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What the hell do i do
allright there's this guy that i like a lot. I really really want to go out with him. I just dont know if he likes me back because he just broke up with this one chick and she's like still obsessed with him. me and him went out before but it didnt really work out. but i think this time it would be different cause i think i have been able to rely on him more often now. i just dont know what to do. should i ask him back out?
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i say if he's ready for a relationship with you, let him ask you out
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Just start talking to him casually. Don't walk up to him and say 'hey lets go out' because, well, you'll scare the hell out of him probably. Act friendly for a bit to get an indication of whether or not hes become more reliable and whether he still has feelings for his old girlfriend. You'll be able to pick up on that through casual conversations.
Once you've heard enough and are on a friendly level, I'd say move in for the kill.
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if i were u i wouldn't ask him back out i would wait and like flirt with him a bit and just like see if there is a connection there coming from both sides atleast but make it very obvious that u really want him back and then see how it plays out for a while and like if he starts to show signs of like flirting with u and all then go for it but it this girl is still really likein him then it was prolyl a bad break up so this would be the best time to win him over if it would even happen cause because this is when he has to go to someone to tell them about all the shit that is happenin with his personal life so if u are there for him that scores some major points! lol well good luck
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alright well maybe you gotta just talk to the kid. if you really have these kinds of feelings for him you gotta let him kno. communication can solve a lot of things and this seems like one of them. there is no harm in expressing your feelings in this situation so make sure if you tell him they are clear and direct. if he likes you then YAY!.. but if not hopefully u can still be friends.. but dont make the move to ask him out right now. casually ask him about his ex and if he has any more feelings for her. if not..tell him ur feelings and maybe somethin will happen.. i hope this helped at all. if u need anythin u can IM me at WatDreemzMayCome... good luck babe
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regardless of the other chics feelings i think asking him out isnt the right thing to do right now. wait a little while and clue him in that u like him. maybe he does like u back. but ull never know unless you ask. (or have someone else ask that always works ;)lol) but in any case find that part out first and then pop the question. i would pay any mind to the other girl... unless she is a close friend.. and then id talk to her first.
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go for it. hes probably still troubled by just being in a relationship, so he may want to go out with you.
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