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frinends or not?
ok i met this girl named jessie last summer and like over the school eyar and stuff we got really tight i mean people would swear we were lieing when we told them we wern't going out well since like jan she has been like hangin around this this other really stupid chick who does alot of bad stuff and she kinda gets around well i am afriad that jessie is startin to act like her well not really act like her but pick up her bad habbits and like when ever she is in a jam she calls me when ever she needs money ASAP she calls me needs a place to stay she picks up the phone i go and get her my self but like i think i am kinda startin to like her i mean we flirt a whole lot as is but i dunno how to tell her i like her cause one i think she is way outta my league and two with her past i dunno if i wanna get involved but i like her more then i have ever liked people i was goin out with and well it would just be kinda odd if i just came out and told her so i am wondering what i should do
do i ? take my chances with her past and just come out and tell her i like her or should i just let things be so as to not get mixed up in all that or should i attempt to like beat around the bush that i like her even more then she knows?
i really like her and i would like to go out with her and just maybe it would also help her keep clear of some of her other problems?
WHAT DO I DO!
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I have experienced a situation pretty much exactly like yours. I met a girl last summer after i graduated and we become really close and we flirted a lot . But she had a past too in which she used to get around during high school but now is trying to clean up her act. After hanging around with her i grew closer and closer and liked her more and more each day. But i too felt that i was out of her league and didnt want to tell her. But listen to me, telling her is the best thing to do. You will feel a whole lot better and maybe she still has feelings for you. Also maybe you should adress some of her problems and tell her that your concerned about what she has been doing and you hate it and try to help her stop. Hope that helps.
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Umm... that's a tough one. Maybe you should tell her how you feel for her, if she feels the same way, go and ask her out. Later, if things don't work out, then you can always break it up. Follow your heart!
Hope I helped...
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Tell her as soon as possible. Waiting is the worst thing you can do in this situation. If your worried about damaging your friendship, then don't be. You guys sound too close to let something like this damage it. Flirting probably wouldn't work. I flirted my ass off with this one girl, and she still had no clue in the end. Just telling her is the best way to do it. Tell her you like her more than a friend.
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well, if you liek her find out if she likes you. dont beat around the bush that just longer to find things out. and if you guys dont start to date well it seems you got a good relationship going on so at least you still got that
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There should be no "out of league"s here. We're all equal. I'm a choir/music/art geek and I'm dating a wrestler. League...?
Lol...if I were you, I'd just come out and tell her. She might be suspecting that you like her already, so it'd help her to know that she's right and not seeing things that aren't there. Or, better yet - she might like you, too. If you flirt so much, then chances are high for that one.
If you tell her you like her and she freaks out, just assure her that you won't act on it, and don't.
But, if you tell her you like her and she likes you back...kudos to you! Lol.
And - don't act like you don't like her if you do. That's like lying, and you don't strike me as the kind of guy that lies all that much.
FYI - Most girls hate it when guys flirt a lot and make the girl think that the guy likes them, but then never says it. So be open! SPEAK!
Good luck! =)
-Siren =)
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