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i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
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If he loves you, he'll accept you WITHOUT ginormous breasts. Besides, you shouldn't consider plastic surgery on anybody else's terms. Only yours.
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I think that you should do whatever you feel comfortable doing. He should love you for you, and you should talk to him before deciding anything. If you dont, hopefully he will support that, and if you do..than good luck !
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if he really loved you the way you think he does, than he wouldnt have told you that you should get implants. He should love you and your body just the way it was made. if you are going to get implants than do it for YOU and not him! but if i were you i wouldnt. i read in a magazine that a lot of guys prefer it to be the real thing rather than the plastic sugery. One of the stories explained how he and this girl had sex in really hot weather but when he felt her fake breasts they were icecold and it really freaked him out. So if i were you i wouldnt get them unless you REALLY REALLY wanted too.
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i think you should do anything you want...dont let him be in control of you even if he is the one! you should do what you want to do..without him telling you! xox
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dont listen to him, obviously hes not THE ONE if he's pressuring u to change ur body. u r who u r
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don't do anything that you don't wanna do. And don't do it to just please him. It's changing the way you look, and if he isn't pleased with it, then .. Idk what the problem is. But if you really want to do it, and you think it's a good idea, then ... sure why not!
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You should only do it if YOU want to! Its YOUR body! You should have the choice whether or not you want! Remember if you DO get them, you have to replace them every 10 years or so! Hope I COULD HELP! :)
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I don`t think ur boyfriend should say things like that to you if hes not happy wiht ur boobs... forget him! lol... besides if u two plan on haven a future he needs to except ur boobies first!.. u dont need to change urself for a guy
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Dear God. Another man who has been spoiled by the likes of Playboy. A 34B is a nice bust size. Its not too big and not too small. Besides more than a handful is a waist. Getting implants is a personal decision and something that only you should want and not what your man wants. Do you really think its worth spending $6,000 to make your boobs one cup size smaller because if he's asking more than a C cup he's crazy. ALso, is it worth investing in plastic for one persons love. Its who you are on the inside not whats falling out of the bra.
If you're insecure with your bust try push up/padded bras. I'd reccomend Victorias Secret.
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No. Don't do it just to please him. Do it only if you want to.
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NO NO NO!!! tell him he cant control your life...that is not a small cup size and that is kinda shallow of him to tell you that if he wants to be in your future and loves you he wont care that you have a 34b cup size
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dear implants,
don't do it just to please him. if he really loves you it wouldn't matter to him. implants really change your life and you could get majorly
sick or even die from them. but if you do get them do it for you don't do it for him. if you want to i have some breast exercises that you can
do it will enlarge and firm them. so just let me know if you do. *~~~shana~~~*
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No.. if he isnt satisfied with you and your body then screw him-trix
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i think u should do what u think is best and not what ur bf thinks, I have herd sum bad stories about it ok like i dont want to freek u out but sum times after they r done they explode and sum times its just cuz of the bad doctor that never rilly went to medical skool so if u decide on doin it do ur reasurch first. i hope i helped
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Dont do it to please him. Maybe he is the one. but could you live with yourself doing that? i mean if he loves you enough then he will be fine with what you have :)
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i don't think ou should get implants to please him get them if you feel that you want them. you don't have to do everything you boyfriend says.... do it if you want not because he wants you to...
xoxo
short lil cutie
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Honey, I'm the same size you are, and my boobs aren't small.
I'm currently dating my "one," we talk about our future, and he likes me just the way I am. Never change to please a guy. He can learn to love everything about you.
If you're gonna get implants, get them to please YOURSELF. Not your guy. Are you happy with your size? If so, leave it alone.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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okay first of all if he wants u to get implants just to please him no no way if he loved you he would be happy with what you had
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if you dont wunna do it then dont do it. it hurts for a long time and they dont always look perfect. sumtimes they get rinkly so i wouldnt its really not a good idea. him being the one of not its not worth going thru so much main and then regreting it cuz the boobs can get rinkles no matter how old u r!! plz dont do it and if u need additional information feel free to email me im me etc.
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Personally, I don't think you should get implants unless you absolutely want to. Getting implants just to please him is not a good reason to get them. If you think you're going to be with him for the rest of your life and then later on in life decide that you want them then great but you're so young still and have plenty of time to think about this. I just think that you should give it some thought and then decide. I hope this helped!
Crystal
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Don't do it unless YOU want to. From your question, it doesn't sound like you really do. If pleasing him is the only reason you would get it done, that's not enough reason. He loves you for who you are, not for the size of your breasts.
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I wouldnt do it if I were you. His love for you probably isn't based on the size of your breasts. If he brings it up too often then you should start trying to convince him to pierce his penis, that should shut him up.
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No dont to it to please him if u r gunna do it then do it for you not him u kno and he should love u the way you r!! hope my advice helps
GOOD LUCK!!
....>> Caitlin <<....
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wow, your boyfriend is really superficial if he wants you to get implants. do not do something just to please him! its not his body and if he cant handle you the way you are, you need 2 leave him! he's so not worth your trouble if he's like that. tell him how you feel about him saying these things about your body. he's not worth it if he pressures you into doing that
xoxo
ali
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Dont just do it for him... but if you want implants :) go for it! Good luck!
-holly-
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If you are comfortable with your size don't change it, but if you feel you want the implants too then get them
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it depends..do you want them..you should do it only if you want to because no matter what it is your body not his..
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i dont think that u should only get implants to "please" him, because this is a decision that will effect YOUR life more than it will his. get implants done if you're willing to do it for yourself, as well as for your boyfriend. or atleast talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about the issue. if you really think that he is the one, then your opinion should be very important to him.
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If he thinks you need breast implants, then I think he needs a brain implant. There's nothing wrong with smaller breasts, and B are probably closer to the average anyway. You need to ask yourself, are the risks involved with getting implants worth it? I wouldn't think they would be. Seems rather superficial to me.
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Don't do anything unless you want to... I understand that you think hes the one and you want to please him... but what happens if hes not.. then what would you do?,especially if you don't like them and you only got them for him. Be happy with your body... and your b/f should be to. And if you decide not to and you tell him and that makes him angry then maybe hes not the one.Plus your only 18.. you have so much more time before the future really happens and takes place. Plus theres alot of risks with that and if your happy with them.. then just be yourself with the boobs that you have. You were made the way you were made and no one should tell you to change that unless you absolutely want to.. So if YOU want to get implants.. so be it.. but make sure the choice is completely yours .. NOT his.He should love you and accept you.. no matter what your bra size is.
If you need anymore advice leave on in my inbox or im me :)
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Should you do it just to please him?? No way!! If this is something you're willing to do though, then go for it, but if YOU decide to get implants, it should be becaue YOU feel it would boost your self-esteem, not to please other people!! I wish you the best of luck! Take care! =D
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only do it if it's to please your self, your a perfect size
plus it's REALLY EXPENSIVE, your 18, u have your WHOLE life ahead of you, if u want to get implants do it for yourslef, not for him, remember terrible things could happen
my friend justin, well his mom got implants, and now they're lopsided, one of the jelly things popped, and now it's gunna cost her $5,000 just to fill it back up, and fix it
even if u were to get implants, wut are u gunna get, DD's are too big, u'll get stretch marks and hurt ur back, unless ur gunna get like a c34 or sumthin there isn't much of a point, don't do it to please him, u mite not even end up with him
if u want to do it, do it for YOU
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