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Daddy problems
okay well...my mom and dad got a divorce a few years ago..so i have to go back and forth like..one week i'll be with my mom and the next i'll be with my dad..but i cant stand my dad and his new girlfriend..personally i think he deserves better than her but what do i know i'm only 14...okay well..how do i tell my dad that i dont want to go over there anymore because he changed and i dont like his girlfriend?
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tell your dad striat up that you dont like her and that you do not what to be there any more
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well, if you havnt already, maybe it would be good to really mett your dads gf. i think alot of teenagers around the world feel the same way you do, maybe you should talk to you siblings, or mom about this too
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well,i've got that promblem with my mom.but i think that u should tell ur mom that u don't want to go to ur dads anymore but try to call him every week or two so u want hert his feelings......
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well i think you should talk to your dad he might love her
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well simply say this isnt wrking to well i love you dad but this is very uncomfortable i juz dont agree withu seeing her n i would like it if i could live with mom so u can be with her cuz i kno she means alot to u
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Hey hun! Well, that's not such an easy thing to say to your dad without hurting his feelings. But be honest with him, and tell him that lately his behavior has changed and you are quite concerned about it and if it has to do with his relationship with his new girlfriend. Is there any particular reason as to why you don't like his girlfriend? If you just feel uncomfortable seeing them both together maybe you should reconsider and give it some time. If it has been awhile sicne they've been together and you still be insecure, it's definitely time to talk to your dad about his girlfriend. Instead of saying " Dad I don't like your girlfriend, so I'm not comming over" which would hurt his feelings just be considerate to his feelings. Maybe explain that you have given sometime to get to understand his girlfriend but you find it hard to see what qualities he likes about her. Tell him that you've noticed that he has changed and that you don't know if she is the reason for that and you don't feel as secure around her, and maybe you should take a little break from visiting until everything comes together. Your father might seem disappointed, but if he is understanding enough he may realize why you feel this way. Good luck, and take care!! Love you- Mandee
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alright, well...my parents got divorced a few years ago too, if you think ur dad deserves better that i bet he dose, who knows him better than you, and u know alot at the age of 14! i tihnk this is gonna sounds stupid but talk to him tell him that u dont like his girlfriend, keep going over there i mean he still is your dad after all, i know i should be talking in this situation but still....i hope i helped ya out!!
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Well first of all if u really dont like going to ur dads then u gotta tell him. nothing will happen about it if he doesnt know. since u dont like his gf and dont like being around them, then obviously u dont have to. u have two houses to choose from and its ur choice where u wanna be. so w/e u choose u have something to fall bak on.. idk if this helped at all but i hope it did...:( good luck tho!!!
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alright well comunication is key here. u definitly should talk to him and tell him ur feelings about it. and tell him that you dont agree w/ or like his gf because of... w/e reason. but understand that he obviously does like her and u can only tell him ur feelings on it not change his mind completely. be understanding of his feelings for her but speak ur mind. Good Luck :)
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its a tough situation. the best thing you can do is at least try and compramise with him so that when you do have to go over there it isnt really that bad. considering ur only 14 i dont think that the law is able to let you choose who to stay with. so i think ur gonna end up haveing to go over to his place no matter what
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I think that you should tell him that you don't like his girlfriend. Beacuse i mean, the divorce means alot to you and what your stuck in the middle. Asak him one day (when his gf isn't around) if you can talk. First say please don't yell or take this the wrong way, but i really don't approve of his gf and that you think he should get better than that. There is notthing wrong with that.
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