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i really want to go out and hang with my friendz and stuff and i like want to drink and smoke pot. but i dont know how to do that with out my mom and dad catching me.... i just wanna go out and have fun like every one else is having... plzzzzz help and i also wanna go out wit my boyfriend and have some fun with him.. but i can never get out of the house to do nething with my friendz or boy friend (link)
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Look, partying isn't life. The best way to have fun is to get out and join a couple of clubs/activities. Take a group of friends to the mall and try on weird outfits. Go ice skating/roller blading. Take a walk to a pond or a park and take pictures - see how they turn out! Honestly, you don't need drugs, alcohol, and sex to make you happy. Try something else.
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Hey im going to a brand new highschool this year and i am really nervous becuase what if i don't mkae any friends who am i going to six with at lunch?????i need help plz i rate!!! (link)
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Just try to be yourself, really. That way you'll make friends that fit you the best - ones you can talk to and share everything with. As for sitting by yourself at lunch - meet someone in one of your classes with the same lunch, and ask if you can sit with him/her. And, by the way, sitting by yourself isn't that bad, really. :)
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i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
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If he loves you, he'll accept you WITHOUT ginormous breasts. Besides, you shouldn't consider plastic surgery on anybody else's terms. Only yours.
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Hey..
I am jus wondering..what are some good songs out rite now that I can download?(They don't have to be that new or nething tho)..and I like all types of music! Thanks!(14 year old gurl) (link)
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A good site to download .wav files from is here: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=XaNgA_MuSiC
Have fun. :)
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I need to know who sings that song
" I don't wanna be anything other than
what I been tryin to be lately . All
I can do is think of me as a peace of
------- . I'm tired of lookin 'round
thinkin about what I gotta do or who I'm
supposed to be . I don't wanna be anything
other than me".
It's the song off of 'One Tree Hill' (link)
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Gavin Degraw sings it.
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hey..
What kinds of clothes and accessories do you suggest getting for back to school things? I am entering high school this year and I want to know what you all think! Also..it would be nice if you had any tips for fashion in high school or any tips on high school in general!? Thanks so much! (link)
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It's basically the same as junior high, except you'll want to be comfortable. And, if you want attention, try not to dress like everybody else. Seriously...
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Hey what is the best make-up for back to school?like what is the best
cover up/foundation/powder
eyeshadow
lip gloss
eyeliner
mascara??????????help!!!plz!!i rate:-]
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I would just go with a natural, easy, light look for back-to-school. I recommend Maybelline and Jane cosmetics - also Mark, Avon, and Mary Kay (these don't test on animals - YAY!).
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If you gave a guy head and he might have HIV..could you get them too? (link)
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Simply put: Yes.
By the way, it's not just blood-to-blood contact. It's bodily fluid contact of any kind that MIGHT spread the HIV virus.
You should probably go get tested - even if he doesn't have it. It's ALWAYS a good idea.
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ok, here it goes. i love writing. and not just writing, but expressing myself. its amazing what i can say to get everything out. the anger, the hate, the love, the happiness. every emotion known. i want to express myself through writing, but i am having such difficulty doing it. all of my emotions, problems, and stories are building up inside of me and i cant let them out on paper. i just go blank. i dont know what to write. but i WANT to so badly. please give me advice to solve my befuddling problem, or different ways i can express myself without becoming overwhelmed. everything is starting to built up inside of me. i just want to let it all out.
please help me
-overwhelmed (link)
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Do you have IM? Please, I want to help.
AIM: JenSparkles88
MSN: JenSparkles88@hotmail.com
Please, don't hesitate for ANYTHING. I'm open and willing. I know what you feel like, I understand. Just IM me, all right? Don't worry. Everything will be okay. Just calm down, sweetie. It'll be fine.
-Jen
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Sorry I'm not much help on here right now, but I'm in the middle of a crisis.
Let me try again:
Start venting to a friend (or me). Let everything flow. Just scream and bitch and whine and whatever the hell you want to do. It's hard to write when you don't know what you need to write about. Just SCREAM. It helps.
Next, save the conversation or something. Let it inspire you, and write down ANYTHING that comes to mind: words, lyrics, music, ANYTHING.
Releasing yourself is something that you need to do. If you can't find words, find voice, find colors, find the notes on an instrument, or find your feet in the middle of the woods in the dark night. Do SOMETHING. Being bored just adds to stress. Find something new to do.
