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worth it or not wait im confused!!!!!
ok hey im 14 n im very confused!!!! u c i really like this guy, hes ur typical bad-ass smokes,drinks, fights, gets arrested n all that crap... well i relly though he liked me bcuz he told me he LOVED me and he was very sweet to me n everything... im very stupid as i know now bcuz i lost my virginity to him!!!!!! that was in february!! i felt like it was right at that moment but now i regret it all!EVERYTHING I TOLD HIM N DID WITH HIM most of all cuz he told his friends i was "easy" n now i have a rep! i am always saying that all that is b/s that i never did ne thing with him but still not all of the ppl beleive me! but after all the shit he put me thru is like my heart doesnt want to forget him!!! i still really like him i dunno if its bcuz hes always with his cuzin n his cuzin n me r best friends so i gota c him all the time n then hes till calls n asks me stuff like "so u still fucking guys?" or "i heard so n so wanna fuck u, should i kick their asses?" hes STUPID N I WANNA HATE HIM SO BAD 4 ALL THE SHIT HE DID TO ME WAY TOO MUCH TO MENTION BUT Y DO I FEEL LIKE I STILL LIKE HIM????(by the way i was pregnant but had a miscarrige n he was the dad) ineve told him though. n last time we were talking he was telling me he never knew how pretty my eyes were!! wut kind of b/s is that? IM CONFUSED WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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first of all you are too young to be having these problems. you are right when you say you acted stupid, you did. i think you have a very low self-esteem in order to want to deal with a person that treats you this way. you need to forget about him and concentrate on yourself.
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A typical guy like this will try to get you to have sex with him by using words to sway you; however, I don't know this guy, so I might be wrong. By the way, I'm sorry you fell into his trap, but maybe it was a warning for something in the future, you know? Try to stay away from guys who only want sex and will get it through the use of the word "love" and telling you "how pretty [your] eyes [are]." There's not much you can do now except get revenge, and that's not mature at all. Try not to make anything worse by spreading rumors, lying, etc. I PROMISE that will end in even more pain if you do. If I'm wrong, you can slap me. Good luck. And remember: no more players. ~.^
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Wow, this is a tough situation to be in. But I don't think you should be with this person if he gets arrested and does drugs and stuff! That's not the kind of person you want to be with. And no matter how much you like him, it's not worth it. There will be someone else, someone else for you and you will be glad you waited and got over this guy. Believe me, it's not worth it. Don't waste your time on this guy. He seems like a real jerk. He seems like the kind of guy who only wants to have sex with a girl. And no matter how sweet he sounds, I truly don't think it's worth it. I hope I helped. Good luck.
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um, hes not a good person you should be around let alone date. GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM.
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Oh, honey.
You need to tell this asshole to stop bothering you and get the hell out of your life. I know you probably still like him, but you gotta do it.
God, that's stupid. Not you, him. So you're 14, and you lost your virginity to this guy who got you pregnant, and you had a miscarriage, but never told him. He's SO stupid. He should've known you're way too young to deal with that kind of stuff. Hell, I'M too young to deal with it. I'm 16.
He's being a typical player, basically. How old is he?
I had this kind of problem with a guy when I was your age. The guy I dealt with, I dated for 2 months. My friends told me, months later, that all he wanted was to get into my pants.
Seems that this guy did the same thing to you, but actually succeeded.
You probably still like him 'cause he's hot! Lol. The bad-asses usually are. You have to get over him, though. If it helps, here's what I did:
I wrote hate letters, telling this guy how much I hated him, but never sent them. I wrote angsty poetry, filled to the brim with hate for him. I wrote songs about me yelling at him to get out of my life and stop torturing me. I made lists of everything to like and everything to hate about this guy, making sure there were more hate things than like things.
Try that. You have to convince youreself he's no good. Then you have to convince HIM to get the hell out of your life because all he could do is ruin it. Sorry to say it, but it's true.
Good luck. If you need more help, don't be afraid to ask for it. =)
-Siren =)
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Alright babe, I'm kinda in your position now...my stories on here somewhere. I was with a hardass guy too...I lost my virginity and I regret it now too. I want to hate him for hurting me too but you just can't. It's just something about your "first" that you'll never forget. Something...I don't know what but a few ppl I've talked to say they still have feelings for their first even though it was 2-3 years ago.....what I can tell you is keep your mind clear of him. And if ppl are bothering you and saying your not a virgin...someone told me to just pretend I was and tell everyone else you were...it makes you feel better...I know i didn't help though...just thought I'de tell ya that your not alone...you can talk to me anytime~
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That's pretty hard. It seems that he only wants you when he wants to hook up and you are better than that. Don't let him walk all over you by saying"you have pretty eyes" and then he goes behind your back and screws you over. It's not worth it, trust me!
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<span style="background: url([Link](Mouse over link to see full location); You are a very strong girl, I can't believe how much you went through. You know how sometimes we feel like no matter what the person has done you still think about him all the time? It happened to me before and I'm not sure if it happens to everyone at one point or another. But look how badly he's treating you babe. He does not deserve your love after what he has put you through. Do you still have everything he gave you? Throw everything out, it's hard but it helps. Getting over someone takes patience. Please don't think that you deserve him still, you really don't need a guy like that! You're weakened by what he did to you. Don't get yourself into that. Yes, people change. But how long has it been since you were with him? Hunnie you will know in your heart what it best for you. What he did to you is on the verge of a mental abuse. You all ready put of with a lot of shit from him, enjoy being single and find someone who cares so much for you! And loves you for who you are and won't say things behind your back. Take care and I wish you the best! Love ya -Mandee </span>
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