boyfriend and girlfriends. be honest 2 who ur talkin to enemy or frend and if they dont accept u its their fault. I have more advise u can IM me i hav AIM and my s/n is HyeGuy91.
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