I'd consider signing up for a kick-boxing class to get out anger, or invest in a punching bag. They help.
If you need more ideas, please, don't hesitate to IM me. I just want you to feel better. My mission is to make people happy when they need it most. I'm here for you.
-Jen
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I take it you do not like George Bush?
Haleigh Ann
*Elect Bush for President* (link)
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YES.
Wow, you really are sharp, aren't you?
AND NO! DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The only goddamn BUSH I love is my own!!! AAAAAARRRRGHHHHH!
*falls over*
You caught me at a REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY BAD TIME!
Don't reply. I will kick your ass. And not on purpose. But I will.
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Some moron sent this piece of poorly written tripe to me and everyone else who didn't completely agree with their narrow-minded opinion. Don't make a habit of this - it would be a shame to have to ban you from the site for harassment.
"Let me tell you somethin.
1)youre telling me that u think women should have the right to KILL their unborn child? thats wrong. under any circumstances. and dont tell me they arent alive in there yet. ive done SEVERAL research projects on it.
2)If we didnt go to war, the terrorists would just REPEAT what theyve already done to us thinking we wouldnt fight back. PLus, its not like those people are being forced to go to war. Its their choice to join the forces you dumbsh*t.
3)Youre right about not being able to choose who you love. And you shouldnt have to stop loving them just because you cant get married. ive also done research on this. theyre are many other factors on letting gays/lesbians marry than just letting them go to a chapel and confess their vows. in this country, along with getting married, theyre tax benefits and many things of that sort that SOME people..it would be possibe for them to be getting married just for those reasons. You might think that thats the same for male/female marriages but its not. its a long story and very confusing.
4)kerry is 'pro-choice'. bush..is pro-LIFRE...youre voting for somebody who says its okay to kill an unborn child when if you just put it up for adoption, you would be making another family very happy as well as be getting paid for the hospital bills. abortions are expencive. plus, kerry looks like his face is melting off but thats beside the point.
and your a comple dumbass cuz u have NO IDEA the things that sadaam did to the us and his country. he was killing thousands of people in gas chambers and torture cells just like in the hollocaust. and he was leading his country to make more attacks on the us. get your facts straight. also, gays and lesbians have been getting along FINE for MANY MANY MANY years so why change things now and make a bunch of controversy?? and kerry is against the death penalty. you know what that means? more people in prision. you know what THAT means? INNOCENT AMERICANS HAVE TO PAY MORE TAX DOLLARS TO PAY FOR THE PEOPLE IN PRISION TO BE COMFORTABLE AND NOT HUNGRY!! So, you wanna pay for murders to be 'comfortable'? i dont think so.
so u vote kerry?? u might wanna rethink that." (link)
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Dancergall, the point is that we DO NOT want people debating. And such.
Maybe you should discover what the *main idea* is before answering.
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Hi, this is MFS again.
If you come into the chat and people like myself, Jen, Fern, or Storage are in there, and we don't reply right away, it is likely because we aren't really there. We log in but are away. It happens. Often, I'll set my name to say something like "MFS|notHere" or "MFS|work". If you see that, then likely I'm just logged in and lurking.
The reason I say this is to demonstrate what happens when really stupid and immature people come into the chat:
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[19:22] hi,can sum1 gimme advice?????
[19:23] PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ?
[19:23] hello????
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[19:23] hey people
[19:23] can u plzzzzzzzzzzz help?
[19:24] does anyone know how to make your advicenators available on AIM?
[19:24] HELLO???????????????????
[19:24] God you guys suck ass
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[19:25] she/hes right!!!!!!!!!!! ppl cum in here to get advice and ur just like ...................................
[19:26] i bet both of yall are doing sumthin that i dont even wanna kno about
[19:26] fuck you!!!!!!!!!!!
[19:26] fuck you fuck you fuck you
[19:26] Yuck Fou! Fuck You!!!!
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Keep in mind, I can and will ban you from the chat for stupidity like that. We're not here to serve your every whim. We're here to help IF WE CAN. And hey, get this... some of us have LIVES.
Amazing.
Anyway, hardly anyone comes into the chat room - a few have, and we've had great conversations with them and even started to discuss a few issues. This chatroom is for the people of this site, particularly the frequent columnists, to talk to each other, get to know each other, and make this site a better place for everyone.
People who use it as way to act like asshats are not helping anyone, especially not themselves. (link)
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SERIOUSLY! Listen to the man! I'm sick of walking away for thirty seconds, coming back, and seeing, "OMG! HELLOOOOO! Lyke, ARR YEW HEEEERRRREEE??! FUCK YOU, BITCH!"
I'm away. So get over it.
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My names not important, but i've been cutting myself alot lately. It's really hard to stop. It just seem's liek its there for me when I'm down or depressed. I really need help but I don't want to tell my family. My familys falling apart already as it is and I don't want to add stress to anyone. It's just hard to stop. It just feels like something to bounce back on. Anybody have advice on what I could do to stop cutting myself.. maybe something else to do instead of that.. I dont know. Thanks alot. (F/14)
-depressed (link)
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There are many things:
-Dig a knife into wood
-Hammer stuff (wood, preferably)
-Make something
-Draw
-Paint
-Take pictures (my favorite)
-Write
If you need more advice, sweetie, just ask me. :-) Hope I helped!
Also, if you need more suggestions, ask me, as well. I have a list somewhere around here.
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Jen, I LOVE YOU! WO0)))))000)oOOo0oo)o0O0O !
You are the coolest person EVAR. (link)
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O_O
*twitches* Uhh...
Who's this?... (Anonymous thingies...)
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hey ummm well i have this friend and she is kool and everything but she also has some really really really annoying things about her that i CANT STAND!! well like she wants to hang out and all next yr in school but like she is a prep and i am a punk and idk it just isnt going to work. i think that i will be better off with out her. but rite now she thinks that i am like some kind of saint or something and she is always there. i dont want to hurt her feelings but how do i break off a good friendship that has been going for 2 years without her knowing that i dont really like her ? ? ? ? ? ? (link)
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People are people, not labels. You are both teens or pre-teens. Do what you want. If you think that it's a "good friendship that has been going for 2 years", I'd consider just keep going with it. If you are a good friend, you'll put up with your friend's "annoying thinks", also known as quirks. If you just can't handle it anymore, sit her down and talk to her. You NEED to tell her the truth; she has a right to know.
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when ur making out with a guy do you stick ur toung in his mouth or shuold he do it to you first? (link)
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Do what you want; there are no rules to kissing. You be decisive, and you decide.
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Sorry i forgot what day it is I mean 6/28/04 and I'm not lying.. you cana k him yourself if you'd like.. btu then he'd be a bitch about tellign me why did u give peopel my number.. ugh..
I hate dating (link)
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Okay then.
By the way, if you hate "dating" so much, why do you "date?" By the way, how old are you? I'd say that if you're anywhere from thirteen years old and under that you're probably too young to be in love... Let's put it this way: My twelve year old sister thinks she's in love. The last time she claimed she was, she had dumped the guy in three days because she supposedly loved this guy. By the way, twelve year olds don't need to be worried about love. Trust me... it comes soon enough when you least expect it and when you want it the least. No need to rush into anything. Maybe you should take some time to cool down.
By the way, I don't want to talk to him.
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My boyfriend always keeps breaking my heart.. well actully my x-boyfriend he dumped me 6/29/04
I feel so heartbroken.. why did he? He didnt give me a reason.. How do I erase him from my memory.. memories of me & him are all around..
it hurts so bad I need him to go away please make him go away.. Dont hurt him but just please... help me make him go away I cry whenever I think about him.. I cry whenever I see him.. I cry when I see somethign that is his.. I just cry and I cant stop.. I lvoe someone else but It's too soon to go for them and I dont even think he likes me.. but Alex is still on my mind and I cant let go
+tatteredWings+ :'( (link)
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You said it yourself...
You say you're in "love" with somebody else (you're really infatuated with this person because it's probably one-sided and short-lived), but you said that Alex is still on your mind, and you "can't let go."
A: Nobody can make him go away. You'll have to get him out of your own head.
B: I think your date is incorrect, sweetie, as it is 6/29/04 today. If it is not incorrect, you're lying about the whole thing.
C: What advice is there to give? You need to get over Alex and move on to another person. Don't dwell in the past.
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I would have to say people these days are very IMMATURE. (link)
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Definitely.
OMG!!! lykkke sooooo rate me!1 omg omg omgo omg!111!one!1!
One word:
CHILL.
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ok what side of the tampon do you put in first? (link)
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Do you just want to use AIM or MSN? It'll be easier, sweetie. Don't try the chat. MFS will get mad.
AIM: JenSparkles88
MSN: JenSparkles88@hotmail.com
I'll wait.
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